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If its not me then wtf???? - 6/7/2008 2:42:46 PM

missturbation

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Ok its 10.30pm on a saturday and i'm sat on my sofa in the living room alone. All i have for company is a tub of pringles, 20 cigs, plentiful coffee and cm! There is just something so wrong with this picture!
I'm not even sure why i have put this in random stupidity other than its going to be a huge rant (i can feel it in my water), cos i really am serious, wtf is wrong with me?
Someone said to me in another thread 'you seem to be having the time of your life' and i was like 'yeah'. But then no, i stopped and thought and no im really not. I have 1 dom who i haven't seen for about three months for various reasons, its pretty much over id say (noones fault.) I have another who i really do think im just an emotional sounding board and temporary replacement for for what he lost recently. Then the third who sooooooooo wants to be up here with me but is so busy cant find the time. Finds it for everyone else though!
My life is so fulfilling in every way, friends, business and family and yet i still ache at this huge gap in my life where that special someone or multiple someones should be. I'm not desperate, not really hugely actively searching but i have just got to that point where i think there really is noone out there for me.
The mail i get here is all, well in the main, from people who quite obviously havent read my profile and are pretty incompatible with me. I have to wonder if its my profile, ive read and reread it and i think im pretty clear about what i want, who i am but i guess the only common denominator in all this is me, so go figure.
I don't think i'm ugly, i'm average looking so its not my quasi looks putting people off. Well i dont think so .
I'm not demanding other than honesty and good communication, so its not my weird requests or speciality kinks that do it.
So wtf is it?
Omg i really think im having some sort of mid life crisis or break down here

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RE: If its not me then wtf???? - 6/7/2008 2:45:52 PM

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if you were in the us i'd be over in a jippy.

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RE: If its not me then wtf???? - 6/7/2008 2:54:28 PM

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I'm not sure, but if you figure it out let me know please. I'm pretty much going through something similar. If I'm not at work, the computer is tuned to CM until I go to bed, then the madness repeats the next day... It's a neverending battle that I cannot seem to break.

<hug>

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RE: If its not me then wtf???? - 6/7/2008 3:07:13 PM

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some days i feel just like youre talking........i just tell me to go fuck my self, then i go do it. once im done with that, im all better for a while again.

good luck, i think youre adorable, if you were closer you could join me going to hear a pretty dang good band tonight.

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RE: If its not me then wtf???? - 6/7/2008 3:11:56 PM

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MissT... let's get married :)

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RE: If its not me then wtf???? - 6/7/2008 3:14:13 PM

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Everyones alone sometimes.... I personally have CM, Team America (Matt Damon!) and a mars bar which is glaring at me for company.

Mars says eat me eat me. I will resist.

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RE: If its not me then wtf???? - 6/7/2008 3:16:49 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: missturbation
Omg i really think im having some sort of mid life crisis or break down here

Nothing is wrong with your from what little of you I've witnessed here. I think the problem is that when we achieve certain things we've been aiming for a long time we stop and think what do we need next. You are looking towards your next objective that is all.

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RE: If its not me then wtf???? - 6/7/2008 3:20:05 PM

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Sing it sister. Although I don't have CM up all the time, I hate that sitting at home wanting to go do something but no one to do it with feeling.

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RE: If its not me then wtf???? - 6/7/2008 3:24:27 PM

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Missterbation in all seriousness, having read your posts here and on informed consent I know you have the single most attractive feature anyone can possible have- intelligence.

Speaking as someone who has never had even a non-serious relationship, I know what it is to feel unfulfilled in life. Yes, it is largely my own fault, I have a self-destruct button called my mouth and the build of a smallish truck.

This is my convoluted way of saying... I dont know. Ignore my flippancy and you are lovely. Erm. Thats it.

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RE: If its not me then wtf???? - 6/7/2008 3:25:40 PM

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You seem awesome. I think we all just go through dry spells in certain areas of our life. Try and be happy with what you DO have. You know, the whole count your blessings thing. You're safe, you have people who care about you, and you have a lot of things together. Just delete the crappy emails, answer the good ones, and if nothing comes of that right now, it will later. You don't have to settle, but you might have to wait. :)

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RE: If its not me then wtf???? - 6/7/2008 3:26:40 PM

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spinnin.. you're adorable :) I love your posts.. and as a former truck driver.. I beg to differ, based on what I see in your pic.. you are much too yummy and curvy.. trucks are blocky and squared... *smooch*

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RE: If its not me then wtf???? - 6/7/2008 3:27:42 PM

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quote:

Speaking as someone who has never had even a non-serious relationship

i knew i wasnt the only one with this issue!!

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RE: If its not me then wtf???? - 6/7/2008 3:29:13 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: missturbation

All i have for company is a tub of pringles, 20 cigs, plentiful coffee and cm!

Enjoy every bite, drag and sip......

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RE: If its not me then wtf???? - 6/7/2008 3:32:46 PM

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....side note-sometimes alone time is good for us. Clear the mind and re-evaluate things so that when the next one comes along we're better prepared for them. Nothing wrong with you (or any of us). Just time for reflection and re-invention. I've read many of your other posts before my lil forum hiatus. You just bout got it all.

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RE: If its not me then wtf???? - 6/7/2008 3:33:24 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

if you were in the us i'd be over in a jippy.

Aw thanks.
Being serious though the only Doms i have really really clicked with on here have been american. I would have sold my soul to be with a couple of them. Guess thats just the way the cookie crumbles.

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good luck, i think youre adorable, if you were closer you could join me going to hear a pretty dang good band tonight.

Without looking at your profile im not sure but i'll bet my bottom dollar you are in the states!! Its just my luck you see lol.

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MissT... let's get married :)

Lol thanks. marriage scares the hell out of me though

quote:

You are looking towards your next objective that is all.

I think ive been looking at it way too long.

quote:

You don't have to settle, but you might have to wait. :)

I think my patience ran out. It is no longer a virtue i possess.

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If it fit's in a toaster, i can cook it.

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RE: If its not me then wtf???? - 6/7/2008 3:36:12 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

spinnin.. you're adorable :) I love your posts.. and as a former truck driver.. I beg to differ, based on what I see in your pic.. you are much too yummy and curvy.. trucks are blocky and squared... *smooch*

Hehe hurray for smooching! Erm I'll rethink the truck thing.... with the price of petrol and diesel being what it is, I'd be better off fueled with tizer and jelly-babies.

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RE: If its not me then wtf???? - 6/7/2008 3:37:30 PM

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I wonder why we often feel at our lowest on a Saturday night? I think it's because we have visions of every other person in the world out with friends, having a ball. In actual fact there are millions of us sitting at home doing exactly the same thing. Smoking our heads off and watching crap movies on TV!! Why do you think Bridget Jones Diary was so popular? We could all identify.

You are a beautiful woman, so it's definitely not your looks, or lack of them. I'm probably way off the mark here, but I'm wondering if you are so busy in your life that you're not giving full attention to the emotional side, looking for someone who is right for you, and not just someone who will do because you're lonely. You haven't really split with your dom, but you haven't seen him in 3 months, so you're not being fulfilled there. Another wants you to be his therapist until something else comes along. No fulfillment there either. The last one has no time for you, but time for his other friends? Mkay, definitely no fulfillment there.

By what I'm hearing, you're a strong lady who is smart about how she lives her life, except in this one part where you need and deserve more than you're getting from the people you're choosing to have in your life. I don't think this is just about sex either, it's about intimacy. Someone that you can just hang out and watch a movie with, without making an effort and slapping make up and heels on, someone who just knows and loves you because you're you.

There isn't anything wrong with you and there's nothing wrong with the people who email you (actually that's a lie, there are some very strange people out there!!). You just don't click with them. You found a dom once before, you will find one again and this experience might just make it easier to spot the good stuff from the mud!!

Chin up.

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RE: If its not me then wtf???? - 6/7/2008 3:37:44 PM

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Being serious though the only Doms i have really really clicked with on here have been american.

lol well im a sub and im swedish stuck in this ultra high humidity 40C weather in toronto.

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RE: If its not me then wtf???? - 6/7/2008 3:40:50 PM

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Miss T.. I always thought you were a hottie and you have great shoes!!!... Be patient i'm sure things will look up

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RE: If its not me then wtf???? - 6/7/2008 3:41:06 PM

GreedyTop

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MissT.... I'm home alone also. As usual. I'd seriously love to have someone to cuddle up with (after a nice flogging, of course...LOL).

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