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Shoe and foot worship - 5/27/2008 9:51:08 AM   
shoeworshipguy


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i have recently found my Mistress and have a question to ask other Mistresses. i found her through this site. she is amazing and i never thought i would find someone like her. i took her shopping yesterday for clothes and shoes. please note this is an aspect of bdsm i adore i am not being taken for a ride before anyone says. she did not demand it i was the one who suggested it. she is very genuine. what i would like to ask is, are there any other Mistresses out there who genuinely enjoy the worship of their shoes and feet? or is it a mundane event that you have no real enjoyment from? she seems really into and likes her shoes really well worshipped otherwise she wont let me get up. im so happy i found her, im on such a buzz right now. any replies appreciated.

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RE: Shoe and foot worship - 5/27/2008 11:22:37 AM   
WalterRego


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Status: offline 		If you found this "amazing"  Mistress who is so into what you are  and who has created such a happy buzz, and you are convinced she is genuine.......why are you asking if there are any other women who enjoy what she does?

Just concentrate on her and find out all the other things she likes  (and that you might find you like) besides shoe worship so that this can continue. Remember, she is a woman  not just a mannequin for your shoe worship

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RE: Shoe and foot worship - 5/27/2008 11:29:06 AM   
shoeworshipguy


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Status: offline 		what surpise i knew id get a response like that, unless you can stop shooting down everyones dreams and criticising people then i suggest you get lost.

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RE: Shoe and foot worship - 5/27/2008 11:32:18 AM   
IdiotMale


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Status: offline 		From my own personal experience,there are women who love making/having a guy/slave worship,lick their shoes clean etc. It is in their minds and also alot of us slaves,one of the ultimate forms of power,humiliation and control.

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RE: Shoe and foot worship - 5/27/2008 11:33:42 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: shoeworshipguy

what surpise i knew id get a response like that, unless you can stop shooting down everyones dreams and criticising people then i suggest you get lost.


how did WalterRego shoot down your dreams? What he said made alot of sense...your new Mistress is not defined by her feet or what she puts them in. The attraction is there for both of you so now the learning process begins....


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RE: Shoe and foot worship - 5/28/2008 2:01:46 AM   
petpete


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Status: offline 		Well here i am adding my two bob since i am a show and foot fetishist. i will agree very much with the answers you got and i will also say that Walter gave You his own valid opinion as you ask to have. Personally i don't think its something that most Dommes like. As You can read from profiles there are Dommes that may find this repulsive but as IM answered its more a symbolic act of humility and power to the Domme having to have a slave or sub submitting in this graphic way.

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RE: Shoe and foot worship - 5/28/2008 2:32:06 AM   
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ORIGINAL: shoeworshipguy

what surpise i knew id get a response like that, unless you can stop shooting down everyones dreams and criticising people then i suggest you get lost.


If you knew you'd get a response like that, why did you need to comment on it? You ask questions in the forum, people will respond. It may not be the response you want, but that's not the posters problem. Don't want responses? Don't ask a question. Simple. You said any replies appreciated, so suck it up.

My thoughts on your Mistress, her feet and shoes is this: A Mistress is a whole woman, not just a pair of feet. Don't be one of those subs who is so elated in one part of worship he becomes a pest about it. Even if your Mistress adores it, she'll adore a whole lot of other things too.

I LOVE my high heeled boots and shoes and I adore having my feet rubbed, but the whole shoes licking thing does nothing for me, except when I'm flexing my "power" muscles.

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RE: Shoe and foot worship - 5/28/2008 6:32:43 AM   
MsStarlett


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Status: offline 		I love my shoes!  I enjoy a sub who loves my shoes.  I relish a sub who buys me shoes.  But that's not my main objective.  It's only a part of the puzzle.  Can't say how common it is to find a Domme who pigeon holes her kinks as specifically as some subs do.  Heck, I'm HERE to expand my horizons and learn as much as I can.  I've changed my mind about several things in the few months that I've been discussing other kinks with people.

OP, I don't think Walter was trying to chastise you about what you like, rather just pointing out that you should be happy that you found a Domme who makes you happy. 

Unless you want to buy me shoes... then I'll happily tempt you away.  *evil giggles*




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< Message edited by MsStarlett -- 5/28/2008 6:34:04 AM >

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RE: Shoe and foot worship - 5/28/2008 7:20:38 AM   
Mustardseed


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Status: offline 		Foot and shoe worship as my main kink? No. As a small part of the spectrum? Yes. If in addition to other well-done tasks a submissive wants to:
  • buy me flat or very low-heeled boots
  • go searching for comfortable walking shoes I actually like
  • apply his pedicure, massage, reflexology and/or other training to my feet
  • apply his boot polishing, bootblacking, weatherproofing and/or repair skills to my boots and shoes
  • accept detailed instruction in the oral worship of my feet, great (ie, no shrimping, I find abrasion play relaxing, etc.)

-- I'll happily accept it. I don't expect it and it's not a major fantasy of mine, so it'd happen per my jones for it and within the bounds of my interests, not my submissive's.

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RE: Shoe and foot worship - 5/28/2008 9:43:25 AM   
WalterRego


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Status: offline 		I hadn't meant, shoeguy, to trample or stomp on your desires, only point out the path to keeping them fulfilled. Not many people have only one thing which will arouse them and far more men have a shoe or boot fetish than women. (Most women's shoe fetish is usually satisfied by the ~ to us ~ more mundane aspects of buying, wearing and keeping closets full of them. LOL). Even most of those who enjoy shoe worship would probably prefer your tongue, at some point, to be utilzed elsewhere as well.

And I wasn't criticisng your interest in shoes either. I've always had a shoe and boot fetish, and nothing used to turn me on at the beginning of a session or when greeting a Mistress, like getting down on my knees and kissing the toe or heel of her shoe. And  foot or a heel placed on my back or neck is still instantly arousing. Somewhere along the way though, it expanded to the joy of worshiping and massaging actual feet. Today it's only one part of what turns me on, but it still does.

I still think, though, if you've found one lady who shares your interest in shoe worship it shouldn't concern you whether others do. The way you phrased your post struck me as if you were already looking for others and also that you were only interested in her to the extent she satisfied your desire to worship her shoes. If that was or is it, even you might find it getting old quickly. 

So...what was it like driving to the shoe store with her? Walking in the mall together? Did you to grab a bite to eat afterwards (or after you got home and kissed her shoes?). Did you sit around later, talking as you were on your knees arranging them in the closet for her, or polishing the ones she already had?  

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RE: Shoe and foot worship - 5/28/2008 11:37:17 AM   
Steponme73


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Status: offline 		Shoeguy...I think Walter has a point.  Your new Mistress may like to have her shoes and boots kissed and licked and you should do whatever she tells you to do.  But remember, you are her's to do with as she pleases...So you may find yourself doing other things for her, that have nothing to do with her feet.  She is a whole person as Miss Magnolia pointed out.  So enjoy being a servant to her, enjoy doing whatever it is she asks for.   It will make life much more exciting!  Who knows you might just find a new kink that you like too!

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RE: Shoe and foot worship - 5/29/2008 7:50:41 AM   
LadyLynx


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Status: offline 		I think of it more, as a Christian might ask if there are any other Christians around.  Wanting to know out of curiousity, hoping some would share some of their stories/travels.  Maybe alittle bit of asking for validation.

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RE: Shoe and foot worship - 5/29/2008 9:54:43 AM   
ShaktiSama


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Status: offline 		There was actually one woman here who posted that her submissive was capable of giving her an orgasm with his worship of her feet!  And I've known a number of women who had an unnatural love for or fetish for shoes--it's one of the most common shopping addictions for women to have, isn't it?  Different women love their shoes or heels for diffrent reasons, but when it's a sexual thing, it generally boils down to the well-known fact that high heels make women sexy and men hard.  For a foot or shoe fetishist, that general principle is magnified:  high heels make those men crazy.

Anyhoo...obviously the general answer to the OP's question is "Yes, there are women who have a fetish for their own feet and shoes.  And yes, there are women who will get a lot of dominant pleasure just from having shoes bought for them, wearing those shoes for someone who worships them, or humiliating men with their feet and shoes."  I think it might also be helpful to make an additional point here, though, because a woman does not have to have a perfectly matching set of fetishes with her submissive in order to enjoy making her submissive crazy.  I don't have to have a foot or shoe fetish myself to enjoy teasing a man's erection with the sole of my boot or placing my bare foot into his capable hands for a massage.  I just have to be able to enjoy his shudder of submissive pleasure as I deliberately trigger his fetish.

It seems to me that a lot of posts to this forum have a forlorn tone, as submissive men ask over and over "Is there such a thing as a woman who enjoys my fetish?"  In a lot of ways, these men are missing the point.  Even a woman who enjoys a particular fetish may not enjoy it with every man who has that fetish, or want to play with it all the time.  And a woman who is generally neutral or indifferent toward a certain fetish may enjoy it tremendously on occasion, when she's playing with the right submissive. 

Also, there seems to be a general hope or assumption that somehow, fetishes will operate the same way for dominants that they do for submissives--i.e., a dominant man or woman with a certain fetish will be controlled by it, or need nothing beyond the that fetish to be aroused or happy.  I can say with absolute certainty that this is not the case for me, and it hasn't been the case for any other dominant I've known personally, male or female.  Yes, we all absolutely have fetishes!  But the ultimate fetish for a dominant seems to be power and control, and that seems to give us a more cagey relationship to random sexual acts, clothing etc. that might push our buttons. 

In any case, there are two equally valid paths to sexual dominance over another human being:  one involves making a submissive suffer through ordeals or perform acts that he or she genuinely doesn't enjoy, because those things please the dominant; the other involves finding every button and lever that triggers arousal and pleasure in the submissive, and controlling him or her through those states.  Different dominants follow these two paths in different ways and to different degrees.  I personally tend to emphasize the latter, when it comes to Play Time; I never feel at all obligated to indulge a fetish, but I enjoy triggering them and exploring them on my own terms, because I enjoy making people writhe in ecstasy.  Dominants who emphasize the path of suffering are much less interested in a bottom's needs or desires, except to the degree that they can make the bottom suffer through knowledge of those needs and desires.  In other words, the more you say "I want or need X"....the more such a dominant will smile and say "No, I don't think so."

Upshot is--it's always a wonderful thing when two people have a matching fetish.  But not every fetish has to match perfectly for the relationship to work and be mutually pleasurable.  And not every dominant has a style that emphasizes fetishes that are pleasurable to the submissive!  Some dominants are interested only in their own fetishes, and enjoy those fetishes all the more if the submissive does not.

       

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RE: Shoe and foot worship - 5/29/2008 10:12:22 AM   
MladyHathor


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Status: offline 		Yes! That's why I have My feet done every two weeks and go barefoot around the house--as for shoe worship---well when I do wear shoes most of the time its My riding boots and those can get a bit nasty---but My feet---YES!! cuz My feet are attached to long legs, attached to nice hips, attached to--well you get the picture.
 


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RE: Shoe and foot worship - 5/29/2008 10:30:00 AM   
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Yes! That's why I have My feet done every two weeks and go barefoot around the house--as for shoe worship---well when I do wear shoes most of the time its My riding boots and those can get a bit nasty---but My feet---YES!! cuz My feet are attached to long legs, attached to nice hips, attached to--well you get the picture.
 



Yes, a lovely picture indeed!
 
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Dem Sexy Bones! - 5/29/2008 11:35:15 AM   
WalterRego


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MladyHathor

Yes! That's why I have My feet done every two weeks and go barefoot around the house--as for shoe worship---well when I do wear shoes most of the time its My riding boots and those can get a bit nasty---but My feet---YES!! cuz My feet are attached to long legs, attached to nice hips, attached to--well you get the picture.
 



The foot bone con-nected to the  leg-bone,
The leg bone connected to the  knee bone,
The knee bone connected to the  thigh bone,
The thigh bone connected to the  back bone,
The back bone connected to the  neck bone
The neck bone connected to the  head bone
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RE: Dem Sexy Bones! - 5/29/2008 2:12:51 PM   
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Sounds like your interested in Sexy Bones!?

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RE: Dem Sexy Bones! - 5/29/2008 5:00:04 PM   
WalterRego


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Status: offline 		Only if they are covered with sexy, soft, voluptuous, delicious skin like my Mistress's. Then they make all 20 phalanges tingle and excite me from the top of my parietal to the end of my coccyx.

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RE: Shoe and foot worship - 6/15/2008 7:41:11 AM   
BlairWitchPerth


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Status: offline 		Hey shoeworshipguy.  Glad to hear you have found what sounds like the woman of your dreams.  I happily live with my slave 24/7 who is well known in the local BDSM Perth community for his foot/shoe/boot/sandals fetishes.  I absolutely adore him for it.  To know that I can tease, tantalise, reward and punish him by letting him either worship my feet or withold that reward is one of my ultimate pleasures.  To have a man who I can drag out of bed in the middle of the nite to come and kneel before me, head bowed,  while I go and pee and put his hands out palms up and gently hold me feet so they don't get cold on the floor is a dream come true or have him slip my shoes off when we are out and massage them or offer his services to massage a friend's feet makes me so proud (not to mention having who loves to paint my toe nails).  I love nothing better than to have him lick and kiss my feet and shoes.  Yes he keeps them clean from top to bottom and I love watching him work - turning my foot this way and that so that he can lick them clean and instructing him on any spots he has missed.  We both go "shoe gazing" when we are out - enjoying the site of lovely shoes being worn and laugh at some of the atrocaties out there.  We are on a wonderful journey - to be able to come to orgasm by having him worship and adore me through my feet makes me feel like an absolute Princess. 

Is it all of our relationship?  No - but I did not get an indication from your post that this was all you found attractive about her - it's just one aspect of  many facets of your relationship, no doubt.  Enjoy the adventure my friend and all the best to you and your lovely Mistress.

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RE: Shoe and foot worship - 6/15/2008 5:00:41 PM   
MISTRESSKUMA


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quote:

ORIGINAL: shoeworshipguy

hi all

i have recently found my Mistress and have a question to ask other Mistresses. i found her through this site. she is amazing and i never thought i would find someone like her. i took her shopping yesterday for clothes and shoes. please note this is an aspect of bdsm i adore i am not being taken for a ride before anyone says. she did not demand it i was the one who suggested it. she is very genuine. what i would like to ask is, are there any other Mistresses out there who genuinely enjoy the worship of their shoes and feet? or is it a mundane event that you have no real enjoyment from? she seems really into and likes her shoes really well worshipped otherwise she wont let me get up. im so happy i found her, im on such a buzz right now. any replies appreciated.

best wishes



I feel you on that and I like it too. But I think the argument can be made that foot fetishes are a subtler and more pervasive manifestation of shoe fetishization. As far as feet goes... I have slight foot... but strong boot fetish... I love high heel leather boots... that just drives me nuts. And my toes being licked after being in them all day. Woohoo!


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