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ResidentSadist -> RE: Get over yourself! (6/11/2008 6:51:04 PM)
To all those that hide behind “respect” in the guise of BDSM protocol: -=HOW TO BEGIN A SUCCESSFUL POWER EXCHANGE=- Even in the very beginnings of a power exchange relationship, when you don't “trust each other with your lives” yet, nothing in the emotional connection can be private. Not one fear, lust, kink or emotion can be withheld in the beginning if you plan to succeed. You may not have each other's banking information at that point but, nothing is secret when relevant to exposing who you are, what you want, how you feel or what you do. To exchange control, you both must expose yourselves in order to learn. How can you start a power exchange if you don't know what makes the other person tic, what power to give or take? There can be no secrets, especially if it conflicts with paying respect to the bond. Neither Master nor slave can hold secrets or limit exposure if they are to succeed, not even in the name of respect. There must be complete exposure. Treat the power exchange with respect, remain exposed and steadfast in your roles. -Kalon Eric [edit: added the respect tag line]

celticlord2112 -> RE: Get over yourself! (6/11/2008 6:52:04 PM)
To my ex wife who sees a man as a penis with a bank account.... To my ex slave who sees a man as there to fix all her bullshit problems.... To my ex employer who put office politics above profit.... GET OVER YOURSELVES [:D][:D][:D][:D][:D] I like this thread![8D]

MissMagnolia -> RE: Get over yourself! (6/11/2008 6:55:24 PM)
Slight hijack. To Sunshine, who really is a ray of sunshine to us all, I love you, I think that you are truly beautiful in every way, you have given me many a laugh and thought to ponder, please tell said housemate to suck a dead rats arse, because she's a fuckwit.[:)] Response to question To all those subs who start unending threads about, and fill their profiles with, vitriolic attacks on ProDommes, get over yourselves. To all those subs who whine endlessly about how awful all dommes because no one wants them, get over yourselves.

SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Get over yourself! (6/11/2008 6:56:46 PM)
To semi-literate bitches who have nothing better to do than criticize a request for advice on starting a TNG (18-35) group by saying I'm "wasting [the] time" of everyone who doesn't fall into the age range... Get the fuck over yourself.

Real_Trouble -> RE: Get over yourself! (6/11/2008 7:00:32 PM)
To everyone. Myself included.

ResidentSadist -> RE: Get over yourself! (6/11/2008 7:03:17 PM)
To all those Masters & Dommes that hide their sadism So you are a Mommy, a Daddy Dom or TIH and wouldn’t hurt a fly… but you own the tools of a sadist like a whip, or a paddle, or rope and try to sell yourself as not being a sadist? That's not BDSM, thats just BS and it smells! Get real and own up to your own desires. If you hurt her and she likes it, that is still Sexual Sadism. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Of Note: -=DEFINITIONS OF SADISM INCOMPLETE=- They don't include bondage which is suffering to a masochist! According to most medical and academic reference materials sadism is recognized as the inverse of masochism. Masochism gets credit for all the good things like sexual pleasure or gratification of having pain or suffering inflicted, often consisting of sexual fantasies or urges for being beaten, humiliated, “bound”, tortured, or otherwise made to suffer, either as an enhancement to or a substitute for sexual pleasure. Often I see reference to being “bound” (bondage) in definitions of masochism but they always omit bondage when describing sadism. Why is that? If the two are dynamically inverse, then why go out of the way to mention bondage under the broad umbrella of “suffering” for masochism but leave it out for sadism? It’s just not fair I tell you. We sadists enjoy tying people up as much as the next guy. –Kalon Eric

sunshinemiss -> RE: Get over yourself! (6/11/2008 7:12:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia Slight hijack. To Sunshine, who really is a ray of sunshine to us all, I love you, I think that you are truly beautiful in every way, you have given me many a laugh and thought to ponder, please tell said housemate to suck a dead rats arse, because she's a fuckwit.[:)] awwwwwwwwwwww blushing thanks darling.... You like me! You really like me!!! psssssst... I like you too winks and i whispered it to the closed door cause well gotta keep peace at least for the time being. *smiles

ResidentSadist -> RE: Get over yourself! (6/11/2008 7:23:58 PM)
To all those into BDSM but don’t even know what sadomasochism means -=MISUNDERSTOOD SADOMASOCHISTS=- S&M doesn’t have to include pain! I meet many masochists and sadists in self denial or they aren’t self-aware. Many people think that you have to be a “pain slut” to be a masochist, you are wrong. Many think that a Top/Dom/me and/or Master that uses humiliation but doesn't inflict pain isn't a sadist. You are wrong. Physical pain is not the only measure of a sadist or masochist. Sexual Sadism is the recurrent urge or behavior involving acts in which the pain or humiliation of the recipient is sexually exciting. Sexual Masochism is the recurrent urge or behavior of wanting to be humiliated, beaten, bound, or otherwise made to suffer. The confusion is because there is a huge difference between Sexual Sadism, Sexual Masochism, and Sadistic Personality Disorder or Masochistic Personality Disorder. Unfortunately, a sadist is a called a sadist whether or not they are involved in consensual Sexual Sadism or have Sadistic Personality Disorder and grew up torturing animals and pulling the wings off of a fly. All you bondage enthusiasts that think you walk a different line than sadists or masochists may be quite mistaken. -Kalon Eric

angelicbitch -> RE: Get over yourself! (6/11/2008 7:29:31 PM)
Okay here is my lil addition to the thread.... To all those "friends" who are friends when they want something from you ... and then when you cease to be useful anymore ...they disappear!! To my skag of an ex sister-in-law you shouldn't DEMAND jewlery on Hoidays and be a frozen fish because the grass isn't always greener on the other side. To my youngest daughters dad who thought I could never do any better than his abusive ass.... To the Doms * most of them anyway* and anyone else that can't read when someone is off the market it means simply that... To some of the arrogant drives I work with that think because I am a female and more authority then they do that they don't have to listen to me..... They can all get the hell over themselves.......

PanthersMom -> RE: Get over yourself! (6/11/2008 7:33:09 PM)
to my bratty little sister who thinks at the age of 17 that she's all grown up and knows better than anyone else, get the fuck over it little girl!! the urge to strangle someone who so totally deserves it! grrrrrrr!! PM

angelicbitch -> RE: Get over yourself! (6/11/2008 7:33:43 PM)
I forgot a few People who think they are absolutley sure they know everything about everything and DON'T

ResidentSadist -> RE: Get over yourself! (6/11/2008 7:38:42 PM)
To all those so wrapped up in themselves and getting who or what they want, they lie to themselves and/or their potential partner about their needs and relationship goals in order to fit with someone they desire and start a relationship under false premise just to fulfill a passing fancy or fantasy. To all those “that can tell you are a ‘twue Master’ just by reading my posts and looking at your photo” To all those that are “half a slave and want you to make them whole” To all those that “have never submitted to a man before until they met you because they never found one strong enough” To all those lost “little girls seeking daddy and know you are the one because you see the little girl in them” To all those that live in chaos and “only find discipline at your firm hand” To all those queens/princesses that want you “to dehumanize them, reducing them to the slutty pigs they truly are”

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Get over yourself! (6/11/2008 8:23:59 PM)
To all those subs/slaves who think you owe them something becasue they initiated contact To all those Dominants who think becasue they have decided to give themselves a title, out of respect I should have to use it (Heres a clue, you arent my Master, Goddess, Mistress, Lord or anthing else and I sure as shit wont call you that.) To all those Dominants who think becasue they are D and my boys are s that they automatically have to obey THEM out of respect to ME. It dont work that way. To all the D types tat think all s-types should be respectful even if they act like arrogant jackasses

beargonewild -> RE: Get over yourself! (6/11/2008 8:35:47 PM)
To all the D type people who think they are the greatest thing since sliced bread and to all the s type people who think they are the greatest thing since sliced bread - you're not. To the whiney assed idiots who think kink is the magic pill for problems in their life - it isn't. Life isn't perfect and has it's ups and downs just as living a kink based life has and it ain't something special. So suck it up princess, deal with conflict with common sense and use the brain in your head and not the brain you sit on.

twolookingfor1 -> RE: Get over yourself! (6/11/2008 8:54:32 PM)
yawn get over yourself.............

beargonewild -> RE: Get over yourself! (6/11/2008 8:55:50 PM)
Isn't it past your bedtime?

twolookingfor1 -> RE: Get over yourself! (6/11/2008 8:58:07 PM)
nope.... I'm babysittin the nieces again , and since it is summer vacation they won't go to bed till wayyyyyy after midnight

GimpinDenial -> RE: Get over yourself! (6/11/2008 9:12:58 PM)
*To all those idiots* who think marriage between two people of the same sex would mean that current marriages of the opposite sex become meaningless and claim that is why gay marriage is wrong! <hmmmph>** (sorry, I stayed out of the other bizillion topics and figured I would voice my opinion here instead)

Leatherist -> RE: Get over yourself! (6/11/2008 9:14:03 PM)
To those people out there who think being "known in the scene grants" them POWER. [:D]

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Get over yourself! (6/11/2008 9:16:19 PM)
To all the heretosexuals who think they are better than anyone else becasue they put Tab A into Slot B and not any other configuration... To my homophobic parents who thanked me for being the normal kid when my brother came out as gay (surprise mom and dad!) To all the men who think dating a bisexual woman means at some point in time you are entitled to a threesome (My ex actually had the gall to complain about this, he is dating a 3rd bisexual woman and has not had a single threesome yet)

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