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ORIGINAL: hapistan
please don't think i reckon you're that awful.

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ORIGINAL: hapistan
you'd find, in northern england especially you can travel less than twenty miles and both the accent and everyday vernacular can change hugely-to the point where it'd be difficult to recognise a commonality between the two. you're probably right though, australian affectations can be quite infectious and I know i've picked up one or two when backpacking (where its impossible to avoid australians!) that I've never shook off...

i think i'm damaged, at some point while writing that the question "would sucking a cock thats no longer attached to a man be considered gay" popped into my head
and worse still, I've since chosen to share that thought.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Once upon a time, when I was quite younger than you, My first serious relationship was with someone who had moved to My little town from London.  It was My understanding that, even within different parts of the city, the speech connotations were different. 

As to the other, please do read everything I've ever written about strap on play.  It isn't just for the bum.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Second, in 13 pages of this thread, haven't some folks figured out that those of us who enjoy this being done for our pleasure, really aren't all that worked up about what possible subconscious psychological premeditations that a sub male might have?  Especially if he had no idea that I was going to order him to do it.

Ok, I lied.  It's really three.

Can we please just get back to the feel good thoughts about this thread topic?

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ORIGINAL: hapistan

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ORIGINAL: tweedydaddy

Forced bi? You can't make a hetero male suck another man's cock, no matter what.

I dont see how thats possibly true, if i was to go out right now to wherever it is the nearest cottaging place is, then suck every cock I see, that wouldnt make me gay, surely sexual orientation is about a little bit more, like attraction, lust, love, etc than what you put in your mouth?

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ORIGINAL: subtex

If a man could suck his own cock would it be gay?

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ORIGINAL: MistressRouge

I agree hapistan :)

My male gay friend used to be a male escort, most of his clientele were married, hetro men, figure that one out lol

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ORIGINAL: iwearpanties

if i may ask?   if you all like and it is good for  all  parties the Domme and and sub male how far wiil you take it form sucking anothers cock . would you or have you had them mount  each other as well ?

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Are you kidding?  Self suckers are hot.

i was never able to reach. although on one occasion i was put in the on my back, legs thrown over my shoulders position....and Her aim was spot on and nearly every bit hit me square in my mouth or on my lips. does take a bit of acrobatics for that for sure..

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ORIGINAL: hapistan

personally I reckon if you're not interested in a relationship with a member of the opposite sex, no matter what you get up to you're basically a heterosexual, I guess thats what'd be a 1 on his scale.

I think there are those who are what I'll term "situationally bi" and others who are "emotionally bi".  Clearly some could have sexual encounters with same sex partners yet wouldn't have long term emotionally involved relationships with them as partners.  I think that's an important distinction that many failed to make or understand early on in this thread.  To me, the latter term constitutes what I consider to be the textbook definition of what it means to be homosexual while the former describes more of the situation & circumstances where a male sub might perform the sexual act for the enjoyment of his Domme.  I don't think it's typically a case of having an emotional attachment or attraction to someone of the same sex.

 under consideration by each other