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Hippiekinkster -> RE: Get over yourself! (6/12/2008 3:35:35 AM)
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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist
To all those Masters that think trust is a one-way street
-=HOW TO SUCCEED AT TPE=-
To me, successful TPE (Total Power Exchange) requires complete trust and commitment. It has to run both ways or neither will gain it. You must commit to both your role in the relationship and each other. If you are not committed to exchanging all physical, mental and emotional dynamics, then it isn't a total exchange is it? The exchange must include the heart, mind, and body. Exchanging love, lust and mutual trust allows for deep bonds and an intensely passionate connection.
Mutual trust requires mutual exposure. Exposure is vulnerability. Vulnerability proves trust. Trust inspires love. Love makes surrender and control possible. If you are to succeed at a 100% power exchange, there is no room for secrets or privacy on either part under any pretense, not even the pretense of respect. My power to control comes from completely exposing who I am, not from false invulnerability created by guarding my exposure to you. -Kalon Eric
Now this is a great post.
To those who think they are such good judges of character that they know exactly who one is after a phone call or two... get the fuck over yourselves.
To all those "lifestyle" "doms" who strut around with leather vests and a flogger but who, in real life, are all hat and no cattle...hahaha you're about as dominant as the homeless wreck who lives under the bridge... get over yourselves.
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