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NewKnotTyer -> Anyone else constantly horny? (5/29/2008 10:05:25 AM)
OK, so heres the deal: I have an extra Y chromosome, which makes my testosterone roughly 5 times as high as it should be. That being said, in a given day, Im aroused on some level 23.5 hours of the day. Some days its better (or worse) than others. At work? Im horny. Watching The Office? Im all hot and bothered (Pam doesnt help matters). Ive been at funerals and been massively turned on. Its to the point that I actually wished it would go away. For example, my ex and I would be enjoying some quality time, not anything sexual, just enjoying each others company, being affectionate, and I would have this urge, almost something I could feel inside me (like feeling love) that would want more. Ive gotten pretty good at remembering that just because it seems like a good idea to me, doesnt make it so. I truly feel sorry for the last three girls Ive dated, and the older I get (Im 27) the worse (or better) its gotten. I digress. The point is, I know the extra chromosome may have something to do with it, but it cant be the whole cause. This is something that runs straight to my core. Just like some people have blue eyes, or red hair, its who I am. I spend waaay too many hours a day thinking about "fun" Ive had in the past, or just how hard I could make some random girl cum. Far too many times its to the point where I cant concentrate or function properly, if at all. My ex (the horniest girl Ive ever come across) was somehow able to quell it and carry on, at least until the urge could be addressed, Im not so lucky. It ended up being too much for even her. So, are there any of you out there like me or, like I suspect, am I just nuts?

cyberdude611 -> RE: Anyone else constantly horny? (5/29/2008 10:14:04 AM)
Just find yourself a nympho or two and be happy...

christine1 -> RE: Anyone else constantly horny? (5/29/2008 10:14:48 AM)
nope, i'm not horny that often but when i was younger i was....i suspect if i didn't have the stress of everyday life and it's worries it might be different.

Mercnbeth -> RE: Anyone else constantly horny? (5/29/2008 10:15:11 AM)
You are not alone. Before meeting Master, it wasn't something that was received well by this slave's previous relationship and/or sexual partners. the medical community, bless their little hearts, has come up with a name for it...for women, at least. Persistent Sexual Arousal Syndrome

DomAviator -> RE: Anyone else constantly horny? (5/29/2008 10:24:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NewKnotTyer That being said, in a given day, Im aroused on some level 23.5 hours of the day. Some days its better (or worse) than others. At work? Im horny. Watching The Office? Im all hot and bothered (Pam doesnt help matters). Ive been at funerals and been massively turned on. Only 23.5??? Better get on some vitamin V .... Hello youre male! Thats what we do... As for funerals, Ive gotten some primo tang at funerals... Seems it makes women realize their mortality and a few well chosen "you never know, and should live every moment like it could be your last" comments and the panties hit the floor. [:)] Don't sweat it. When I was your age I would fuck a rattlesnake if someone would hold the head. [:D] I mean even now that Im 40 I go for quality over quantity. I am now a trophy hunter instead of a meat hunter LOL. Before I will fuck her a woman has to meet my standards - which are fairly high. However, I still realize that right this very moment somewhere a baby girl is being born who will be sucking my dick in 18 years... It has nothing to do with extra chromosones or being abnormal... If it troubles you that much, join the Navy and you can have three or four women a day without even trying...

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Anyone else constantly horny? (5/29/2008 10:28:21 AM)
all men are constantly horny. even priests!

Asherdelampyr -> RE: Anyone else constantly horny? (5/29/2008 10:30:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NewKnotTyer OK, so heres the deal: I have an extra Y chromosome, which makes my testosterone roughly 5 times as high as it should be. That being said, in a given day, Im aroused on some level 23.5 hours of the day. Some days its better (or worse) than others. At work? Im horny. Watching The Office? Im all hot and bothered (Pam doesnt help matters). Ive been at funerals and been massively turned on. Its to the point that I actually wished it would go away. For example, my ex and I would be enjoying some quality time, not anything sexual, just enjoying each others company, being affectionate, and I would have this urge, almost something I could feel inside me (like feeling love) that would want more. Ive gotten pretty good at remembering that just because it seems like a good idea to me, doesnt make it so. I truly feel sorry for the last three girls Ive dated, and the older I get (Im 27) the worse (or better) its gotten. I digress. The point is, I know the extra chromosome may have something to do with it, but it cant be the whole cause. This is something that runs straight to my core. Just like some people have blue eyes, or red hair, its who I am. I spend waaay too many hours a day thinking about "fun" Ive had in the past, or just how hard I could make some random girl cum. Far too many times its to the point where I cant concentrate or function properly, if at all. My ex (the horniest girl Ive ever come across) was somehow able to quell it and carry on, at least until the urge could be addressed, Im not so lucky. It ended up being too much for even her. So, are there any of you out there like me or, like I suspect, am I just nuts? There is always at least some part of my mind that is looking around for sex... Id suggest picking up a hobby, I do chain mail now, and it helps keep me sane

Irishknight -> RE: Anyone else constantly horny? (5/29/2008 10:31:05 AM)
LOL I picked up a girl at a funeral and dated her for the next 3 years. It was entirely unintentional on my part. I was actually trying to be good.

slaveboyforyou -> RE: Anyone else constantly horny? (5/29/2008 10:56:27 AM)
XYY syndrome is not connected to hypersexuality according to the studies I have read about it. At one time XYY syndrome was thought to be connected to a propensity for violence and criminal behavior, but that has largely been debunked. From what you described, it sounds like sexual addiction to me. All men think about sex a lot. We are wired that way. But when your need for sex interferes with your responsibilities, it's a problem. It's like any other addiction. You may very well have some genetic predisposition to it, but addiction is mostly rooted in environmental factors. There are sexual addiction support groups out there. A lot of them are based on the 12 step program. If you really are concerned enough about it, than you should look some of them up in your area.

DomAviator -> RE: Anyone else constantly horny? (5/29/2008 10:59:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slaveboyforyou There are sexual addiction support groups out there. A lot of them are based on the 12 step program. If you really are concerned enough about it, than you should look some of them up in your area. 12 step program? Sounds good... Pick up 12 women and bang them till they can hardly walk... Then back of jack off and get 12 more LOL

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Anyone else constantly horny? (5/29/2008 11:07:04 AM)
http://www.collarchat.com/m_1892405/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#1892405 that thread is for people like the op in this thread.

Mercnbeth -> RE: Anyone else constantly horny? (5/29/2008 11:23:22 AM)
how does sexual addiction have anything to do with feeling physical arousal in the absence of sexual situations or sexual thoughts? this part of his post: quote: ...Its to the point that I actually wished it would go away. For example, my ex and I would be enjoying some quality time, not anything sexual, just enjoying each others company, being affectionate, and I would have this urge, almost something I could feel inside me (like feeling love) that would want more... is what prompted this slave to respond. most folks, even practicing physicians, ASS-ume that physical arousal MUST be accompanied by mental or physical stimulation, which is patently false. this slave's experiences, as well as those who were interviewed for the article this slave posted a link to, disprove their assumptions. folks exist who are hard-wired for near constant physical arousal. it has nothing to do with being "addicted" to sex.

angelikaJ -> RE: Anyone else constantly horny? (5/29/2008 11:23:40 AM)
Have you spoken to an endocrinologist lately? There was a Yale study that suggested that too much testosterone might be bad for brain cells. http://biosingularity.wordpress.com/2006/09/26/elevated-testosterone-kills-nerve-cells/

slaveboyforyou -> RE: Anyone else constantly horny? (5/29/2008 11:42:28 AM)
quote: how does sexual addiction have anything to do with feeling physical arousal in the absence of sexual situations or sexual thoughts? is what prompted this slave to respond. most folks, even practicing physicians, ASS-ume that physical arousal MUST be accompanied by mental or physical stimulation, which is patently false. this slave's experiences, as well as those who were interviewed for the article this slave posted a link to, disprove their assumptions. folks exist who are hard-wired for near constant physical arousal. it has fuck-all to do with being "addicted" to sex. Well, look up sexual addiction and also re-read the article you gave a link to. The article you provided talks about a condition that women suffer from, not men. The comparable condition to Persistent Sexual Arousal Syndrome in men is called Priapism. The OP is a man and his description of what he feels didn't come close to priapism. The Mayo Clinic says this about sexual addiction, "an overwhelming need for sex and are so intensely preoccupied with this need that it interferes with your job and your relationships. You may spend inordinate amounts of time in sexually related activities and neglect important aspects of your day-to-day life in social, occupational and recreational areas. You may find yourself failing repeatedly at attempts to reduce or control your sexual activities or desires." Read what the OP said. He clearly stated that his urges have been the downfall of several relationships. He clearly stated that it interfered with his normal everyday activities. I'm certainly not a psychiatrist, but I do know a thing or two about addiction. I know a lot of people don't take sexual addiction seriously, but people used to laugh off gambling addictions too. Addictions are serious, and they can really fuck up your life if you don't get a hold on them. If you can't formulate healthy relationships or your urges interfere with your work and family responsibilities than you have a problem.

camille65 -> RE: Anyone else constantly horny? (5/29/2008 11:47:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slaveboyforyou I know a lot of people don't take sexual addiction seriously, but people used to laugh off gambling addictions too. Addictions are serious, and they can really fuck up your life if you don't get a hold on them. If you can't formulate healthy relationships or your urges interfere with your work and family responsibilities than you have a problem. I think a lot of people have trouble grasping that something like sex can be a problem, but I agree with you. When something gets in the way of life or becomes your life it can damaging. It may not be acceptable like alcoholism or a drug addiction but it is real.

angelikaJ -> RE: Anyone else constantly horny? (5/29/2008 11:49:03 AM)
And if the need is purely driven by his endocrinological make up?

xxblushesxx -> RE: Anyone else constantly horny? (5/29/2008 11:59:44 AM)
Angelika, I've gotta go with sbfy on this one. Intensive counseling may be in order, rather than physical therapy...(no, not THAT! [;)]) I have a very addictive personality as well, but I am also aware that when things get out of control in such a way, I am usually trying to 'cover' for something else that is missing in my life.

Mercnbeth -> RE: Anyone else constantly horny? (5/29/2008 12:01:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slaveboyforyou quote: how does sexual addiction have anything to do with feeling physical arousal in the absence of sexual situations or sexual thoughts? is what prompted this slave to respond. most folks, even practicing physicians, ASS-ume that physical arousal MUST be accompanied by mental or physical stimulation, which is patently false. this slave's experiences, as well as those who were interviewed for the article this slave posted a link to, disprove their assumptions. folks exist who are hard-wired for near constant physical arousal. it has fuck-all to do with being "addicted" to sex. Well, look up sexual addiction and also re-read the article you gave a link to. The article you provided talks about a condition that women suffer from, not men. It doesn't mention men one time. The OP is a man and his description of what he feels didn't come close to what was described in that article. The Mayo Clinic says this about sexual addiction, "an overwhelming need for sex and are so intensely preoccupied with this need that it interferes with your job and your relationships. You may spend inordinate amounts of time in sexually related activities and neglect important aspects of your day-to-day life in social, occupational and recreational areas. You may find yourself failing repeatedly at attempts to reduce or control your sexual activities or desires." Read what the OP said. He clearly stated that his urges have been the downfall of several relationships. He clearly stated that it interfered with his normal everyday activities. I'm certainly not a psychiatrist, but I do know a thing or two about addiction. I know a lot of people don't take sexual addiction seriously, but people used to laugh off gambling addictions too. Addictions are serious, and they can really fuck up your life if you don't get a hold on them. If you can't formulate healthy relationships or your urges interfere with your work and family responsibilities than you have a problem. this slave is well aware that the medical community hasn't come up with a fancy "Syndrome" name for what they have recently come up with for women...yet. before they came up with "Persistent Sexual Arousal Syndrome" to describe what we experience, what do you think folks called it? "sex-addict" or "nymphomaniac", which is incorrect. he gave an example in his OP---NOT connected with thinking sexual thoughts or being in a sexual situation...or did you happen to miss that part? quote: ...For example, my ex and I would be enjoying some quality time, not anything sexual, just enjoying each others company, being affectionate, and I would have this urge, almost something I could feel inside me (like feeling love) that would want more...

angelikaJ -> RE: Anyone else constantly horny? (5/29/2008 12:04:20 PM)
I am not saying he might not be correct...nor am I saying that therapy or even 12 step meetings won't help...what I am suggesting is a visit to see an endocrinologist to deal with the physiological aspect.

sirsholly -> RE: Anyone else constantly horny? (5/29/2008 12:04:57 PM)
sex addiction is a recognized disorder. Perhaps a visit to an endo is in order to see if anything can be done medically. But counseling is also helpful.

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