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ORIGINAL: cantilena

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ORIGINAL: rulemylife

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ORIGINAL: cantilena

Are you reading a different question from the OP than I am?

I'm being serious.

Because I see the original question as:

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ORIGINAL: agonyndefeet
please can anyone tell me what domestic discipline is i am a domestic sub and never heard that before thank you

Am I missing the first part of this thread?

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He clarified it on his second post, which apparently nobody read.

With all due respect, it seems to me people are discussing the original question.  The OP later clarified, but after the question had already taken a turn toward the other context.  Now, if the OP had phrased the original post in a WHAP framework, who knows?  Maybe the thread would have taken an entirely different turn.

But s/he didn't.  S/he asked about DD generally.  And that's what folks are talking about.

Why the snark?

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ORIGINAL: rulemylife

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ORIGINAL: cantilena

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ORIGINAL: rulemylife

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ORIGINAL: cantilena

Are you reading a different question from the OP than I am?

I'm being serious.

Because I see the original question as:

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ORIGINAL: agonyndefeet
please can anyone tell me what domestic discipline is i am a domestic sub and never heard that before thank you

Am I missing the first part of this thread?

{{edited because I still can't use the freakin' quote feature without screwing it up somehow}}

He clarified it on his second post, which apparently nobody read.

With all due respect, it seems to me people are discussing the original question.  The OP later clarified, but after the question had already taken a turn toward the other context.  Now, if the OP had phrased the original post in a WHAP framework, who knows?  Maybe the thread would have taken an entirely different turn.

But s/he didn't.  S/he asked about DD generally.  And that's what folks are talking about.

Why the snark?

Hmmmmmmm?  Let's see, first you don't even know whether the OP is a he or she (it's he by the way), which makes a significant difference in this particular subject.  Second, you felt qualified to respond when you did not even understand his context which you easily could  have had you read the entire thread.  I mean, he clarified it in his second post, the fourth post overall, long before it turned to your particular agenda.     

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ORIGINAL: cantilena

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ORIGINAL: rulemylife

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ORIGINAL: cantilena

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ORIGINAL: rulemylife

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ORIGINAL: cantilena

Are you reading a different question from the OP than I am?

I'm being serious.

Because I see the original question as:

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ORIGINAL: agonyndefeet
please can anyone tell me what domestic discipline is i am a domestic sub and never heard that before thank you

Am I missing the first part of this thread?

{{edited because I still can't use the freakin' quote feature without screwing it up somehow}}

He clarified it on his second post, which apparently nobody read.

With all due respect, it seems to me people are discussing the original question.  The OP later clarified, but after the question had already taken a turn toward the other context.  Now, if the OP had phrased the original post in a WHAP framework, who knows?  Maybe the thread would have taken an entirely different turn.

But s/he didn't.  S/he asked about DD generally.  And that's what folks are talking about.

Why the snark?

Hmmmmmmm?  Let's see, first you don't even know whether the OP is a he or she (it's he by the way), which makes a significant difference in this particular subject.  Second, you felt qualified to respond when you did not even understand his context which you easily could  have had you read the entire thread.  I mean, he clarified it in his second post, the fourth post overall, long before it turned to your particular agenda.     

Okiedokie then.  You know, you're right.  I saw the original question and.... answered it.   Didn't check to see what parts the OP has.  Guilty as charged.

As for an agenda... well, you can continue to snipe at me if you like.  But I don't feel it's necessary... The fact is a question was asked, I answered it from within the realm of my own experience and then continued to discuss it with someone with an opposing view.  Not really understanding how that makes it my agenda...

Heck, I'm done with this one... I refuse to snipe back.

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ORIGINAL: rulemylife

Didn't mean to snipe.  Just tired of seeing these boards go off in ten different directions from the intention of the OP.  My apologies, though, I'm not even sure what sniping is.  Hmm, maybe I'll start a thread on it.     
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ORIGINAL: WalterRego

FWIW, Whap is a pay site originally started by Kerri Pentauk. The "version" of domestic discipline on it is for men only, and it has no religious or spiritual underpinnings or interests. It's about humiliating males (small penis mostly), and into spanking, chastity, wearing aprons to do housework, and cuckoldry etc. There's no leather or traditional bondage or punishment stuff. More hairbrush and  spanking than anything else.   More wife as strict English Governess. Pure fantasy.

The discussion here is has been far more elevating and real than anything there.

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ORIGINAL: agonyndefeet

thank you i heard it from a group that call themsellves whap 

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ORIGINAL: cantilena 

In every relationship, the dynamics are uniquely defined by those within it.  And everybody has the freedom to call what they do with/to each other anything they like. 

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ORIGINAL: slavegirljoy

Just as with D/s, M/s, TPE, Marriage and any other personal relationship, a Domestic Discipline relationship is defined by the people in that relationship.  

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ORIGINAL: agonyndefeet

please can anyone tell me what domestic discipline is i am a domestic sub and never heard that before thank you

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ORIGINAL: slavegirljoy

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ORIGINAL: cantilena 

In every relationship, the dynamics are uniquely defined by those within it.  And everybody has the freedom to call what they do with/to each other anything they like. 

It sounds to me like we agree, at least on this issue.

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ORIGINAL: slavegirljoy

Just as with D/s, M/s, TPE, Marriage and any other personal relationship, a Domestic Discipline relationship is defined by the people in that relationship.  

As to all the posts about WHAP being the question at hand, the OP's question wasn't about WHAP.  The OP asked what Domestic Discipline is:

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ORIGINAL: agonyndefeet

please can anyone tell me what domestic discipline is i am a domestic sub and never heard that before thank you

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WHAP was only mentioned, later on, as the sort of group where the OP first heard the term, Domestic Discipline, used.

As to the OP's question being a simple one.  Well, that's about like saying that it's a simple question to ask what BD/SM is.

joy
Owned servant of Master David

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ORIGINAL: slavegirljoy

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ORIGINAL: cantilena 

In every relationship, the dynamics are uniquely defined by those within it.  And everybody has the freedom to call what they do with/to each other anything they like. 

It sounds to me like we agree, at least on this issue.

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ORIGINAL: rulemylife

Didn't mean to snipe.  Just tired of seeing these boards go off in ten different directions from the intention of the OP.  My apologies, though, I'm not even sure what sniping is.  Hmm, maybe I'll start a thread on it.     
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ORIGINAL: cantilena

Yep.

FWIW, I've re-read your thoughts about our differences perhaps largely lying in the inclusion/exclusion of D/s relative to BDSM... I think you're probably right on the money there.  Sometime, I'd love to discuss that with you - I think it would be a good conversation.

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ORIGINAL: WalterRego

The discussion here is has been far more elevating and real than anything there.

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

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ORIGINAL: rulemylife

Didn't mean to snipe.  Just tired of seeing these boards go off in ten different directions from the intention of the OP.  My apologies, though, I'm not even sure what sniping is.  Hmm, maybe I'll start a thread on it.     
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And your rant didn't take the thread in a different direction?

The OP asked about Domestic Discipline.  That is the subject of the question, and the subject all the responses are addressing.  The OP later claimed he heard it from whap - he didn't ask about whap specifically; whap was the source of his subject in question.

Snipe means to take a shot at, or to attack.

Very possibly did, but I meant it to point it back in the original direction.  Again, he didn't "later" claim it.  He claimed it early on, BEFORE your first post on the subject.   Do you only respond to the original question without reading any subsequent posts?

Yes, I know what sniping is.  That was a joke, which the person it was sent to understood.  In the future, if you get confused again, look for the laughing smiley, that'll be your first clue.

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ORIGINAL: rulemylife
Very possibly did, but I meant it to point it back in the original direction.  Again, he didn't "later" claim it.  He claimed it early on, BEFORE your first post on the subject.   Do you only respond to the original question without reading any subsequent posts?

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Yes, I know what sniping is.  That was a joke, which the person it was sent to understood.  In the future, if you get confused again, look for the laughing smiley, that'll be your first clue.

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ORIGINAL: MrRandallspe

Is a domestic better than in import?

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

Here's an interesting blog on "Loving Domestic Discipline"
http://lovingdd.blogspot.com/

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

So I answered the subject of his question, which was Domestic Dominance, not whap.  He asked what is domestic discipline.  He did not ask what is whap. 

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ORIGINAL: agonyndefeet

thank you i heard it from a group that call themsellves whap