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RE: Cuckold; Where are all the Dommes that want this? - 5/27/2008 8:59:35 AM

Missokyst

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I am glad I am not a dominant. Win/win? Maybe for him. But I like sex when I am involved with someone. Why bother with someone who wishes denial, when it is just as easy to find someone who loves sex?
I have to admit.. that denial fetish is over my head.
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RE: Cuckold; Where are all the Dommes that want this? - 5/27/2008 9:00:33 AM

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Well denial is okay for a few minutes, Miss!

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RE: Cuckold; Where are all the Dommes that want this? - 5/27/2008 10:04:44 AM

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We're around. lol

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RE: Cuckold; Where are all the Dommes that want this? - 5/27/2008 10:28:25 AM

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It's a distance thing, sweetie.

Poly is way easier, eh?

Sometimes, in th right situation.

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RE: Cuckold; Where are all the Dommes that want this? - 5/27/2008 12:40:52 PM

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I'm right here.
I dream about it a lot. But it will be a long time until I cuck my dear boy, if ever. And if I do, it will only be done in his presence, for his express humiliation, but with a bull I also care for deeply. There are a couple of boys I can think of here on CM, who might fit the bill nicely. (Perv both pages of my nasty journal, for some of my sweet dreams about cuckolding...)

Done properly, cuckolding could be a great gift to all involved. One that cements the love and devotion between the Domme and cuckold, and satisfies the bull's needs very nicely as well.

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RE: Cuckold; Where are all the Dommes that want this? - 5/27/2008 12:43:27 PM

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Being cuckolded is the ultimate in submission.

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RE: Cuckold; Where are all the Dommes that want this? - 5/27/2008 12:53:09 PM

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There is no ultimate in submission. There is an ultimate when it comes to -your- submission. One person's ultimate act of submission may be meaningless to somebody else.

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RE: Cuckold; Where are all the Dommes that want this? - 5/27/2008 12:59:23 PM

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No shit.

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RE: Cuckold; Where are all the Dommes that want this? - 5/27/2008 1:52:51 PM

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No shit.

Yes. Giving up all bowel movement is the ultimate form of submission.

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RE: Cuckold; Where are all the Dommes that want this? - 5/27/2008 8:52:53 PM

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I'd suggest that you might have more luck encountering women open to playing the cuckhold fantasy amongst swingers than kink folk. I find there's a strong bias against men participating in actual sex amongst the heterosexual BDSM community. Not a complaint (for or against) just an observation. Scenes in a dungeon where women are playing are usually hot; the moment a penis appears (in any state other than flaccid and beaten) there tends to be a strong reaction against.

Just sayin.

Stephan

Interesting comment (I'm absorbing it)....

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RE: Cuckold; Where are all the Dommes that want this? - 5/27/2008 9:04:07 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Gris, there are a couple ladies in the Mistress Zone who do this kind of thing well....maybe you can get this thread moved and ask them!

I am not creeped out by this kink, it's the notion that my primary isn't "good enough" and I have to look elsewhere that messes with my mind. Why would I have a second-rate primary, anyway? Now, looking back, I did a fun voyeur scene with my slave and a fuckbuddy that was very entertaining for us all, but no one got any kind of less-than role.

In the one relationship that I know of where this does work, I almost hate to call it cuckolding, because in the day to day, it works out that SHE is poly, he is not. She comes home to him, has full use of him, the whole nine yards. From what I have observed, this is one of those kinks where the players expand the definition to suit themselves, and good for them! Me...it''s hard enough for me to find ONE guy I can put up with, let alone two!. eeh! >)

LadyHibiscus,

I think you posted something akin to this a while back...either related to a direct cuckold post, or a derivative....

I appreciate what you said...and I think you said it very well.

It's easy to get fixed on an opinion on this kind of thing...Michael was objective too.

Ya know...this is my kink, and while I occasionally like talking about it...that's all those women in the "Mistress Zone" want to do...extend an arm, in the hopes of hooking you for some function (for the pay ladies...no negatives meant to those who sincerely want to discuss lifestyles...you know who you are)....

I sometimes wish it wasn't my kink. I wish I could be "normal" like others....(then again...who's "normal" on our street?)...

I recognize that this would be a very difficult life...I can't imagine it (with really mentally capable people) being anything other than...moreover anything other than what I envision.

SimplyMichael is right....it's probably very rare that it works out...I bet it's basically a Moon shot...and it has to have some overwhelming shackles attached to it as well...you too MadamaHibiscus :) I see it. Some of the potential things I don't want to look at...(Hell of a screen name, by the way)....

I just know what makes me whole...what makes me jazzed to come home....(and that, for some incredibly odd reason...does it).

Like I said...I wish I could be more "normal" sometimes...

I think I'll find her someday.

(I might be 93 and can't fuck worth a shit...but I'm willing to wait :) )

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RE: Cuckold; Where are all the Dommes that want this? - 5/27/2008 10:36:11 PM

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Uh, here's a Domme who is into cuckholding. Not sure what's meant by Win-Win here because some people just arent into that, so it wouldnt be thier idea of a win.

For me its not so much that your primary isnt "Good enough" its just that you don't really want them for sex. They make a great partner in other ways, but ther isnt much fire in the bedroom. or maybe cuckholding is how you keep the fire allive. Or you just enjoy the power exchange of being allowed to have sex with whoever you want but they can't.

Also I'd like to put out there that "Bulls" arent so great outside the bedroom. I've dated some bulls, and let me tell you, they make crappy boyfriends.
So I guess cuckholding for Me boils down to getting what you want, from who you want it from. And nothing more, nothing less.
This is really emotionally dangerous stuff though, even if you are both into it.

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RE: Cuckold; Where are all the Dommes that want this? - 5/28/2008 1:51:34 AM

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greetings

i am sick of this ideal that the male slave think every domme wants someone to suck the come of them that was put there by another man nop i do not and will not have that kind of thing with the new slave i choice . do not assume all domme are the same we are not. we are as different as day and night and i for one think it is no a good think . i had a slave who thought that it would be so exciting to have just any male come and have sex and he gets a treat, now not only was that a dangerous thing but dieases and stranger who ma harm me or him. i drop him fast and i guess he found a domme who was willingly to do this but not me . i do not harm anything slaves at all

now rethink this not everyone is the same if they like this fine i find nothing wrong with in reason with someone esle kink. it not for me

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RE: Cuckold; Where are all the Dommes that want this? - 5/28/2008 2:11:30 AM

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I haven't read it all, but it seems to me it's the cuck that has the hard part of dealing with it emotionally. But if you can handle that no problem, why should the Domme have such a hard time? They don't have to deal with jealousies, and they're allowed the freedom to bring home any male they want. So, yes, if the cuck is emotionally strong enough, it does sound like a win-win for you, unless women are not into sexual variety. But THAT I won't believe given that there are as many female cheaters as there are male cheaters.

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RE: Cuckold; Where are all the Dommes that want this? - 5/28/2008 8:06:38 AM

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ORIGINAL: SleepyDom

I haven't read it all, but it seems to me it's the cuck that has the hard part of dealing with it emotionally. But if you can handle that no problem, why should the Domme have such a hard time? They don't have to deal with jealousies, and they're allowed the freedom to bring home any male they want. So, yes, if the cuck is emotionally strong enough, it does sound like a win-win for you, unless women are not into sexual variety. But THAT I won't believe given that there are as many female cheaters as there are male cheaters.

I think that I disagree Sleepy dom first though I have to confess that I have no experience and minimal knowledge of how cucking works. I agree that the cuck may experience difficulty in accepting his role or place, he may feel humiliated. However the Domme also is juggling two types of relationships at the same time, wouldn't she also be ensuring her cuck is feeling ok or does he need to feel more humiliated and setting any boundaries for both the bull and the cuck. I think it would be quite hard work for all of them.

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RE: Cuckold; Where are all the Dommes that want this? - 5/28/2008 8:55:12 AM

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Therefore the IF. IF the cuck is strong enough to handle it so the Domme doesn't have to worry about it, THEN ... The bull is not a relationship; at least doesn't have to be. He can be just some one night stand or fuck buddy, whatever the Domme feels like.

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RE: Cuckold; Where are all the Dommes that want this? - 5/28/2008 9:09:33 AM

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OH, it's your kink! Shoot, why didn't you say so, Gris, now I can pick your brain!!

But because this could be TMI, watch for CMail!

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RE: Cuckold; Where are all the Dommes that want this? - 5/28/2008 10:13:54 PM

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OH, it's your kink! Shoot, why didn't you say so, Gris, now I can pick your brain!!

But because this could be TMI, watch for CMail!

Indeed, it is mine...I've been sued logistically before...this won't be any new news.

I have a few unusual oddities in my perspective on life...this being one of several. (sue me...I'm a guy...we're all into...oh well...everything, actually).

I'm not at all interested in dressing up in diapers (not, of course that there's anything wrong with that...although...truthfully...that one elludes me)...or anything other than that focuses any attempt at discerning how leather fits on a well structured woman.

I'm not into swinging by a rope vine, nekkid, while they sing the national anthem (although if it involves rolling around, naked, in a room full of 20's...I'm golden on that one). I actually love our country, however...if you're interested in watching me nekkid...I may have to call my attorneys on you.

I truly don't get the whole (my) "wearing a bra" thing...or heels.

(If you do, however...I'm all good with that).

I actually lost my own number...and...

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RE: Cuckold; Where are all the Dommes that want this? - 5/29/2008 1:12:10 AM

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there are many many posts on Cuckolding in the POLY community.

in regards to this thread I think VmistressV made a summed up pretty well that having a primary as the cuck, since he is a great life partner in so many other ways... but bringing in the bull who is great in bed but not much else...

also I think there is a line between the fantasy and the reality of the situation. and that can be that in the fantasy you "never" sleep with the cuck... in reality you Very Rarely sleep with the cuck.

or why does it alway have to be about pure sex(intercourse) perhaps you never sleep with your cuck but you use vibrators and lube and dildos to get each other off. so there is still sexual satisfaction but the cuckold fantasy is fulfilled by only having intercourse between the Domme and the Bull.

cheers
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RE: Cuckold; Where are all the Dommes that want this? - 5/31/2008 7:50:14 AM

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Cuckolding is having Your cake and eating it too. It is a win / win because You have Your Bull now wile,. keeping Your cuck for the long haul as well. Being a beautiful Domme gives You the unalienable right to indulge for Your Owen sexual gratification while,... You forbid Your sub/slave/cuch any sexual gratification. To me cuckolding would be the ultimate form of power over Your sub, keeping him focused on You.

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ORIGINAL: VMistressV

Uh, here's a Domme who is into cuckholding. Not sure what's meant by Win-Win here because some people just arent into that, so it wouldnt be thier idea of a win.

For me its not so much that your primary isnt "Good enough" its just that you don't really want them for sex. They make a great partner in other ways, but ther isnt much fire in the bedroom. or maybe cuckholding is how you keep the fire allive. Or you just enjoy the power exchange of being allowed to have sex with whoever you want but they can't.

Also I'd like to put out there that "Bulls" arent so great outside the bedroom. I've dated some bulls, and let me tell you, they make crappy boyfriends.
So I guess cuckholding for Me boils down to getting what you want, from who you want it from. And nothing more, nothing less.
This is really emotionally dangerous stuff though, even if you are both into it.

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