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Leonidas -> RE: Am I wrong here? (6/2/2008 8:41:51 PM)
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ORIGINAL: seekingaSir
When a submissive offers her service to her Dom. It is ignored. There was no reply given. It was as if the statement was never made. So when she approached Him because she is upset, as she felt ignored or brushed off, or as if her service is not important to Him. He told her that he didn't feel like dealing with the back and forth of discussing. Should she not be upset?? She now feels that He doesn't care about her feelings, or about her. Is she wrong for feeling this way?
What's wrong is that you don't know whether it's wrong, and you're asking a bunch of people who don't know you, your situation, or you Dom. That's wrong because it means, obviously, that you don't understand the basis of your relationship with him. So, it was either never discussed, or he didn't make it clear to you when it was. Tell him how you are feeling. Ask him if he believes you are justified in feeling that way. If he says you are not, perhaps he'll tell you why not, and then you can either accept that, or not. If one or both of you cannot clearly communicate your intentions and why you are there, you don't have the proverbial snowball's chance in hell.
Hope that helps.
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