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Games to play - 5/29/2008 6:46:56 PM   
Stepleader


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Status: offline 		I'm curious... what type of games do you play with your submissives in public?

I've done the thing where you tell them to go to the bathroom and remove their bra/panties and bring them back to Me. I've had them flash the bartender, come in public (playing with them under the table).

What types of games do You play to keep things interesting?
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RE: Games to play - 5/29/2008 6:58:11 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		I don't imagine that some poor wait person wants to see my bits. Or that the person who sits in the chair after me wants it sticky when he sits down.

We are very much not into forcing our sex life on people who haven't consented to be part of it.

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RE: Games to play - 5/29/2008 7:00:22 PM   
Stepleader


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Status: offline 		A/anyone have any responses that actually answer the question? 

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RE: Games to play - 5/29/2008 7:04:46 PM   
Domin8tingUrDrmz


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Status: offline 		I believe she did answer your question, just because the answer isn't one you were looking for doesn't mean it isn't an answer.  Many people here go by SSC, and consent is a big thing for a lot of folks.  While it may not matter to you, it could lead to arrest for public indecency.  I believe she just wanted you to consider the other side of things while you play in public.  How much would you enjoy a male sub flashing his goodies to you because his Mistress told him to?

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RE: Games to play - 5/29/2008 7:06:16 PM   
Stepleader


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Status: offline 		Y/you would have to have been there to understand the whole thing - everything was very 'C'.

Again... can A/anyone give Me real advice here or is this just a place to post self-righteous type material to make Y/yourself feel good?


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RE: Games to play - 5/29/2008 7:11:04 PM   
MissMagnolia


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Status: offline 		I actually wrote something very much like Des's response and deleted it because I guessed that you would discount what I said.

Arrogance and nastiness isn't really going to find you much joy in here. I suggest you find your good manners and use them if you want people to spend their time on helping you. Posters aren't employed by CM, we are here voluntarily to help each other. You might be a big fish in your world, but here you're just a sardine.

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RE: Games to play - 5/29/2008 7:12:07 PM   
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RE: Games to play - 5/29/2008 7:16:06 PM   
kinkypuppy2


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Status: offline 		"Games" like that are hollow and without a purpose.
Thus I do not require it.

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RE: Games to play - 5/29/2008 7:19:04 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		We went to a Broadway show in New York with me wearing a choke chain collar and a leash.  I had a scarf around my neck and the leash was run through the long sleeved arm of my fitted blazer-type jacket.  To anyone looking, it just looked like we were holding hands.  I wore nothing under the jacket, a semi short skirt (to the knees) with thigh highs and a garter, and no panties.  A remote controlled vibrating egg was inserted, which he enjoyed toying with during the show.

A fun filled time was had by all. 

Public play does not mean showing bits to everyone.

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RE: Games to play - 5/29/2008 7:25:19 PM   
MakeMeSmile4U


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Status: offline 		< is making a mental note to consult MissMagnolia the next time I need to make a point and do it in only a few words.
"I suggest you find your good manners..."  Can I use that quote?

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RE: Games to play - 5/29/2008 7:30:52 PM   
Stepleader


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Status: offline 		THANK you ownedgirlie - ideas like this are exactly what I'm looking for.


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RE: Games to play - 5/29/2008 10:34:08 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Ahh so you are fishing.

I've done a million and four kinky-ish things in public with hardly anyone ever noticing.  And I've done a million and four vanilla things that were utterly intense in an authority transfer sort of way.

You have to do what works for you and your imagination.  No problem taking ideas from others, but fishing around like this just makes you look lazy.

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RE: Games to play - 5/29/2008 10:59:37 PM   
antipode


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Status: offline 		This is a place for self-righteous arrogant people to make ourselves feel good. You definitely hit a hole in one there, can you feel the love?

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RE: Games to play - 5/30/2008 10:26:42 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		the type of games in which we aren't forcing our kinkiness upon anyone especially younger eyes who don't need to see and witness it. for example we played "hide and seek" in Dom Depot - i searched the aisles calling for "master m"

however this game is probably too boring and nilla for ya.



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RE: Games to play - 5/30/2008 11:59:31 AM   
respectyourowner


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Status: offline 		I like making my slave wash my 62 foot boat in public; while in high heels. She is a beautiful young girl and everyone looks surprised to see her working.

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RE: Games to play - 5/30/2008 12:27:00 PM   
Maya2001


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Y/you would have to have been there to understand the whole thing - everything was very 'C'


I guess you had the bartenders consent ,  and when you where sitting at the table in the public setting  you had the consent of anyone who could of witnessed or those who would sit there next
Consent is not just between D & s but any who you subject to your scenes/play actions
a vanilla eg your having a loud party  for you and your guests it may be fun, exciting but if I am the neighbbour who has to be at work in a few hours there is no fun in it for them and you are intruding on their peace an quiet, therefore being disrespectful of their wants.   The same goes with sexual displays/residues  in public not every one wants to be forced participants.




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RE: Games to play - 5/30/2008 2:02:33 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		We do not play games of the sort you are talking about. We prefer subtelty. We are more abot what goes on between us having meaning that no one else could ever understand. Physicaly, it takes no effort to play with someone and make them reach orgasm in public or in private. However, being able to whisper something in their ear to get them hard/wet is far more interesting. I have gotten Angel aroused and then madehim go fetch us popcorn at the movies. Becasue he is so tiny, walking around with an erection is highly noticable, and humiliating. However, it is also not ofenseive to anyone else who might happen to notice.
I have taken Fox's ard from him at the store and used his pin number to pay for things and remninded him that with that info i could easily take whatever I wanted from his account. Power statement, but nothing anyone else would ever see as off.
We are also planning some bondage in plain site photos at some point. Subtle, barely noticable bondage that you can only see if you knew to look. Shibari gauntlets in the park, handcuffs behind his back while we watch a sunset. Power for me becaue I can do it to him, surrender from him becasue he allows it, but no way involving anyone else who might object, since we would never do any of these things where there is a major chance of getting caught. A small one is fun, a big one is involvement I just dont care to deal with.

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RE: Games to play - 5/30/2008 2:39:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		HoneyMaster leads me through the mall by holding my wrist. Very subtle, and hot for me. (hardly anyone ever notices)
He also makes me say "Thank you, Daddy" when He buys me something. There is a reason 'blushes' is my chosen nic...

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RE: Games to play - 5/30/2008 3:44:14 PM   
IronBear


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Stepleader

Y/you would have to have been there to understand the whole thing - everything was very 'C'.

Again... can A/anyone give Me real advice here or is this just a place to post self-righteous type material to make Y/yourself feel good?




You old chap have just shown yourself to be a pompous, asinine shallow narrow minded ass. I had written a lengthy post on the public things I have done with slaves in my collar or the house collar but forget it you are unworthy of my attention. You have been tried, tested and found wanting.

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RE: Games to play - 5/30/2008 4:33:01 PM   
defiantbadgirl


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Status: offline 		Depends on the play. My Sir has given me a single swat in public, but wouldn't pull down my pants before doing it. A remote control vibrating egg might be fun, as long as there is no nudity or near nudity involved. I too would be interested in learning of various discreet ways to play in public, but they must be discreet. Otherwise you risk arrest for indecent exposure......ONCE CONVICTED, YOU SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE AS A REGISTERED SEX OFFENDER. That's right....all it takes is one person being offended and calling the cops and you're on the list right alongside the molesters and rapists.

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