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RE: Favorite first tasks - 11/3/2005 1:15:10 AM

MasterStar

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My 1st. task has always been 2 learn 2 answer 2 the name that is given her/them. A close 2nd. is the click of My fingers warrants their attention immediately, regardless of the public setting. Of course, adherance 2 these small things @ 1st. builds admiration 4 the slave by the Dom...& My slaves have always been rewarded 4 obedience...its a circle that is not so viscious, so 2 speak. While learning 2 respond 2 a new new name, My slaves have always been taught subservience & when 2 lower their head & that a prone/kneeling position is an Xpected greeting. When these small tasks R easily learned by a slave, it breeds trust in the slave's commitment 2 Me, and also breeds trust in Me from My slaves that I will do 4 them as I have promised 2 reward their accomplishments.

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RE: Favorite first tasks - 5/23/2006 1:49:28 PM

MissZaffy

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My first task is an indepth 3 part questionnaire, to seperate the mightbes from the nevergoingtobes. I use this to exchange information between us and build compatibility and trust. The 2nd is how to correctly approach and address Me. The 3rd submissive positions. And so forth. I have writing essay tasks, finding picture tasks, reading and analysising tasks, physical do things tasks and buying things tasks. It is endless!
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RE: Favorite first tasks - 5/23/2006 2:41:19 PM

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Masters first task for me was to cook for him.

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RE: Favorite first tasks - 5/23/2006 3:43:43 PM

Lashra

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I have them kneel naked before me, look me in the eye as I stand before them and tell them to explain to me why they wish to give me their submission and what do I bring into their lives.

Not a toughie, but it is kind of like baring your soul.

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RE: Favorite first tasks - 5/23/2006 3:52:24 PM

juliaoceania

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I found that some of the best tasks given me when first talking with a dom and getting to know them had NOTHING to do with sex. Things like being told what book to read, what movie to watch, what idea to explore are just as sexy as being told to get on my knees or sit in a certain position.

I found it non-threatening, led the way for conversation, and helped them know me and me know them when we talked about it later... Just my experience, and I do not know if others would consider these "tasks" although I do.

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RE: Favorite first tasks - 5/23/2006 4:01:03 PM

slavejlb

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Here Here: i get so tied of these doms who first words do you give and swollow, I like a master who can look beyond just the sex. into a slave heart and soul, know she has a brain, I enjoy being told to kneel at master foot, to raise and fetch him drink or food, I wish after a while some dom would figure out that sex is not the only thing a slave is good for, and i can not speak for everyone but after a while it become a boar and i run away
take care and be safe
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ps not of course you can see why i am not own

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RE: Favorite first tasks - 5/23/2006 4:45:53 PM

NastyDaddy

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When I get to know a sub/slave and we actually become serious other than friends, I often ask her to open an online journal and record her thoughts and feelings. Only she and I would have access to her journal, which becomes a chronicle of her progress, successes and failures, while never knowing how often I read her journal entries... only that I do.

This serves as a good feedback and reflection mechanism for her, and lends itself well to people who's lives involve travel as well as online developing relationships.

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RE: Favorite first tasks - 5/23/2006 4:59:25 PM

maybemaybenot

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quote:

ORIGINAL: pinkpleasures

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I'm not going to reiterate my collar system for mysef and House Iron Bear, however, one of the first tasks I give, is to learn how to and then make me coffee. Followed by a stint at the kitchen sink.

IronBear

i'd happily make Your coffee but housework is a hard limit, LOL.

pinkpleasures

Well, IB *I* like doing housework and the domestic scene, but cannot make coffee to save my soul. < no one will drink it when I do>
So how do you feel about two for the price of one?

Candy will be the coffee kajira, and I will be the.. ummmm .. let's see.... kajira of the dirty dustpan !!

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RE: Favorite first tasks - 5/23/2006 8:10:18 PM

slaverosebeauty

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ORIGINAL:
What is your favortite first task when you have someone under consideration?

I don't believe in that 'udner consideration' stuff. Once I figured it out, its meaning became nill, since if you contact someone, technically, you have them 'under consideration' since you are considering them as a partner; no monoply, you are just throwing your name into the ring as it were. So when I see 'under ocnsideration' on a profile I laugh and wonder if they trully know or understand what they are saying. Its humourous.

If you are refering to after you and another person have a commitment of sorts, ususally, I modify my profile(s) to reflect that I am not longer looking and NOT avaliable. As for a specific 'task' unless its in person or we are working at a harder core level, then not much; if it is the later, then I have been told to either shave to be smooth or NOT shave, thats normally what I have been asked in case of harder core.

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