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mistoferin -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/30/2008 11:22:19 AM)
Thinking more on this....I know that if my partner immediately jumped up after sex to brush his teeth or wash I would feel hurt. It would come across to me that they thought that I was "dirty" somehow.

virgini970 -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/30/2008 11:59:37 AM)
if I like that person then yes i want to tryy and see if it's good it realy depends on what they eat it's like if they eat a lot of salt then no they can have all of it gross but if the one i am with realy wants me to i will i do like to at least see what he or she tast like i have known one guy who did not like haveing a blow job he was the best cause lets face it theres nothing like a good hard DICK i know i LOVE them

MstrVik -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/30/2008 12:31:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin Thinking more on this....I know that if my partner immediately jumped up after sex to brush his teeth or wash I would feel hurt. It would come across to me that they thought that I was "dirty" somehow. I agree that the timing is important in connection with this, and that it should not be the first thing on one's mind. I think it's vital to keep the focus on the state of 'togetherness'; it's important to me and I think it's important to most people. - Though I guess that if you found yourself in the bathroom together with your partner in the course of cleaning up, and he suggested that you both brushed your teeth that wouldn't bother you...?

mistoferin -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/30/2008 12:37:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MstrVik I agree that the timing is important in connection with this, and that it should not be the first thing on one's mind. I think it's vital to keep the focus on the state of 'togetherness'; it's important to me and I think it's important to most people. - Though I guess that if you found yourself in the bathroom together with your partner in the course of cleaning up, and he suggested that you both brushed your teeth that wouldn't bother you...? I love showering with my man after sex...AFTER the cuddling. If he asked me to brush my teeth with him that probably wouldn't bother me....but that's because blow jobs given with a mouthful of toothpaste are pretty fun and interesting....and they lead to more cum.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/30/2008 12:44:56 PM)
I am not bothered by or terribly interested in my own taste, and yanno? That works both ways. If you want me to swallow~~and for me, that is an EW~~then don't kiss me if it's a big deal. It seems like much ado about nothing, really. I am with erin, though, if someone immediately leapt off me to wash, I would be very offended.

akisha -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/30/2008 12:47:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chamberqueen akisha, try keeping a glass of water nearby. I used to get very sick to my stomach afterward - not from the taste of it, but it physically upset my stomach. Plain water helps. Thanks chamberqueen. I am doing the water thing and that keeps my stomach from completely revolting against it. I've just gotten into the habit of drinking a glass of water with a couple tums. My tummy revolts to anything of that kind. When I have a cold I'm throwing up consistantly if excess mucus reaches my tummy. sighs I love giving oral, lol just hate the aftermath.

MstrVik -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/30/2008 12:50:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin If he asked me to brush my teeth with him that probably wouldn't bother me....but that's because blow jobs given with a mouthful of toothpaste are pretty fun and interesting....and they lead to more cum. Ya don't say? LOL Never experienced the toothpaste variant, but it sounds like a pleasant way of brushing ones teeth! [:D] - Yeah, always good to be creative about it, and I usually want to hold on to and keep up that special energy for as long as possible...

Asherdelampyr -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/30/2008 2:44:10 PM)
I would rather she swallows, I mean after all the effort I go through to make such a personal gift, I would feel offended that she would return it so readily... but I do kiss her just as much afterwards

NorthernGent -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/30/2008 2:58:41 PM)
I want to see my handywork all over her face and dribbling down her chin.......no swallowing allowed in this home (I have a few no swallowing signs with red lines through them on my walls). Kiss afterwards? What? Bring me down to her level? The dirty bitch goes to the bathroom and has a good wash....

SoulPiercer -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/30/2008 3:11:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael I have told BSB not to swallow so I could kiss her with her mouth full of my cum and swirl our tongues around in it and while it isn't something I love, I DO love the affect it has on her libido. I think next time I fuck her and fill her with cum I am going to lick up a big gob of cum so it is dripping from my tongue and slowly crawl up to her so she can see it and then order her to open her mouth and let her watch it drip from my tongue into her mouth. Its just frigging sex people, I can just imagine the guys all running from the room screaming after that one, same goes for those who can't handle it. Go down on a woman and if your face and hair aren't soaked in cunt juice, you just ain't doing it right. You nailed this one on all points! I'm right there with ya brutha! Do it! She will love it! I say that from actual experience.

KnottynNice1 -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/30/2008 3:24:00 PM)
The way I see it, all is fair in love. I expect her to swallow, so why should I be bothered by the taste of it. Just as if a woman could not stand tasting herself on my lips after I went down on her, then why should she expect me to go there in the first place? As a monogamous Dom who craves the intimacy of being fluid bonded with a partner, I can't see why it should matter if you love each other. Fortunately, I have never had a partner who felt put-off in any way by that sort of thing.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/30/2008 3:45:08 PM)
I've been with one guy who was like that, he was only my second sex partner and while it made no sense to me, we just fucked in other ways and enjoyed that instead. Now, if someone tried to do that, I'd probably laugh at them. I don't mind someone kissing me after they go down on me as long as they aren't all messy- I don't like mess on me at all.

metalmiss -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/30/2008 3:48:50 PM)
i had a partner with a similar problem once.. not that he wouldn't kiss me per se.. but he was reluctant and acted as though he was afraid of it.. So one night i got a mouthful and didn't swallow.. Waited for him to kiss me and spat it into his mouth.. Teach him to be so silly.. lol.. yes.. very unsubmissive of me i know.. but he was my one and only vanilla partner.

CuriousPuppy -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/30/2008 4:02:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MstrVik quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin If he asked me to brush my teeth with him that probably wouldn't bother me....but that's because blow jobs given with a mouthful of toothpaste are pretty fun and interesting....and they lead to more cum. Ya don't say? LOL Never experienced the toothpaste variant, but it sounds like a pleasant way of brushing ones teeth! [:D] - Yeah, always good to be creative about it, and I usually want to hold on to and keep up that special energy for as long as possible... Most toothpaste is minty. Minty type coughdrops tend to have similar effects on those pink bits guys and girls have down there.

CelticPrince -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/30/2008 5:58:36 PM)
quote: The last relationship I was in, my partner didn't want me to swallow when he came all the time, because he wanted to kiss me afterwards, and he didn't like the taste of his own cum. A very strange dynamic. He knew I loved it, so it happened sometimes, he just asked me to brush my teeth (I'm not kidding) after I swallowed before I could kiss him. Anyone else have similar issues? fungasm, Back a few months ago there was a long informative thread [The kiss after Ejaculation a long thread with alot of info. Look for it in the archives CP

LadyPact -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/30/2008 6:03:04 PM)
(Using fast reply, and I'm sure someone else has said this already.) Don't kiss Me after I swallow..... fine. Just don't expect Me to have a need to swallow, or do the prior event, again.

petdave -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/30/2008 7:39:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NorthernGent Kiss afterwards? What? Bring me down to her level? The dirty bitch goes to the bathroom and has a good wash.... i think that would probably be my take on it if i were a Dominant... [:-]

Abraxus -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/30/2008 8:14:05 PM)
Aw yes I must say I personally enjoy kissing my girl after a good gobbling.

malloves69 -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/30/2008 9:07:34 PM)
my mistress gets me to cum one way or another [:)] her rule is men always expects the women to swallow and if thats the case then the man should expect to at least share and swallow his own cum if he wants the lady to do so as well [:)]i swallow my own cum many times with snowballs kisses or creampies and i must say i really dont have a problem doing so [:)] she has trained me well in many things that we do together [:)] one snowball or creampie to go please [:)] mal

summersprite -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/30/2008 11:27:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael I have told BSB not to swallow so I could kiss her with her mouth full of my cum and swirl our tongues around in it and while it isn't something I love, I DO love the affect it has on her libido. I think next time I fuck her and fill her with cum I am going to lick up a big gob of cum so it is dripping from my tongue and slowly crawl up to her so she can see it and then order her to open her mouth and let her watch it drip from my tongue into her mouth. Its just frigging sex people, I can just imagine the guys all running from the room screaming after that one, same goes for those who can't handle it. Go down on a woman and if your face and hair aren't soaked in cunt juice, you just ain't doing it right. Oh, I really like this post ;-) I have even more suggestions for my Sir now - lol. He will kiss me after I swallow.... wonder if He'll kiss me when I have a mouthful .....

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