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xxblushesxx -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 2:38:26 PM)
What everyone here is saying is...your original question (without all the qualifiers) was valid, but the tone left much to be desired...

petdave -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 3:28:21 PM)
Hm, i guess i'm the only one who had the phrase "the lady doth protesteth too much" run through his head... i suspect the OP is a lowly male posing as a Lesbian Female Domme, worried about accidentally getting turned on by a male sub pretending to be Female. 'Cuz, you know, that would make him gay [:-] The intarweb's a dangerous place. Check yer penis at the door.

Hippiekinkster -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 3:40:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cjan Gawd I just love a good cat fight.. More mud, ladies ? And remember, no rules...ding ding[sm=popcorn.gif] GT used all the mud bathing after reading about JB Stoner. Plenty of jello, though.

Hippiekinkster -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 3:43:19 PM)
I'm a male Mistress.

GreedyTop -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 3:45:48 PM)
lol HK....

tsatske -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 4:46:30 PM)
Hmmm... i wonder what bottoming to a male Mistress would be like? Are you a Lesbain Male Mistress? I wonder if that would make a difference? I usually don't bottom to women - but I might try a Male Mistress, if they were not a CD (nothing against CDs, but that is too easy - i want something different!)

Hippiekinkster -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 4:53:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tsatske Hmmm... i wonder what bottoming to a male Mistress would be like? Are you a Lesbain Male Mistress? I wonder if that would make a difference? I am absolutely a lezbeen male Mistress. A male bottoming to me would be so gay. [:D] quote: I usually don't bottom to women - but I might try a Male Mistress, if they were not a CD (nothing against CDs, but that is too easy - i want something different!) Not a crossdresser. I'm an undresser. I like to show off my integral living strap-on.

MissMagnolia -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 5:01:41 PM)
I understand your original point MindysDominion and realise it's in context of your lifestyle and wishes, but saying that someone who dominates a man can't be a "real" lesbian is just silly. Not everyone has a sexual element in their domination. I don't have sexual contact with slaves, I dominate them though. I am 100% straight, but I have dominated women. By your reckoning, that makes me bisexual, which I'm not. You do as you like, but you can't just make judgements on people who don't think as you do. Remember if anyone can be themselves fully and without fear of ridicule, it's on a site such as this.

tsatske -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 6:59:18 PM)
quote: Remember if anyone can be themselves fully and without fear of ridicule, it's on a site such as this. If that is true, i would be forced to conclude, then, that no one can be themselves fully and without fear in any public place, anywhere, ever, because it is sure not a given here, or other sites like this. Every public group ans a personality, things that go over well, things that don't. Within the limits of insisting on being true to yourself, you find the groups that fit you best and try to fit in reasonably well. nowhere is that perfect nirvana, i'm afraid.

LadyNlace -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/8/2008 10:16:36 AM)
In Mindy's defence I happen to know a bit more about what went on.. and why men posing as a female has her so riled up. I know this has happened to others as well.. not stories.. but really happened. When a man sends over 80 photos of himself as a woman ( a freind he knows.. not himself dressed as a female) When someone basically barrows the life of another and this goes on for months..( I would have gotten a phone call or cam early one.. but.. Im not Mindy) Then to find out .. to stumble across the myspace REAL person one day.. yes.. its a bit troublesome. I know a slave that spoke with a Mistress for months, saw her on cam.. only to learn she was the slave of a man that met her at the air port. There is no need to this type of deseption. Most of us are honest. We are here seeking our other half.. the ying to our yang. Most of us.. do not see people as toys in that respect. I think the point Mindy is trying to convay is that when you lie so much... when you become someone that is hurtful, and even distructive to another.. that is not what this lifestyle ( and should not be what this website) is about. Ms Jewel

Smith117 -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/8/2008 1:14:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Hippiekinkster I am absolutely a lezbeen male Mistress. A male bottoming to me would be so gay. [:D] Not a crossdresser. I'm an undresser. I like to show off my integral living strap-on. LoL Ok, ok...this one got me. [sm=applause.gif][sm=applause.gif][sm=applause.gif]

Smith117 -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/8/2008 1:17:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyNlace In Mindy's defence I happen to know a bit more about what went on.. and why men posing as a female has her so riled up. I know this has happened to others as well.. not stories.. but really happened. When a man sends over 80 photos of himself as a woman ( a freind he knows.. not himself dressed as a female) When someone basically barrows the life of another and this goes on for months..( I would have gotten a phone call or cam early one.. but.. Im not Mindy) Then to find out .. to stumble across the myspace REAL person one day.. yes.. its a bit troublesome. I know a slave that spoke with a Mistress for months, saw her on cam.. only to learn she was the slave of a man that met her at the air port. There is no need to this type of deseption. Most of us are honest. We are here seeking our other half.. the ying to our yang. Most of us.. do not see people as toys in that respect. I think the point Mindy is trying to convay is that when you lie so much... when you become someone that is hurtful, and even distructive to another.. that is not what this lifestyle ( and should not be what this website) is about. Ms Jewel Shouldn't she assume that everyone on the net is fake anyway? If I am in a chat room and a female name pm's me out of the blue...or even an ambiguous name....my alarm bells go off immediately. If I'm in a chat room, I just naturally assume most are there to either "just talk" or to "play games." I usually fall into the former category, since I gave up on "internet romance" long ago....and "real romance" fairly recently. Not to mention, her profile says "You will prove yourself with cam and phone" and still she's fooled? How? I'd think that pics were easy to fake, but a live cam shot and a phonecall? Daaaaamn difficult to fake.

Alumbrado -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/8/2008 1:26:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MindysDominion To Madame I would then say you are not a real lesbian. The thought of domming a man when I am a lesbian goes against the entire meaning of lesbian and against My coreself. I dont see it as narrowm minded at all.... [sm=rofl.gif]

lusciouslips19 -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/8/2008 1:30:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia I understand your original point MindysDominion and realise it's in context of your lifestyle and wishes, but saying that someone who dominates a man can't be a "real" lesbian is just silly. Not everyone has a sexual element in their domination. I don't have sexual contact with slaves, I dominate them though. I am 100% straight, but I have dominated women. By your reckoning, that makes me bisexual, which I'm not. You're not? Oooh and I had such dreams..[sm=river.gif]

Madame4a -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/8/2008 2:29:25 PM)
ahhh... maybe... fact is, if she's so sharp she figured out immediately, on the strength of two posts that I wasn't a real lesbian, then I think she ought to be a bit better at spotting fake ones... now, don't ya think?

pinksugarsub -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/8/2008 3:31:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MindysDominion What is wrong with you men pretending to be women?? I really do NOT understand that. Whatever it is you are in search of, then list it as yourself, not as a poser. I can gaurantee you, you will find what you are seeking! AS a Lesbian Domme, I can tell you no matter how good your profile looks or sounds, meeting a poser and making it work, will NEVER work. Just have that in your mind when you do contact another lesbian! So many men think that if they pretend to be a woman and get to know Me, that when it does come to the actual meet, I will change My sexual preference and take then as My sub! NOWAY!!! All you are doing is lieing to yourself! No lesbian wants a man in any form as her sub. Get a life and be yourself. Im looking for a true honest and very real female sub! so men, get the clue and back the frack off! What's the payoff for lying about Y/your gender? Maybe there are some who really think they can change S/someone's sexual orientation, if only their fabulousness were known. This delusion is especially offensive, stupid, predatory, and selfish. There is a second group of liars. T/they have no intention of ever meeting A/anyone in real life. T/their payoff is cybering or chatting or whatever as another gender. To T/them, the rest of U/us are nothing but a free source of bizarre wanker material. pinksugarsub

LadyNlace -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/10/2008 8:56:46 AM)
I agree in chat rooms etc its a game for many. A fantacy if you will. However in CM it is a site looking for partners. You can't find a partner if you aren't honest 1) about who you are and what you want and 2) give the people you are talking to some credit. I know some who have found good matches on CM, and they wouldn't have if they just assumes everyone was a fake. I also agree that photos can and have been stolen, faked etc. So a phone call and/or cam is the best defence. However I know one girl that did all that only to show up at the air port to find it was the slave of a Master posing for him as a Mistress. He thought when she arrived she would simply submit to a poly house hold. One that had very very dishonest the whole way around. So .. cams and phone are not always 100%. What people gain from this type of lying I will never understand. Ms Jewel

MusicalBoredom -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/10/2008 3:54:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Hippiekinkster quote: ORIGINAL: tsatske Hmmm... i wonder what bottoming to a male Mistress would be like? Are you a Lesbain Male Mistress? I wonder if that would make a difference? I am absolutely a lezbeen male Mistress. A male bottoming to me would be so gay. [:D] quote: I usually don't bottom to women - but I might try a Male Mistress, if they were not a CD (nothing against CDs, but that is too easy - i want something different!) Not a crossdresser. I'm an undresser. I like to show off my integral living strap-on. I rarely actually laugh out loud from the forums but I'm still laughing from that one HK

Sinimint -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/10/2008 5:40:00 PM)
I agree with lusciouslips!!!!!!!!!!! I had dreams too, even though I dont know MissMagnolia, I love her posts and her pic sigh......[:D]

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