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NorthernGent -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/31/2008 1:46:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael Its just frigging sex people Sex lends toward defining who is running the show. quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael I can just imagine the guys all running from the room screaming after that one, same goes for those who can't handle it. Michael, a man and his dog hold distinct codes of behaviour that lend toward the man being the master and the dog his subject. Presumably, when you're taking your dog for a walk, you don't have a shit every time your dog has one? Us humans are operating at a higher level. Those who wish to establish and maintain the same relationship with a woman will steer clear from operating at her level. In terms of control and dignity, I like to lead the way - this means the filthy bitch needs a good old wash before she comes into contact with me. I suppose it depends on your view of yourself and what exactly you're aiming to establish in your relationship.

RavenMuse -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/31/2008 4:20:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NorthernGent this means the filthy bitch needs a good old wash before she comes into contact with me. I suppose it depends on your view of yourself and what exactly you're aiming to establish in your relationship. I suppose it depends if you regard sex as natural or as something "filthy"... which would also impact the veiw of yourself and your sexuality. personaly I see a viewpoint that marks it as 'filthy' to be indicative of 'repression' and the old puritanical catholic guilt complex over sex (Which can be fun to play with in a girl... but I don't carry such repression Myself)

NorthernGent -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/31/2008 4:33:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RavenMuse quote: ORIGINAL: NorthernGent this means the filthy bitch needs a good old wash before she comes into contact with me. I suppose it depends on your view of yourself and what exactly you're aiming to establish in your relationship. I suppose it depends if you regard sex as natural or as something "filthy"... Not at all, Raven. Sex is as natural as the ocean, and very, very fuckin' filthy in the right company. The issue is more one of where you want to position yourself. For me, her and I are operating at different levels. quote: ORIGINAL: RavenMuse which would also impact the veiw of yourself and your sexuality. personaly I see a viewpoint that marks it as 'filthy' to be indicative of 'repression' and the old puritanical catholic guilt complex over sex (Which can be fun to play with in a girl... but I don't carry such repression Myself) I think you're taking "filthy" out of context. I'm not averse to a spot of animal instinct; in fact, I relish that kind of behaviour. The difference being, I'm not the animal in this relationship. If you make the leap from "filthy" to repression.....well, it's at odds with my trail of thought...but, to each their own.

Aileen1968 -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/31/2008 4:37:51 AM)
I'd be more impressed if he planted a big old kiss right after I gave him a big messy rim job. Sloppy seconds are the best. [:D]

NorthernGent -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/31/2008 4:44:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 I'd be more impressed if he planted a big old kiss right after I gave him a big messy rim job. Sloppy seconds are the best. [:D] Ahhh yes....the romance of man and woman..... Would you feel impressed were your legs forced open and your cunt smacked with a belt?......now that is a romantic touch..... One good turn really does deserve another......

gentldom4sub -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/31/2008 4:51:03 AM)
I have no problem with kissing her after she got my load i prefer woman who cum very much them self and love the taste of her cum .... pussy with gravy rrrrrrrrr slurp

MastersBitch96 -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/31/2008 4:58:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fungasm Another diversion from The Money Shot thread. The last relationship I was in, my partner didn't want me to swallow when he came all the time, because he wanted to kiss me afterwards, and he didn't like the taste of his own cum. A very strange dynamic. He knew I loved it, so it happened sometimes, he just asked me to brush my teeth (I'm not kidding) after I swallowed before I could kiss him. Anyone else have similar issues? Ok, I'm coming into this thread late, and admittedly didn't read the responses yet, but the answer is no... my Master prefers me to spit, in a drooly sort of way, because he likes the look of it, but doesn't mind if I swallow on occasion. He has never, ever refused to kiss me after having anything in my mouth... and I do mean anything. Not that he cares for the tastes, and we aren't talking deep kissing but, no he has never refused me that affection after a scene... and actually...I don't recall him ever even asking me to brush my teeth after. -- Bitch

MastersBitch96 -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/31/2008 5:00:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NorthernGent Ahhh yes....the romance of man and woman..... Would you feel impressed were your legs forced open and your cunt smacked with a belt?......now that is a romantic touch..... One good turn really does deserve another...... Lol... I LOVE having my cunt whipped, spanked, belted, caned etc.

mistoferin -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/31/2008 5:18:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NorthernGent Kiss afterwards? What? Bring me down to her level? The dirty bitch goes to the bathroom and has a good wash.... I can not even begin to wrap my head around this. Bring you down to her level? By kissing her? Nope, don't understand that line of thought even a little. Dirty bitch? You see your cum as dirty?

NorthernGent -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/31/2008 5:21:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin quote: ORIGINAL: NorthernGent Kiss afterwards? What? Bring me down to her level? The dirty bitch goes to the bathroom and has a good wash.... I can not even begin to wrap my head around this. There's no accounting for personal taste.

RavenMuse -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/31/2008 5:30:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin You see your cum as dirty? Glad it isn't just Me that drew that from what was said, hence My comment regarding repression Shrugs

marieToo -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/31/2008 5:54:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NorthernGent Kiss afterwards? What? Bring me down to her level? The dirty bitch goes to the bathroom and has a good wash.... I'm with this totally. I like to be fucked like a piece of meat and to feel somewhat used and on a lower level than my Sir. I would think nothing of being fucked, cummed on and sent to the shower before he touches me again. Why would any man want to lick and touch and play with his own cum after he marks his bitch with it? Makes no sense to me, but to each his own. And...as much as I love sex, I do not relish the idea of wearing bodily fluids longer than need be. I do enjoy a nice warm shower to clean me up after being spewed on like a dirty little whore.

Sandyshores29718 -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/31/2008 6:01:47 AM)
fast reply my vanilla partner doesnt like to kiss me after ive went down on him. Doesnt matter if he has came or not. i think its kinda rude to be honest. i could see if he had came in my mouth. shrug i'll kiss a guy after he has gave me oral or even lick my own off his dick, so i guess thats why it doesnt make sense to me. Being my nilla partner is like this i dont give him oral very offen and i have a oral fetish. shakeshead

MissIsis -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/31/2008 6:24:18 AM)
I have been with both types of partners. I most definitely prefer the ones that kiss after. Usually, it has been when the hottest kissing has occurred. I certainly don't mind sucking on his cock after he has had it inside of me. For me, it is far better to taste myself on him, than to taste someone else on him. Maybe I am just odd when it comes to these things. But really, does it have to be a full blow, spit swapping kiss, or is the man able to compromise with a little peck on the lips, or even the cheek. Maybe we should put this question on our checklists, for both men & women.

NorthernGent -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/31/2008 6:50:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: marieToo quote: ORIGINAL: NorthernGent Kiss afterwards? What? Bring me down to her level? The dirty bitch goes to the bathroom and has a good wash.... I'm with this totally. I like to be fucked like a piece of meat and to feel somewhat used and on a lower level than my Sir. I would think nothing of being fucked, cummed on and sent to the shower before he touches me again. Why would any man want to lick and touch and play with his own cum after he marks his bitch with it? Makes no sense to me, but to each his own. And...as much as I love sex, I do not relish the idea of wearing bodily fluids longer than need be. I do enjoy a nice warm shower to clean me up after being spewed on like a dirty little whore. 'Knew you'd be on a similar wavelength, Marie.

lanie38 -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/31/2008 7:36:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NorthernGent I want to see my handywork all over her face and dribbling down her chin.......no swallowing allowed in this home (I have a few no swallowing signs with red lines through them on my walls). Kiss afterwards? What? Bring me down to her level? The dirty bitch goes to the bathroom and has a good wash.... Guess the after "ass to mouth" kiss is out then??

SimplyMichael -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/31/2008 7:41:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NorthernGent this means the filthy bitch needs a good old wash before she comes into contact with me. I suppose it depends on your view of yourself and what exactly you're aiming to establish in your relationship. Oh I don't know, perhaps that she isn't a "filthy bitch"?

Lynnxz -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/31/2008 7:43:02 AM)
I don't understand the logic here.. if she's a filthy bitch, why would you fuck her in the first place?

RavenMuse -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/31/2008 8:00:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lynnxz I don't understand the logic here.. if she's a filthy bitch, why would you fuck her in the first place? I think lack of communication skills is the answer here... If I am picking up the gyst of it... he is talking about a humiliation play headspace but trying to present it here (by design or accident) as litteral fact.If he indeed views her and cum as 'filthy' then to Me that only comes from represed guilt complex about sex and sexuality. YMMV If it is about the play side, then I 'get' his point though it is badly presented.

cjan -> RE: Swallow and I won't kiss you? (5/31/2008 8:06:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 I'd be more impressed if he planted a big old kiss right after I gave him a big messy rim job. Sloppy seconds are the best. [image]http://www.collarchat.com/image/s2.gif[/image] Shup, Aileen ! bones

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