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fireflywhispers -> Male dom with male slave (10/29/2005 7:18:03 PM)
how common is for a straight male dom to own a male slave?

mnottertail -> RE: Male dom with male slave (10/29/2005 7:41:19 PM)
Don't know what this is about but it is common enough to be searchable, you might not find it in the pages in the Gorean forum, but you aint alone on the earth if thats what you think

fireflywhispers -> RE: Male dom with male slave (10/29/2005 7:44:19 PM)
my Master is the one in search of a male slave.

Focus50 -> RE: Male dom with male slave (10/30/2005 2:39:41 AM)
Speaking as a straight male Dom myself, I can't think of a bigger turn off than dominating a male anything.... At the very least, you might wanna discuss this in depth with him as it obviously concerns you enough to ask on a public board. I suspect there's something you need to know about his motivation. Focus.

fireflywhispers -> RE: Male dom with male slave (10/30/2005 5:55:43 AM)
not that it is concerning to me, just curious as to how common this is within the lifestyle.

IronBear -> RE: Male dom with male slave (10/30/2005 8:01:30 AM)
At the moment My Lady and I are both looking for a male slave (kajirus), who will in time be in her personal collar, however since we are a Gorean Home, he will have to serve both of us. I dont see any problems at all especially if I decide to seek a kajira for my personal collar. I have no idea of the numbers here but I do have friends who have either a male slave or both male and female slaves, however they too are Gorean Lifestylers.

fireflywhispers -> RE: Male dom with male slave (10/30/2005 12:08:55 PM)
Would you use him sexually or not? if question is too personal for you to answer i totally understand of course.

IronBear -> RE: Male dom with male slave (10/30/2005 12:29:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fireflywhispers Would you use him sexually or not? if question is too personal for you to answer i totally understand of course. No.

Evanesce -> RE: Male dom with male slave (10/30/2005 1:24:35 PM)
quote: not that it is concerning to me, just curious as to how common this is within the ifestyle. While it's clearly not "the norm," it IS common enough to not be surprising. Master and I are both straight. We seek a house slave to serve the both of us. Whether that slave is male or female is of little concern (although I'm not-so-secretly hoping to find a switchy T).

WickedKev -> RE: Male dom with male slave (10/30/2005 4:47:45 PM)
Never had a male slave, I have played with male subs. I prefer females, I never say I am straight or bi I just say I have never met a man I wanted to have sex with if I ever do who knows. I found the play interesting in that it was all about sadism and not erotic at all.

submissivesilk -> RE: Male dom with male slave (10/30/2005 7:55:45 PM)
my Master has mentioned looking for a male to help around the house. He has also told me that He has scened with a male, and that they "like having their butts whipped as much as girls do." He is straight though. The male would be purely domestic, to help me around the house.

OsideGirl -> RE: Male dom with male slave (10/30/2005 7:59:58 PM)
I know several straight male Doms/Tops that play with male submissives.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Male dom with male slave (10/31/2005 5:56:33 AM)
True at that. My boyfriend is straight but he has no problems topping or bottoming with other males as long as it's not sexual play. I can't say really how common it is, I don't see it very often. But it's common enough that if it's what you want, you can find it.

Elegant -> RE: Male dom with male slave (10/31/2005 6:17:19 AM)
Why do some people think that having a slave means sex and/or sadistic play and/or 'houseslave'. There are so many other facets to slavery. Master has a lesbian 'boi' (female who identifies as male) in service to him. It's a totally non-sexual relationship and seldom does she act as a 'houseboy'.

domtimothy46176 -> RE: Male dom with male slave (10/31/2005 11:48:38 AM)
Even within WIITWD, there appears to be large numbers of folks who can't imagine that others do things substantially different from what they themselves do or want to do. Couple that with so many seeking what is essentially a domestic partnership and you get an association of slave/submissive/bottom with sex partner. Timothy

IronBear -> RE: Male dom with male slave (10/31/2005 4:35:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IronBear quote: ORIGINAL: fireflywhispers Would you use him sexually or not? if question is too personal for you to answer i totally understand of course. No. My reply is not completely true in the sense, if the boy was in the personal collar of Neets (my Wife/FC) and she requested that I allowed him to give me a head job or masturbate him for her pleasure, I would consider it and probably would agree. If we were having a sex romp in bed (Neets, the boy and myself), my rule of engagement would apply (keep your cock away from my arse and mouth or lose it). However I would not instigate any sex play and as such. I would not use him sexually (if you mean screw him). I would however have him bath me (shampooing my hair and back scrubbing etc) or giving me a full massage (if he was trained to do so). However if he was in Neet’s collar any interacting other than the normal service of food, drinks, or duties would be entirely up to Neets. The reason my profile shows I’m bisexual is for the reason that I am in a limited sense happy to “handle” a male.

mnottertail -> RE: Male dom with male slave (10/31/2005 4:48:41 PM)
IronBear, Well said, me ol' china.........one can make allowances.......within limits (and everybody has 'em somewhere). If it pleases another, I can tolerate to some degree....Sheila yes, Mates yes, some Nos....... Ron

masteroffire -> RE: Male dom with male slave (11/1/2005 7:00:45 PM)
I am very straight, but would not be opposed to a male slave under the right situation. I know of two straight male Doms who have male houseboys.

FangsNfeet -> RE: Male dom with male slave (11/1/2005 8:59:08 PM)
It's not uncommon at all for a straight guy to be bossing around barking orders to another straight guy will do what he is told to do. Ever heard of a foot ball coach? How about a Drill Sergeant? Dominance and Sadisim exceed the BDSM life style. Guys push other guys around all the time. Some of the pushees end up likeing it never bothering to push back. In any case, If a guy wants to clean and recieve a flogging as the reward, it wouldn't bother me to spank him.

slaveboe -> RE: Male dom with male slave (11/12/2005 8:53:43 PM)
Speaking from a gay males view , i think its all about prefrence , i would perfer to be in service to a stright male in some ways , sex is important but for me being in service is more important . yea it would be nice if the Stright Master allowed me to give him head but its not a deal breaker ...steve

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