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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 10/21/2008 12:06:22 PM   
stripmymanhood


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Status: offline 		i've done this a few times...and really...if there isn't the guiding force there wanting it...sucking a man's cock holds no appeal to me...giving that to a Domme who wants it for me...that makes it exciting, and i find i enjoy both giving the Domme what she wants...and the act itself.

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 10/21/2008 4:00:26 PM   
pussiboi


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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 10/21/2008 6:37:04 PM   
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I am not a Domme (I identify as a switch) but I am seriously turned on by all manner of male/male sexual involvement. 
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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 10/21/2008 7:57:50 PM   
HunterS


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I am a little confused here.  Some of the dommes just want to see it happen and others seem to want to see it happen only if the guy in question does not like it.  My question is why do you care?  Do you care if he likes having welts raised on his back?  Do you only want to flog him if he does not like it.  Do you care if he likes being your servant?  It has always been my understanding that a sub does what a sub does because they want to make you happy because your happiness makes them happy.  For some responders it appears that it is a zero sum game ie: they are only happy if their sub is unhappy.  This would seem to be counterproductive to a ltr.
H.

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 10/21/2008 10:38:05 PM   
FullfigRIMaam


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Status: offline 		Dear Hunter, this is a loaded subject, for what I think are obvious reasons...  
Be that as it may, I'll confess what I perceive may be some reasoning behind some of our (okay mine, lol) thinking...  For a lot of us whose kink really is control, having a boy who comes begging us to make them do another, or jumps at the chance to do another boy, the act would be a little disconcerting; because than it would appear that, for one, we really aren't controlling anything, and secondly, what if he really leans more homo vs hetero, I'm serving his desires rather than mine.

On the other hand, if one is in a relationship with a sexually responsive, hetero or hetero leaning, but indeed submissive partner, that insecurity would hopefully be absent, and you could both enjoy the situation, should the dominant decide to make it happen.   
I hope that makes sense, in explaining that it isn't really that we only like it if you hate or pretend to hate it.   M

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 10/22/2008 5:02:29 AM   
HunterS


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Actually no...I am more confused now than before.  If you encounter a compulsive neat freak,foot fetishist,mascochist cocksucker who lives to clean your house,rub your feet,have you beat him unmercifully and suck cock on command you are cool with that so long as he lies to you and pretends not to like it...but...if he is honest with you then you would either dump him or not even consider him for service.
I am not trying to put words in your mouth so if I have mischaracterized your position please disabuse me of my ignorance. 
For my part if I could find a partner who felt that my every whim was their most ardant desire...well a happy camper indeed would I be.
H.

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 10/22/2008 5:12:01 AM   
FullfigRIMaam


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ORIGINAL: HunterS
If you encounter a compulsive neat freak,foot fetishist,mascochist cocksucker who lives to clean your house,rub your feet,have you beat him unmercifully and suck cock on command you are cool with that so long as he lies to you and pretends not to like it...but...if he is honest with you then you would either dump him or not even consider him for service.
H.
Let me put it this way...  If I were in a relationship, and my significant other is attracted to, excited about, and wonderful with affairs of the pussy (oral and intercourse), than I would be fine with him also submitting to, and enjoying sucking cock should I develop that whim.  If however he is not, than all other bets are off in terms of my ever being a conduit for his sucking cock whether he enjoys it or not.  
Hope that is clearer.    M

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 10/22/2008 6:34:52 AM   
HunterS


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I probably should have included that this hypothetical neat phreque,foot fetishist,pain slut,cocksucker also was totally into oral and vaginal sex.
I am still unclear as to just why his enjoyment of the above activities might preclude your involving him in such.  If he were to eat your pussy until you passed out would you deny yourself that pleasure just because he loved it also?  If he had an orgasim everytime you slapped him in the face, spit in his face or beat his ass purple would you forego your pleasure in doing so just because he craved it?
I am not trying to be obdurant here.  I am just having a difficult time understanding why win/win does not work for you.
H.

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 10/22/2008 7:58:54 AM   
FullfigRIMaam


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Status: offline 		I think you're just enjoying watching me type in vulgar language Hunter...
Because I clearly addressed your enjoyment concern in the above. 
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than I would be fine with him also submitting to, and enjoying sucking cock should I develop that whim.
  Yes Hunter it's true, I haven't a single issue with a gentleman lover/submissive enjoying himself, especially while he's bowing to my authority.   M

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 10/22/2008 10:54:03 AM   
Tslaveboy


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Status: offline 		When I was much younger I tried sucking my own cock and really didn't get much out of it. But I have been in forced-bi scenarios sucking on another guy or him sucking me, and again got nothing out of it.

Now when I suck on a strap-on from a Domme or get plugged by her strap-on; that is a real turn-on.

I guess I'm not into real cocks.

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 10/22/2008 11:00:38 AM   
rulemylife


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ORIGINAL: Tslaveboy

When I was much younger I tried sucking my own cock and really didn't get much out of it.


You can suck your own cock?

Hell, if I could stretch that far I would never leave the house.

Why do you think dogs have that dopey grin on their face all the time?

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 10/22/2008 11:02:45 AM   
HunterS


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I think you're just enjoying watching me type in vulgar language Hunter...  


It would appear that I have been "busted" in my pursuit of linguistic voyeurism.  I must admit,though,you dance quite well.   Were we not "GUD" I could most likely be convinced to let you lead.
H.

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 10/22/2008 8:20:55 PM   
Tslaveboy


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Status: offline 		I was able to suck my own cock many years ago when I was a dancer (modern as in Isadora Duncan, Martha Graham and Alvin Ailey). But as I say, it just didn't excite me. Maybe my technique was bad or something, but it really didn't do anything for me. For some reason, my girlfriend got a thrill out of watching it though. But I haven't done this since about 1981.

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 10/22/2008 10:44:37 PM   
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quote:

I am sure this might be a strange fetish for some Dom women...so I'd like to get a feeling for how many will admit to having it.

How many of you Domme's are really turned on by a heterosexual male sucking another heterosexual males cock?

How many of you demand this?

This has NOTHING to do with homosexuality... it has to do with being a fetish.

Thanks ahead of time for your answers.
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ORIGINAL: RealSub58

I am sure this might be a strange fetish for some Dom women...so I'd like to get a feeling for how many will admit to having it.

How many of you Domme's are really turned on by a heterosexual male sucking another heterosexual males cock?

How many of you demand this?

This has NOTHING to do with homosexuality... it has to do with being a fetish.

Thanks ahead of time for your answers.



With all of the forced cock sucking sessions I did with "hetro" males requesting to suck a big wad from another man....it truly is a sport that is exciting at first, even with porn, but dominating this type of activity can become tiresome when there is little "forcing" or domination actually needed. I find that many hetro males want to suck a cock, ask for it to be guided by a woman, yet they take over and don't seem interested in the Domme's "forcing" and handle all the business themselves. As a dominant "controlling" this forced cock sucking, it is a huge eye opener that most "hetro" males don't necessarily need the "dominant woman" there for any other reason but for an excuse to do it. "I was forced to..."...that's just my expertise and observations on the subject matter.

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 1/18/2009 3:19:03 PM   
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I am not sure how unrelated this is actually to homosexuality.  I have found most malesubs into this were seeking it prior hand to being "introduced" to it, and therefore clearly they had a want to do this.  I think for them, it is license to engage in this kind of homosexual behavior, which of course it is and to say otherwise is just not being true.  But can a man that sucked or sucks cock for a woman being straight?  Yes. 

And, this is not that strange a thing among female dominants.  Many really enjoy watching this kind of thing.  I am not into men and really do not find sucking a man appealing or sexually arousing but have for my girlfriend, always with condoms.  For me, this is sexually mortifying.  I never fantasized about dicks or strapons or any of that.  But it is a HUGE part of her sexual life.  In my experience, she waned me first on her vibrator, training me in how she liked it used on her, and having me lick it clean at the end.  Then it went to a realistic dildo vibrator.  I refused to lick it the first time and that was when I was really confronted with just how genuine a submissive I was for her.  I did and learned to do like doing it for her.  In the sexual humiliation became a conditioned excitatory response, which she has used masterfully to her advantage.  I still hate it, but at the same time almost addicted to it.  In a few months time, she had be trained on her strapon, whoring me out and I would never have thought in a million years I would have been doing such things.  But for her?  I do it with complete devotion because I know it truly pleases her and turns her on, which in turn has come to really turn me on.  I have found that this is the hardes thing for me to have let go of and do for her.  It was hard enough just to do this for her with only her eyes upon me, but then to do it in front of her friends is a whole level of humiliation and submission.  In time, I was "servicing" several of her friends' strapons, and she had me so trained that I would out-perform any female porn star down on her knees.  The ultimate test was when at a party, I was on my knees naked, and three naked, hooded men, quite endowed were brought in and then commanded to suck them off.  I so badly wanted to get up and just leave.  Part of me was angry, but I love her so much and I knew this was but a demonstration of that test of love and such a sacrifice would show it--and moreover the bigger the whore I would be the greater that demonstration.  And I love being that cockwhore for her and trust her completely, knowing that she knows just how to push me and would never endanger me.  But what she enjoys mostly is being able to ride an endowed man while being orally service, and I love doing that for her.  The guy sits and she sits on him facing out, while I kneel between his legs and lick and suck on her clitoris.  To do any of these kinds of things, if truly straight and a submissive, means abandoning your heterosexual ego, and I think that is the biggest turn on for the woman, in that a man would do this for her.



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ORIGINAL: RealSub58

I am sure this might be a strange fetish for some Dom women...so I'd like to get a feeling for how many will admit to having it.

How many of you Domme's are really turned on by a heterosexual male sucking another heterosexual males cock?

How many of you demand this?

This has NOTHING to do with homosexuality... it has to do with being a fetish.

Thanks ahead of time for your answers.

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 1/18/2009 8:06:38 PM   
AlexandraLynch


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Status: offline 		Me, it's pretty simple. I like watching guys suck cock. I especially like watching my husband get his cock sucked. This is why I prefer to get a sub who's already worked out that he's bisexual. No heartburning, everyone's happy. If the sub does a good job, he'll get an orgasm out of the deal too.

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 1/19/2009 12:59:52 AM   
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Weird. I remember posting in this thread when I was on collarme before, and here it is six months later.

Now why am I not surprised that this is the one that kept going almost the whole time I was away?

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 1/19/2009 2:24:45 AM   
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ORIGINAL: RealSub58

I am sure this might be a strange fetish for some Dom women...so I'd like to get a feeling for how many will admit to having it.

How many of you Domme's are really turned on by a heterosexual male sucking another heterosexual males cock?

How many of you demand this?

This has NOTHING to do with homosexuality... it has to do with being a fetish.

Thanks ahead of time for your answers.


I have been with three dommes that told me to expect to have to get ass fucked or to suck cock at some point. Perhaps I was never with them long enough or they were just fantisizing. Either way it did get them off thinking about it. I wasn't really looking forward to it but would have done it if ordered to. They seemed serious and probably knew guys that like getting blow jobs, so I'm surprised it didn't happen.

I figured tt can't be all that bad taking cum in mouth since women do it all the time, although it might be very humiliating.

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 1/19/2009 3:12:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		wow seeing this thread go on and on is very intresting  this seems too be one of the longest running posting here . i too have had the deep fear of this type of play but i realy think many sub male do . but tetsing one limits or pushing them to the next level an br funn for all cant it?   this has been spoken about for along time here with this sub and his Mistress and in 09 . we talked about this being the yr of pushing limits and testing them.

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 1/19/2009 10:26:49 AM   
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To me, if a "straight" guy wants to suck another "straight" guy's dick, that's his thing...I don't care.  It doesn't hurt me, it doesn't affect me.  But I don't think he should classify himself as "straight" or "hetero" if he has that interest.  It's like calling a Corvette a truck...it doesn't make sense.  Wanting to suck another guy's cock makes you either bi- or gay.  Once again, nothing wrong with it.  Just classify it correctly is what I'm saying.


Wanting to do something and being ordered to do it are two different things. If I order my sub to suck another mans dick, that does not mean he will enjoy it or desire it again. If he is sexually attracted to another man then that is different, but if he is just doing it to please me, he is still straight.

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