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The Perfect Mistress.... - 5/31/2008 4:42:11 AM

petpete

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Well, i just thought i add my two bob cents so i thought i start this topic.. Since there is a question on what is the perfect sub on the "ask a Mistress thingy..." why not we have our say on the matter, so subbies and slaves here is your chance to be heard...

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RE: The Perfect Mistress.... - 5/31/2008 8:33:06 AM

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My Owner is the perfect Mistress. She's everything I could want in somebody and tons of things I didn't even know I wanted. I wouldn't change her for the world. She amazes me more and more every day.

Your opinions may be different, but for me, there's nobody better.

DV's Fox

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RE: The Perfect Mistress.... - 5/31/2008 9:13:15 AM

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Greetings Fox,

I couldn't agree with you more! You are indeed fortunate to serve such a dynamic woman.

serve well ~ fairer than she

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RE: The Perfect Mistress.... - 5/31/2008 9:13:37 AM

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Perfection does not exist. Anyone who made the assumption that it did, wouldn't get along with me.

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RE: The Perfect Mistress.... - 5/31/2008 9:20:00 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Shawn1066

My Owner is the perfect Mistress. She's everything I could want in somebody and tons of things I didn't even know I wanted. I wouldn't change her for the world. She amazes me more and more every day.

Your opinions may be different, but for me, there's nobody better.

DV's Fox

Ah, shawn...such sweet and simple words, my friend. Congrats on your happiness.

Mistress Lorelei is, by far, the creme de la creme...the best of the best. To start, She has unmatched beauty. Soft porcelain skin, piercing green eyes, lips like luscious pomegranate, the body of a goddess, the heart of an angel, and the voice of a nightingale all make up my dreams. She not only harvests my dreams, but She also cultivates my nightmares. Her angelic graces disappear and the gothic demon goddess appears. She knows how to turn off Her love and use me mercilessly for Her own selfish needs and wants, exploiting me through my endless love for Her and my insatiable lust for rubber. She encases my helpless body in rubber and bestows upon me countless and endless torments, simply for Her enjoyment and amusement. The merciless rubber is an extention of Her. It's tight, unyeilding grip holds me secure, the heat inside melts my very soul, and it laughs in evil silence at my suffering and cries for release. Lightning-laced fingertips rip and shread my flesh, caulderizing it beneath Her touch. She quenches Her thirst with the salt from my tears, my moans of agony are like an angel's harp to Her ears, my blood dripping from my battered body pumps through Her blackened heart...and strong, protective arms hold me close as a reward for my devoted service to Her. If this is Her love, I want to experience it forever. If this is Her love, it is the only love I ever need to know.

She may love me like the most cherished possession on the face of the earth and She may live out Her most sadistic desires on my devoted body, but no matter the pain, no matter the anguish or torment, I know I am loved, cherished, and protected. She is also my best friend, my companion through life, and the one I shall submit to for the rest of eternity. She has earned my complete trust through honor, honesty, and truth. With that trust comes my body, which She cherishes and ravages in the blink of an eye. With that love and savagery comes my love and endless devotion.

When I am ripped to pieces for Her selfish desires, I feel complete. When I am encased in rubber and bound by chains, there is freedom in my bondage and my slavery.

I love you, Mistress...and that is why you are perfect.

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RE: The Perfect Mistress.... - 5/31/2008 11:36:51 AM

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....does not exist. On the line where reality and illusion clash those imperfections show. If you look for the perfect anything..sub..domme..switch..you will never find anyone to fill those shoes. Sadly too many people do not realize that..and never find a partner.

Regards to all,
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RE: The Perfect Mistress.... - 5/31/2008 11:55:08 AM

RCdc

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... because I am feeling iconclastic today....

the.dark.

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RE: The Perfect Mistress.... - 5/31/2008 12:05:08 PM

DiurnalVampire

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I believe you can be perfect FOR someone, but in and of yourself there is no perfection.
I am not perfect, and I dont pertain to be. But FOR Fox, I am.

DV

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RE: The Perfect Mistress.... - 5/31/2008 12:14:56 PM

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Whilst I understand people like to use and entertain the notion, I believe it dangerous.
If someone feels perfection exists, they must therefore find that person flawless and that mistakes will never occur.

Perfection by definition is without flaw or defect.
It is nothing more than the representation of a an otherwise nebulous concept.

For me, I believe more in unicorns than perfection.

the.dark.

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RE: The Perfect Mistress.... - 5/31/2008 2:20:42 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

Whilst I understand people like to use and entertain the notion, I believe it dangerous.
If someone feels perfection exists, they must therefore find that person flawless and that mistakes will never occur.

Perfection by definition is without flaw or defect.
It is nothing more than the representation of a an otherwise nebulous concept.

For me, I believe more in unicorns than perfection.

the.dark.

I think it's semantics...few people of any brainpower literally mean "perfect" in this sort of discussion...they mean "right for me" or something along those lines. I know I do, anyway.

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RE: The Perfect Mistress.... - 5/31/2008 2:46:15 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: petpete

Well, i just thought i add my two bob cents so i thought i start this topic.. Since there is a question on what is the perfect sub on the "ask a Mistress thingy..." why not we have our say on the matter, so subbies and slaves here is your chance to be heard...

So petpete,
where is your answer,
for the "perfect Domina" ?

you started this but didn't answer your own question laddie!

Perfection doesn't exist,
what's good for one, isn't for the next ..
so what is good for you?

Warm hugglz

GoddezzT`

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RE: The Perfect Mistress.... - 5/31/2008 3:00:39 PM

RCdc

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Like I said, I can understand that people use it, but it is a totalmisrepresentation - don't you think?
If you have the 'perfect s-type' already - then there is no need to help them grow, no need to nurture, no need gude to improve anything - would that not be boring?
If you are the perfect dominant, that leaves it open to all types of abuse because then, you would not make any mistakes, there would be no right to question.

A Semantic? Yes - that's me.

the.dark.

< Message edited by Darcyandthedark -- 5/31/2008 3:01:15 PM >

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RE: The Perfect Mistress.... - 5/31/2008 3:04:56 PM

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Language is fluid, and I think the strict definition of perfect as "without flaw" has long since taken second or third seat to the more common ideas of "right for an individual" or "representation of an ideal". It's only a misrepresentation if people are using that literal definition, and I seriously doubt anyone is.

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RE: The Perfect Mistress.... - 5/31/2008 3:36:38 PM

RCdc

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Language evolves, but you cannot make a word into something that it is not. Many words have multiple meanings and can even be taken by minorities and constructed into something it is not - take the word 'slave' as a classic example. Perfection is not one of those words. It isn't fluid.
And I do not apologise for believing people who use it are wrapped up in unrealistic expectations.

Like I said, I am a word whore.

I am not foolish enough to assume Darcy thinks I am perfect for him - in fact I know he does not think me perfect - thank the godz. I have no desire to live up to such an expectation and besides, I yearn to grow, to become so much more than I am now - and he sees that in me and loves to be part of that process though his authority. I adore Darcy. I love and cherish him - even to the point of worship. But to think him flawless would be to deny his humanity and to let him down in every sense because he does not wish to be perfect. With it, there would be no room to grow and that would be boring and incredibly pointless.

I also do not 'get' popularity contests - which this - and the ones that it was emulating - is essentially. Why would I have a need or desire to announce his perfection? I am with him. That is all that need to be. I pretty much let people know that He is all that matters in my life, along with my children - and it's healthy and truthful to admit that we both fail at times, that our imperfection makes our relationship rock. Truth shines, and illuminates the casting shadows of false perfection.

the.dark.

< Message edited by Darcyandthedark -- 5/31/2008 3:38:45 PM >

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RE: The Perfect Mistress.... - 5/31/2008 4:05:24 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark
Truth shines, and illuminates the casting shadows of false perfection.

the.dark.

I like this line a lot. One of the nicest things Master has said to me was that he didn't want perfection, he wanted me. I'm pretty hard on myself when I make a mistake or fail in some way - he is clear that he does not want this and it's made it so much easier for me to learn and accept and evolve. His acceptance of me with my faults and quirks is beautiful.

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RE: The Perfect Mistress.... - 5/31/2008 4:27:42 PM

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Answering and having to be put on the spot for the Noble Lady from the Nordic region most respected GoddessTeaze i will have to agree with most wise answers that i was given. There is no such thing as "perfection". Each person as i stated many times comes with his or her individualities and personalities. Along the way some of us may had some bad times and may come with obstacles such as hurt feelings or disappointing experiences from past and may show some effects in the stages of settling in to our new partners. The only aspects of perfection that i would be seeking in a relationship would be compatibility. As a fellow member has stated there are relationships here which they do show as perfect FOR EACH OTHER. That doesn't mean that they could be the same with other members if they where to join. i also believe that there is an element of life expectance. i believe that there can be an end to everything. Out own life has an end. Nothing can last for ever, even if we don't want that end to come it comes in very unexpected ways.

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RE: The Perfect Mistress.... - 6/1/2008 1:32:23 AM

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Yeah, we can close this thread and everybody can go home, because I've already won the whole Perfect Mistress lottery.

First off, she's devastatingly intelligent and razor-witted.
Secondly, she's sexy as all get-out. Oh my freakin' gods, hot.
On the tertiary level, she's a Domme who knows what she wants, and a lot of those wants are very dirty, very mean, and she wants them from/to do them to me.
She's interested in, in fact demands, my input and feelings.
She's an artist, a scholar, and a warrior.
She could easily throw me around a room like a ragdoll.
She's kind and noble and heroic.
Her favorite comic book character is Big Barda.

Yeah, no. I win the Perfect Mistress contest forever.

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RE: The Perfect Mistress.... - 6/1/2008 3:36:04 AM

petpete

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Congratulations kid aidan... Seek to it that you keep the fire burning!! That's also a challenge for both of you folks...

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RE: The Perfect Mistress.... - 6/1/2008 9:09:14 AM

rubberpet

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quote:

ORIGINAL: aidan

Yeah, we can close this thread and everybody can go home, because I've already won the whole Perfect Mistress lottery.

First off, she's devastatingly intelligent and razor-witted.
Secondly, she's sexy as all get-out. Oh my freakin' gods, hot.
On the tertiary level, she's a Domme who knows what she wants, and a lot of those wants are very dirty, very mean, and she wants them from/to do them to me.
She's interested in, in fact demands, my input and feelings.
She's an artist, a scholar, and a warrior.
She could easily throw me around a room like a ragdoll.
She's kind and noble and heroic.
Her favorite comic book character is Big Barda.

Yeah, no. I win the Perfect Mistress contest forever.

Congrats on your success, aidan...from one happy subby to another.

Well, since you and I both hit the Perfect Mistress lottery, we're 1a and 1b...how's that sound?

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RE: The Perfect Mistress.... - 6/1/2008 9:14:51 AM

youngsubgeoff

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perfection for me would be someone who accepts me for who I am, scars and all. Someone strong in both heart and mind. Someone who shares my interests. Lets me persue/wont interfere with my music career. Someone who will use me sadistically, but then care for me after.

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