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Swallow and I won't kiss you? - 5/30/2008 9:20:01 AM

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Another diversion from The Money Shot thread.

The last relationship I was in, my partner didn't want me to swallow when he came all the time, because he wanted to kiss me afterwards, and he didn't like the taste of his own cum. A very strange dynamic. He knew I loved it, so it happened sometimes, he just asked me to brush my teeth (I'm not kidding) after I swallowed before I could kiss him.

Anyone else have similar issues?

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RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? - 5/30/2008 9:30:37 AM

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What's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander, imo.

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RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? - 5/30/2008 9:34:14 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: fungasm

Another diversion from The Money Shot thread.

The last relationship I was in, my partner didn't want me to swallow when he came all the time, because he wanted to kiss me afterwards, and he didn't like the taste of his own cum.

my advice...honor his wishes and do not swallow. Instead...hold it in your mouth, lay a liplock on him and...uh...return to sender.
Sorta like swapping gum when we were teenagers, yanno?

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RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? - 5/30/2008 9:34:33 AM

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What was the dynamic? Was he your D? If he was your D, why would there be a problem with that?

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RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? - 5/30/2008 9:39:50 AM

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I've no interest in 'snowballing' but the taste on her lips afterwards certainly doesn't bother Me and she definatly gets kissed afterwards.

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RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? - 5/30/2008 9:40:31 AM

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Personally I'd prefer if mine didn't want me to swallow. Damn stuff gives me terrible heart burn.

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RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? - 5/30/2008 9:43:39 AM

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One dominant I was involved with was like that ...I found it amusing and would lightly tease him about....he did get a little less resistant over the course of our relationship

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RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? - 5/30/2008 9:44:43 AM

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The dynamic- he was my lover and my friend. I don't have Ds per se, I just have amazing kinky people in my life whom I explore with. Top/Bottom... it's not about who says to do what in my world, it's about what is fun at the time.

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RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? - 5/30/2008 9:49:07 AM

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i suck but don't swallow. i don't like the taste ...so he has no problem with me wanting to stop before he cums. i will before kissing him again brush my teeth and use mouthwash. i guess i'm weird that way.

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RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? - 5/30/2008 9:55:27 AM

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Plenty of the males I have been involved with have been like that. They dont want to know what their own cum tastes like, dont like the taste, or dont like the idea of tasting it.
To each their own, after all. I am sure there are things that you wont do becasue you dont ike them, or that you might ask to be done a certain way. Brushing your teeth to get the taste of cum out of your mouth is no worse than having someone wipe their face after going down on a woman to get the stickiness off their face before anything else.

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RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? - 5/30/2008 9:56:09 AM

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quote:

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I've no interest in 'snowballing' but the taste on her lips afterwards certainly doesn't bother Me and she definatly gets kissed afterwards.

Agreed. Tasting my own cum on her lips doesn't bother me at all.

When I was much younger and vanilla and sometimes dated women who complained, I masturbated into my hand and took my load in my mouth just to see what all the fuss was about. My conclusion was that there was nothing to make a fuss about. Since then I have little sympathy for women, subs or vanilla, who won't take my cum in their mouths. And with only one exception, all of my submissives have taken my cum, in their mouths, on their faces, and elsewhere, some more eagerly than others, but it really hasn't been a problem. The one exception? she wasn't with me long. *grin*

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RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? - 5/30/2008 10:01:55 AM

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Obviously, in a relationship, personal preferences must be respected and compromised on...and you do say its a former relationship. i dont know how long i could maintain one no matter what the dynamic, if there was such a fundamental rejection even if it was self directed on the other person's part. That sort of hang up tends to translate into other aspects of a close relationship and would eventually become a problem for me.

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RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? - 5/30/2008 10:03:00 AM

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I can't say that I've ever been with a guy who had this issue, although I have heard men talk about it in an almost homophobic kind of way. I also don't have any problem kissing them after they have been down on me either.

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RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? - 5/30/2008 10:14:18 AM

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akisha, try keeping a glass of water nearby. I used to get very sick to my stomach afterward - not from the taste of it, but it physically upset my stomach. Plain water helps.

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RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? - 5/30/2008 10:17:08 AM

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phew....i dont like any side of it. The current guy i am in contact with seems a lot to like that his girl will swallow and so it would end up to be that way if we continue *sigh* and i -personally- dont like it at all (just hope to get more used to it over time I suppose). In addition he seems to like to taste his girl as well and I know from previous relationships that I dont like my taste either when the guy moves onto kissing afterwards (well, but also behaved myself not to ask him for brushing his teeth before)...so there is no win for me, neither to swallow him nor to taste myself, i just dont like it

(but can cope with it to do so somehow...

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RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? - 5/30/2008 10:23:11 AM

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I have told BSB not to swallow so I could kiss her with her mouth full of my cum and swirl our tongues around in it and while it isn't something I love, I DO love the affect it has on her libido.

I think next time I fuck her and fill her with cum I am going to lick up a big gob of cum so it is dripping from my tongue and slowly crawl up to her so she can see it and then order her to open her mouth and let her watch it drip from my tongue into her mouth.

Its just frigging sex people, I can just imagine the guys all running from the room screaming after that one, same goes for those who can't handle it. Go down on a woman and if your face and hair aren't soaked in cunt juice, you just ain't doing it right.

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RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? - 5/30/2008 10:25:49 AM

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I'm a watersports boi ...well abody fluids boi. I love just about everything She can produce. She on the otherhand has no interest at all in Her own body fluids...hince we keep a small bottle of peroxide or listerine near by when we do stuff. Works wonders to jst gargle and spit before any kinda kissing.

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RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? - 5/30/2008 10:50:54 AM

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I don't swallow on a male...but I know I prefer to brush my teeth after going down on a lady before I kiss her or anyone else after.

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RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? - 5/30/2008 10:54:03 AM

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It's not a big deal for me, though sometimes I tend to simply postpone the kissing a little bit - I haven't given it any proper thought before really - it's been more of an autopilot thing - it isn't about not liking the taste of cum, though I am also not crazy about it - I think it possibly has something to do with the smell of the breath when the cum is added in --- usually it can be fairly easily alleviated with a sip of wine or some water or whatever. Funny that I have not really thought about it, though I guess that means it's also not any real issue.. Brushing teeth? Yeah, w hy not really - often I've felt like it myself also, and done it too - as a part of cleaning up... PS. Just thought to add: typically, when I do that, my partner will ask: 'did you just brush your teeth?', and I'll say: 'yeah, and I think you should do that too'

- leading by example is also probably much preferable in just this very open state directly after an orgasm...

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RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? - 5/30/2008 10:57:43 AM

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Never had that issue, or problem, whichever you wish to call it. I did, however at rare times have a complex about it but it never seemed to bother my patrner. So, kissing we did.

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