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ORIGINAL: tiggeress2

My Master and I are to be married. We are buying an apt. He wanted to but it togeather. But I am in the states and he is in italy where we will live.He was supposed to waite for my return. But now he fond one he likes. After see pic's of it I do not like it and cannot see my self living there full time. It would make a great summer place. Master is bent on buying it.After much argueing I said that if my feelings dont realy count I want out of my contract.He refuses to do so and tells me im acting like a brat.So is a master always right. Doesent a slave have any rights?

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ORIGINAL: Padriag


You're being a brat. Here's why. First, if you want out of your contract with him all you need do is say "I'm out, seeya" and that's it. You're in the US, he's in Italy and there is no law in the world that says you have to stay in that relationship... if you want out, walk, period. But you should already know that. What you are doing is coming to a forum and asking others to excuse your behavior, to justify your behavior so you can do what you want, force him to do what you want and get away with it without having to feel guilty for it.... not gonna do that dearheart.



A slave chooses to be with her master to serve him because she chose him, not because of the house he lives in. Do you want to be with him for who he is, or his house? If the house really is that much of an issue, you're in the relationship for the wrong reasons and I'd suggest you take a long hard look at your own values. Houses come and go, they can be remodelled and redecorated, they are temporary things... but that relationship ought to be permanent and based on the person you choose to be with. Don't let temporary things get in the way of that relationship.

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ORIGINAL: Padriag

You're not going to like my answer, so feel free to stop reading now and skip it.

Still reading... good.

You're being a brat. Here's why. First, if you want out of your contract with him all you need do is say "I'm out, seeya" and that's it. You're in the US, he's in Italy and there is no law in the world that says you have to stay in that relationship... if you want out, walk, period. But you should already know that. What you are doing is coming to a forum and asking others to excuse your behavior, to justify your behavior so you can do what you want, force him to do what you want and get away with it without having to feel guilty for it.... not gonna do that dearheart.

What I will suggest is that you stop an think about this. He wants that house, and I'm assuming he's spending his own money. If that's the case, its his money, he can spend it on any damn thing he pleases. As for you living in the house, is this house so aweful you feel its a deal breaker for the relationship? In some cases it could be, if its a roach infested junk heap I could see a lass having a problem with that. On the other hand if its a decent house, but just not the color or style or size you like... you're being a brat.

A slave chooses to be with her master to serve him because she chose him, not because of the house he lives in. Do you want to be with him for who he is, or his house? If the house really is that much of an issue, you're in the relationship for the wrong reasons and I'd suggest you take a long hard look at your own values. Houses come and go, they can be remodelled and redecorated, they are temporary things... but that relationship ought to be permanent and based on the person you choose to be with. Don't let temporary things get in the way of that relationship.

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ORIGINAL: Padriag
You're being a brat. Here's why. First, if you want out of your contract with him all you need do is say "I'm out, seeya" and that's it. You're in the US, he's in Italy and there is no law in the world that says you have to stay in that relationship... if you want out, walk, period. But you should already know that. What you are doing is coming to a forum and asking others to excuse your behavior, to justify your behavior so you can do what you want, force him to do what you want and get away with it without having to feel guilty for it.... not gonna do that dearheart.

What I will suggest is that you stop an think about this. He wants that house, and I'm assuming he's spending his own money. If that's the case, its his money, he can spend it on any damn thing he pleases. As for you living in the house, is this house so aweful you feel its a deal breaker for the relationship? In some cases it could be, if its a roach infested junk heap I could see a lass having a problem with that. On the other hand if its a decent house, but just not the color or style or size you like... you're being a brat.

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ORIGINAL: Padriag

I can understand that kind of thing but the OP didn't list any specific reason why she couldn't see herself living in the house... she just said she didn't like it.

But as for the question, "is it being a brat to want out of relationship cause you just don't like the house?" Yep

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So is a master always right.

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Doesent a slave have any rights?