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tsatske -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 12:42:34 PM)
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Yes, MasterZen,
But then i almost feel the need to apologize, for taking up for her, when she declared that she had the Langue Francais definition of "homosexual, heterosexual, bi, TS or TG", and apparently some of us just don't make the cut.
I have known heterosexual Male Masters who were more than willing to top a male subbie - males subs who preferred to be topped by men, even though they were strait, male bi or gay sub men who preferred serving strait men (there is often a humiliation aspect to it that they, personally, do not get from another gay man) - the ways that human beings can permeate our own sexuality can not be ticked off into a handful of single words with hardened steel definitions!
At the time i met Master, my own interest in traditional sex was waning to the point that i had just about decided that i was not so much bi, as a Lesbian who liked to bottom to men. (and Master is rather blown up about his changing my opinion on that one! MEN!)
There are no simple definitions when it comes to sexuality. This is just pandering to the stupid, closeminded American idea that spreads, like poison, out from the idea that if a man ever touches another man, the he is gay. how stupid! we are all complex humans with a complex soup of sexual responses going on inside of us!
It reminds me of Ellen Degeneress's comment, on her sitcom, in the episode where she kissed an old high school boyfriend, that, 'Yes, but I'm a Lesbian now! I can't go around kissing men, it's sort of against the spirit of the thing!' Like Madame4a said, are the Rainbow police gonna come take your rainbow stickers away? (Ellen can be excused, she is, after all, a comedian.)
OP, is it all right with you that i consider myself Queer, or have you got an official definition of that, too, which, as a 40 year old, mother of three, living with one man in the middle of God's country, going to church every Sunday and Wednesday and working at the world's most mundane, strait job in the care of children, i bet i just don't qualify for, eh?
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