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cuckywannabe -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/16/2009 6:01:09 PM)
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
LP, the way it works for me is firstly, I'm one of those who believes that everyone is bisexual to a certain extent. However, I also believe that just thinking in terms of the three categories of "gay, bisexual, straight" is nearly as bad as thinking in terms of "gay versus straight". There are all manner of degrees and shades.
I'm bi, but nowhere near bi enough to get a buzz from doing anything with a man unless it's within the context of a dominant woman's desire. That is, the bi bit of me couldn't provide enough motivation on its own. It needs the hetero-sub/masochist bit of me, which is much more powerful, to which to attach itself.
The upshot is that if I were to see (at a BDSM club) a dominant woman becoming all submissive towards a Dom who asks her if it's OK to put his cock in my mouth, it's going to be a turn off for me. I wouldn't mind a vanilla vibe between said hypothetical Domme and Dom or even one which is FemDomme and malesub, but not one which is femsub and Dom.
Er . . . . I hope that's clear!
Actually, very much so. It's not far off from the line of thinking of why I feel My encounters in this area have been successful. I don't the experiences would have gone nearly as well had I taken any form of a passive role. Directing the action from an assertive standpoint helps to add to that buzz that you mentioned. It's a perfect example of what I meant. You may not desire the activity independently, but allow the subject to come up with a strong woman who openly encourages or commands you, all the while telling you how it sexually excites her, and you have a combination for success.
Very well put Ms LP... as usual.
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