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AAkasha -> Inappropriately Aroused (5/31/2008 4:50:22 PM)
Do you ever find yourself a little...errr...embarassed or uncomfortable about what things are inadvertently turning you on? When I get into one of those "moods" a seemingly harmless thing can catch my eye and kind of get me hot, and I find myself almost embarassed to abmit it yet I can't deny it. It's all about timing, too - some days, it would not even really occur to me, other days, I find something quite ordinary to be extremely hot, suggestive and get the right femdom juices flowing. Even though it should not. Today's example - the NHL combine. Before the collective groan from those who know I have a "thing" for hockey, note that there is nothing really hockey related about the NHL combine - it's just fitness testing so that's somewhat generic, I'm sure all pro athletes have some version of it. But in reading the articles about it, I find myself thinking HIGHLY inappropriate thoughts and getting VERY inappropriately turned on. Why? Well, it's all what I read into it, in my sick, pervy femdom mind (I mean that in a positive way), for example: * It's like these hot young men are lab rats made to PERFORM. Many are clearly uncomfortable about it and performing under pressure. * They often acknowledge how uncomfortable they are about doing all this while be WATCHED so closely....Mmm, exploitation!! * One word: INSPECTION. Enough said! * Some of these tasks they perform are apparently nearly cruel and unusual punishment. Ohh, poor baby!! I keep reading about how some of these extremely athletic, promising young stars even end up PUKING after they finish the most difficult examination - it puts that much stress on their body. HOLY HOT HOT! I see pictures like this one below, of the biggest new prospect..and, well, yeah, it seems so hot to me that two WOMEN seem to be there overseeing his...TESTS. Oh my! http://tsn.ca/nhl/story/?id=239281&lid=headline&lpos=topStory_nhl Why is this so embarassingly inappropriate? Well, for one, there's nothing sexual about it, this is their job. Second, their discomfort is REAL, and it's not fair of me to get wet panties over real life suffering, so I give myself a reality check. Third, they aren't old enough to be objectified in such a manner, which is why despite many opportunities I could pursue, you will NOT find me scoping out the location and enjoying the show and/or seducing any men there -- NO WAY. Thankfully, in my FANTASIES, the men I put through "Akasha's Combine" are ready for inspection, eager to participate, want to suffer, and are legal. I think this is another reason you don't find me scouring for more video and pictures - I prefer to read about it, because reading about it, I can make them any age I want. Anyone else get inappropriately aroused by something? Remember, it's just fantasy. What we think about and what we do are different things. Akasha

HandSolo -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (5/31/2008 8:50:34 PM)
The thread title has a very different and ominous meaning to males. Our inappropriate arousal can be a matter of public record.

TermsConditions -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (5/31/2008 8:52:52 PM)
Yes. And you pointed out to me how innapropriate it was. Mr. Stamkos was born in February of 1990. The photo and backstory are very hot.

MsMillgrove -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (5/31/2008 9:47:34 PM)
What is inappropriate about a fantasy? From what you wrote, you have no intention of every pursuing this fantasy. It's odd that you would use this word "inappropriate" to describe arousal based on viewing men in action. It sure sounded hot to me just reading about it. I remember once standing on in an enclosed hall area on a high school campus with my daughter when the entire football team trotted by us on their way back from practice. The smell and sight of them was overwhelming. I said quietly after they passed .. wow.. omg was that hot or what? And she said.. "way hot". Big deal. Neither one of us had any idea to lay a hand or even speak to those boys. Is that somehow inappropriate? I think not--it's just acknowledging that some things are truly "hot" and you'd have to be dead to not feel it.

steffie -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/1/2008 2:02:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha Do you ever find yourself a little...errr...embarassed or uncomfortable about what things are inadvertently turning you on? No. Very little actually turns me on, other than being with someone i feel passionate about. And when i'm with that person - i really don't care what we do. For me, it's not what i'm doing, so much as who i'm doing it with - that turns me on. You mentioned that you have a "thing" for hockey players. Can't resist relating this story... I was in a club in Manhattan and noticed this devastatingly handsome man checking me out from across the bar. Over the next 30 minutes i watched as he slowly worked his way closer to me, till he was standing right beside me, chatting me up. He's 6'5", 250 pounds, and looks like a 28 year old version of Tom Sellick, with the thick mustache and big brawny chest. Turns out he's a minor league player for the NY Rangers hockey team. Hitting on me. Not that i care about hockey. Looks like a silly game to me. But this man was just stunning. The epitome of a "tall, dark and handsome" man. When i wandered off to the ladies room to go to the bathroom - he forces his way into the stall with me. Starts making out with me. All of which i loved. I was putty in his hands. He was gorgeous. (As i would find out later he is also the lead singer in a rock band - so on top of everything else, he had a killer voice.) Still, i have a reputation - and balked when he tried to bend me over in the stall. No way. I told him if he wanted to go further, he'd have to take me home. Which he did. To Staten Island. And i came to really believe his claim about the New York Rangers, because the only thing in his entire living room was hockey equipment... sticks, pads, uniforms... a TV and one chair. Nothing else. Will leave the rest to your imagination. We had a 3 month affair, and it's something i will never forget. As a professional athlete he was incredible in bed. Have never met a more physically powerful man. On the bizarre side though, as big and strong as he was... he was also extremely rough with me in bed. Not that he needed to be. But on several occasions he slapped me around to the point that i was really frightened, because he could easily have hurt me. I've run into the same sensation with other super-straight "macho" males who find themselves drawn to a transsexual... guys like motor cycle dudes or gang members. It's almost like they are dominating, being vicious to me - because they need to prove they are the alpha male. Which can be terrifyingly exciting.

MsStarlett -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/1/2008 4:37:37 AM)
I most frequently find myself 'inappropriately aroused' a the gym... Big surprise. Again, there is nothing quite like the sight and SMELL of a hot, sweaty man. Hubba Hubba! I think I put it in my Journal... but a little over a week ago, one of the HOTTEST guys who works out about the same time I do brought in his gravity boots. He was hanging by his heals doing these odd little exercises holding weights and swinging in little circles. I swear to Ghod it was leg day and the first thing on my list was to do the 45 degree leg press... so here I am, practically laying on my back with my legs up in the air lifting... and all I can see in front of me is this totally hot piece of man flesh hanging there with most of his clothes falling off of him and 'swinging' like a human pinata. OMG! The first thing that went through my mind was "Do I have a flogger in the car?" I finally had to close my eyes and just count my reps or I swear I would have run over there and at LEAST dug my claws into that beautiful back. I thought I was going to have to run to the ladies room and relieve myself. (I might have to do that NOW!) oh ... Sorry ... Starlett is INTO suspension. Especially inverted. Oh dear.... My seat's wet.

petdave -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/1/2008 6:13:20 AM)
i have a medical brace/casting fetish, so... yeah, big time [&o]

LaMistressa -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/1/2008 6:59:36 AM)
Steffie, I found myself aroused by your story of your affair with the hockey player, but I think it was completely appropriate that I was -- that was hot!

rubberpet -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/1/2008 8:32:42 AM)
OK, AAkasha, after reading your original post, I must say that it disturbed me. We submissive men are not guinea pigs, lab rats, or any other type of experimental rodent. We are not machines or robots to perform and be inspected for your amusement and enjoyment. We are not just playthings so you can get your rocks off because of our suffering, sweat, cries of agony, or heavy breathing after enduring one of your "cruel and unusual punishments". We are human beings with feelings, dammit!!! [:(] Aww, hell, who am I freakin' kidding!!!??? We subby guys love that stuff! We're made for that stuff! We have all these interesting appendages just waiting for attention! So use us, torture us, and objectify us...make us moan, make us pant, make us writhe in agony for you dominant ladies! Inspect, exploit, interrogate, and molesticate!!! You torture us and make us suffer, but we just keep on coming back to y'all! [:D]

jonathan -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/1/2008 10:02:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HandSolo The thread title has a very different and ominous meaning to males. Our inappropriate arousal can be a matter of public record. quote: I plan on leaving this world the way I came in: naked, screaming and by accident. and in my case, feet first, also.

Wheldrake -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/1/2008 11:35:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha Anyone else get inappropriately aroused by something? Remember, it's just fantasy. What we think about and what we do are different things. In the right mood, I can get mildly aroused by almost anything that's suggestive of restraint, coercion, punishment, or torture. This is especially true of things that are suggestive of cold, impersonal institutions like jails and prison camps. Police officers in uniform (especially, but not exclusively, female ones)... chain-link fences with nasty coils of barbed wire at the top... even, on occasion, something as innocuous as a metal barrier in a parking lot. But all these things are inappropriate fantasy fodder only in that they aren't intended to be erotic, and probably wouldn't seem erotic to most people. On the slightly more disturbing side (which, I suspect, is what you were getting at) I've been known to get turned on by accounts of various kinds of historical cruelty. I can enjoy imagining myself as a slave in Imperial Rome, or even a foreign captive in the dungeons of Queen Ranavalona of Madagascar, waiting to be subjected to her legendary cruelty. I recognise that my imagination is feeding in these cases on events that involved real human suffering, but on the other hand I won't erase any of that suffering by refusing to use it as erotic inspiration. As long as the line between fantasy and reality remains in place, I don't feel too guilty. And the nice thing about fantasy, of course, is that the genuinely unpleasant parts can be airbrushed out and replaced by something a bit more congenial. Queen Ranavalona apparently liked to have people boiled alive, among other things, but in my fantasies she stops short of that and settles for... well, I'm sure everyone can imagine possibilities that don't involve horrendous physical trauma. The first time I was in Cape Town, I went on a tour of an old Dutch colonial fort now known simply as The Castle. There was a dungeon where suspected criminals were once held and tortured to extract confessions, and I have a vague memory (this was a few years back) of a big, vaulted room with rough-hewn walls and absolutely no windows. At one point the tour guide closed the door, just for a few seconds, and for that brief moment my fellow tourists and I were imprisoned in exactly the same pitch-darkness that would have surrounded shackled prisoners waiting for the whips and thumbscrews. Pure magic.

LPslittleclip -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/1/2008 11:38:48 AM)
I'm a submissive and i rather like your fantasy of being made to preform and such. after all isn't that what a submissive is there for?

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/1/2008 11:39:07 AM)
Getting put into the mood stocking the baby aisle at work becasue everything there makes me think of playing with Angel... Or working in the automotive asile with all the pervertables there and thinkingabout what I coudl do to Fox with them. Work can be very innapropriately arousing sometimes. DV

steffie -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/1/2008 11:42:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaMistressa Steffie, I found myself aroused by your story of your affair with the hockey player, but I think it was completely appropriate that I was -- that was hot! LaMistressa, i'll take that as the ultimate compliment! To add a small, additional detail... When i went home with the hockey player that first night, as we were driving in his car, i unzipped him, and gave him a blow job the entire ride to Statan Island. Which is something i'd never done before. Well, not like that anyway, while driving across mid-town Manhattan. I did it because i thought this man was so hot, i wanted to drive him crazy. I wanted to "blow" his mind. It had the desired effect. I also wanted him to have such a good time he'd ask me out. Which he did. And after our first date when we went back to his place, this time i went prepared with some lingerie. Can still remember the look on his face when i stepped out of his bathroom wearing a red & black basque with garter belts and stockings. Amazing how a little sexy outfit like that can really drive a man wild.

MySweetSubmssive -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/1/2008 11:49:02 AM)
I do a lot of my work with customers on the phone. One day I found myself talking to a personable, very polite man who was from the south and likely ex-military -- he answered all questions with "Yes, Ma'am" or "No, Ma'am," something that is a sure trigger to send me into Domme-space. It did. It was incredibly arousing -- I could hear my voice dropping into a lower, silkier register -- and I found myself torn between wanting to utter sexy, flirty, inappropriate things and curtly telling him to stop calling me Ma'am! Such a dilemma. (laughing at the memory) Mss

aaajusttimid -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/1/2008 12:05:23 PM)
It seems 'Inappropriate' and 'arousal' are common associates (not that this is news to anyone). Conflicting emotions are definitely exciting. We love thinking what we shouldn't think, doing what we should not do. A little danger (or more than a little danger) does spice up the every day routine. I had not thought of hockey dynamics quite this way, but now that i get it, it totally makes sense. If only the Women overseeing this took this view -I might take up the sport!

AAkasha -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/1/2008 4:24:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TermsConditions Yes. And you pointed out to me how innapropriate it was. Mr. Stamkos was born in February of 1990. The photo and backstory are very hot. A lot of them are 18. Just barely. By the time they get to my local home team they are all legal : ) Akasha

AAkasha -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/1/2008 4:25:54 PM)
Hehe...well when you put it that way, rubberpet, I guess I can't feel so guilty.... Akasha

AAkasha -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/1/2008 8:13:57 PM)
Steffie, thanks for sharing your hockey experience, SO very hot! Akasha

petdave -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/1/2008 10:08:07 PM)
Oh, and YouTube really needs to find some way to separate a search for "Duct Tape" into "It's okay, they're adults" and "Don't Bother Looking"... Not sure what kind of misfit you have to be to get pranks like that played on you, but i sure was the wrong kind... [&o]

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