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RE: The Perfect Sub - 6/1/2008 10:28:15 AM   
rubberpet


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ORIGINAL: darchChylde

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ORIGINAL: rubberpet


***tip-toes behind darch...sneaking up quietly and attacks with a can of compressed air!!!***
 
That's right, Fabio...whatcha gonna do!? 
Uh oh!  Darch is pissed!  

We exchange unpleasantries!
The brawl is on!!!
Darch isn't fighting fair!     I just found out he's very tempermental about his hair!  Geez, dude!!!
I'm getting the upper hand, though!   Nothing like dropping a load of of bricks to even the score!  Haha!!!

***Everybody was kung-fu fighting...those fists were fast as lightning*** 
 
The action intensifies!!! That's right, we mean business!!!
 
We soon realize that a crowd has gathered and is cheering on the fight!     We decide that we should cater to the crowd.
 Being the hams we are, we're playing for the cuteness crowd now!

The dommes are getting restless now!!!    They want action!!!

Darch and I realize our friendship isn't worth destroying over a silly fight, though.  

We apologize to each other...

We limp out of the arena battered and bruised...
We're friends again!    Yay!!!

And we lived happily ever after!
Darch just doesn't realize that I'm the perfect subby, though.

LMAO!!!!!

Just as  rubberpet walks off in victory, darchChylde then strips him and shoves rubberpet  so that he falls into vampchick's arms.

"The perfect submissive eh?  Pride goeth before a fall.  Enjoy."

darch then strolls into the sunrise, brushing his hair in long, even strokes.


Hmph!  A cheap shot while my back is to ya, eh?  That's something second place will usually do! 

Want some more!!!???

LOL

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RE: The Perfect Sub - 6/1/2008 10:35:14 AM   
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Hmph!  A cheap shot while my back is to ya, eh?  That's something second place will usually do! 

Want some more!!!???

LOL


i'm thinking that neither of us are the perfect submissive; but so long as Macslittleimp and your Mistress Lorelei are happy, it's all to the good.


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RE: The Perfect Sub - 6/1/2008 10:44:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		LOL...tell me about it!  Lord knows I'm far from it.

Besides, if Mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy!!!

Let's go get a beer, dude...

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RE: The Perfect Sub - 6/1/2008 11:27:51 AM   
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ROFLMAO….now I see what kind of mischief you can yourselves into, Thank you for the great laugh this morning. Hmmm, although I do like the idea of pet wrestling in a loincloth…*mind wanders to dirty thoughts* ~Lorelei

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RE: The Perfect Sub - 6/1/2008 12:51:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm not sure I'd ever strive to be "the perfect sub" because it seems more of an elusive target that would probably keep changing on me so that it would be an endless process of never quite living up to the desires I would have for myself. However, with that having been said, I'd definitely go out of my way to make my owner (for the sake of argument, let's just assume I'd have one at the time) as happy as she can be, doing whatever makes her happy and satisfied. I once tried to be "perfect" in my early days of submission, and let me just tell you that it was a lesson in humility (but not in any good, constructive way). I always saw myself as not living up to my potential, and I'd become more and more frustrated, even while the woman I was serving at the time didn't seem to have the same concerns from her end. After awhile, you start to create problems where there are none because you keep imagining that she's not getting the service she deserves, and that ends up becoming one of those self-fulfilling prophecies to which you may never emerge.

These days, I try to figure out what she wants and needs (and I've started using this miraculous new technique called "asking"), and I try to be the best I can at that sort of thing.

Does this make me perfect? No, not even close. Does it make me "more perfect" than anyone else (which seems to be the bizarre direction of this thread I just happened to come across)? No, it doesn't. I don't really care if there are others who are better at being subs than I am, or if someone has actually attained the level of Supreme Submissive of the Universe. Let em have those titles. The rest of us will just continue trying to be the best at what we can do, CONSTANTLY learning from our many errors of our ways in hopes that one day we might just be really good for the right woman who comes along. If she thinks we're perfect, great. If not, there's a reason she's the dominant in the first place; I'd like to think that the molding of a submissive has to have some impact on how perfect a submissive is to the appropriate dominant woman.


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RE: The Perfect Sub - 6/1/2008 1:23:36 PM   
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RE: The Perfect Sub - 6/1/2008 2:25:06 PM   
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RE: The Perfect Sub - 6/1/2008 3:02:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thank you for an enjoyable read darchChylde and rubberpet!  

I'm starting to think that guys with long hair are even fussier about it than women.  My boy Nik always complains when I mess up his hair.  I mean, Gees!  When they have all that long hair, it's just way to tempting not to drag them around by it. 



I chastised him greatly about cutting it.


< Message edited by MsStarlett -- 6/1/2008 3:03:09 PM >

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RE: The Perfect Sub - 6/1/2008 3:32:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'd take Michael in Georgia.
Or darthChylde.
Or both?? My my, I need to excuse myeslf for a few minutes..heh heh.

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RE: The Perfect Sub - 6/1/2008 6:10:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: littlesarbonn

I'm not sure I'd ever strive to be "the perfect sub" because it seems more of an elusive target that would probably keep changing on me so that it would be an endless process of never quite living up to the desires I would have for myself.


Agreed!  As one attains a higher level of self knowledge and awareness about themselves and their submission, etc., it's been my experience they realize there are ever increasing levels that are attainable they never knew existed.  It's akin to peeling back the layers on an onion.  There are always more than one ever had any idea existed.
 
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I once tried to be "perfect" in my early days of submission, and let me just tell you that it was a lesson in humility (but not in any good, constructive way). I always saw myself as not living up to my potential, and I'd become more and more frustrated, even while the woman I was serving at the time didn't seem to have the same concerns from her end. After awhile, you start to create problems where there are none because you keep imagining that she's not getting the service she deserves, and that ends up becoming one of those self-fulfilling prophecies to which you may never emerge.


IMO, perfection is an illusion that only leads to a constant state of frustration, self-doubt, discontent, self-loathing, and an endless string of setting one's self up for failure regardless of how much improvement or progress they make toward self-betterment.
 
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These days, I try to figure out what she wants and needs (and I've started using this miraculous new technique called "asking"), and I try to be the best I can at that sort of thing.


"Pefectly" sensible approach if you ask me.
 
 
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The rest of us will just continue trying to be the best at what we can do, CONSTANTLY learning from our many errors of our ways in hopes that one day we might just be really good for the right woman who comes along. If she thinks we're perfect, great. If not, there's a reason she's the dominant in the first place; I'd like to think that the molding of a submissive has to have some impact on how perfect a submissive is to the appropriate dominant woman.


Precisely!  It's the dynamic between the particular dominant and submissive as a couple that either works or doesn't!  It's a case of it being about "us" that I still believe to be what makes it either work or fail. 
 
 - pixel
 


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RE: The Perfect Sub - 6/1/2008 7:30:49 PM   
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RE: The Perfect Sub - 6/1/2008 10:11:20 PM   
rubberpet


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ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

Thank you for an enjoyable read darchChylde and rubberpet!  



You are quite welcome, MsStarlett!  The comedy duo of darch and rubberpet will be here all week!

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RE: The Perfect Sub - 6/1/2008 10:17:44 PM   
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ROFLMAO….now I see what kind of mischief you can yourselves into, Thank you for the great laugh this morning. Hmmm, although I do like the idea of pet wrestling in a loincloth…*mind wanders to dirty thoughts* ~Lorelei


<~~~~~begins scrambling around, desperately trying to find a loincloth!  I know Mistress has the baby oil, though...

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RE: The Perfect Sub - 6/1/2008 10:27:02 PM   
darchChylde


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ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

I'm starting to think that guys with long hair are even fussier about it than women. 



i'm honestly not that fussy about my hair. Of course i prefer it neat and generally hate it being in my eyes; it's generally tied up and under a hat just to keep it off of my face and neck.  But i can deal with it being messed up, if for no other reason than that i can usually just shake it straight and run my fingers through it and it's good... that's actually how i usually do my hair in the morning unless i have somewhere special to be.  What i do have problems with, is icky stuff being in contact with it; and that's the same as the rest of me, just more so.

edited to add: you're welcome for the entertainment, though i've got to give rubberpet most all of the credit for the fun and creativity in the exchange.


< Message edited by darchChylde -- 6/1/2008 10:29:13 PM >

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RE: The Perfect Sub - 6/2/2008 8:31:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		My pet petie ...He can be rebellious, untamed, wild and a stubborn macho man who's interest sometimes stray from serving me as he should. Not sounding too perfect you say, well you're right he is not the perfect sub and certainly not ready to be the devoted slave he aspires to be. Yet despite all my pet is loyal, loving, sexy and constantly strives to become perfection, as I strive to be the type of Mistress who can guide him. Alone no, he's not perfect, but together  we  are perfection!!
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RE: The Perfect Sub - 6/3/2008 10:57:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ahem. Rubberpet, if you want a piece of darchChylde you need to get in line. He still owes ME a throwdown :P

If oil and loincloths really are involved, I may be convinced to step aside though.

As for the prefect sub. . .heh, if you had asked me this question a few months ago I would have described someone almost the polar opposite of the pet I am currently courting, so what the hell do I know about the perfect sub?

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RE: The Perfect Sub - 6/3/2008 1:36:36 PM   
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Ahem. Rubberpet, if you want a piece of darchChylde you need to get in line. He still owes ME a throwdown :P

If oil and loincloths really are involved, I may be convinced to step aside though.

As for the prefect sub. . .heh, if you had asked me this question a few months ago I would have described someone almost the polar opposite of the pet I am currently courting, so what the hell do I know about the perfect sub?


Well, KindLadyGrey, if darch owes you a throwdown, I'm not going to stand in your way...

***laughs at poor darch 'cause he's in for an ass whoopin'!***

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RE: The Perfect Sub - 6/3/2008 1:39:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: rubberpet

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ORIGINAL: KindLadyGrey

Ahem. Rubberpet, if you want a piece of darchChylde you need to get in line. He still owes ME a throwdown :P

If oil and loincloths really are involved, I may be convinced to step aside though.

As for the prefect sub. . .heh, if you had asked me this question a few months ago I would have described someone almost the polar opposite of the pet I am currently courting, so what the hell do I know about the perfect sub?


Well, KindLadyGrey, if darch owes you a throwdown, I'm not going to stand in your way...

***laughs at poor darch 'cause he's in for an ass whoopin'!***


The hell?!?!  What happened here?  Since when is there a throwdown, KLG's too cute and tiny to fight.


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RE: The Perfect Sub - 6/3/2008 1:40:24 PM   
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RE: The Perfect Sub - 6/3/2008 1:49:07 PM   
darchChylde


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Oh, geez, dc.  You should have known better than that one.


Hehe, well there's always "old faithful".  i can't go around wrestling with dominas or any women without Ma'ams permission.


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