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RE: male vs female minds - 6/8/2008 8:14:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		well- it isnt a sex thing.

my friend Jenny will go thru a situatiom, ask no questions.  then harp on the tangents for weeks!!

this non- asking has led to anguish in her life; tho I look at it like a gambler betting. as long as it is "possible" for her to achieve her desired outcome- then the rush drones on.  but when there is no change the doom sets in, and this gambler personality mode crashes.   then she pouts for a few  days.

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RE: male vs female minds - 6/8/2008 9:51:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		What I don't understand is how I can say "I'm going to the store to grab some milk" and a woman can hear "You aren't good enough.  I'm looking for someone to have sex with." 
OK.  Its an exageration.  But why is it that so often men say one thing and women hear something totally different?  Does it work the other way around too?  Do you guys say things like "Drive safely" and we hear "I want to have sex later?"

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RE: male vs female minds - 6/9/2008 3:25:18 AM   
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RE: male vs female minds - 6/9/2008 4:28:04 AM   
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Anything a man says can almost always be translated as "I wanna have sex later."

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Well... they really don't have to say anything, at all.  That they wanna have sex later is just a given. 

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RE: male vs female minds - 6/9/2008 4:30:30 AM   
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Anything a man says can almost always be translated as "I wanna have sex later."

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Well... they really don't have to say anything, at all.  That they wanna have sex later is just a given. 



Fuck later.

Come here.

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RE: male vs female minds - 6/9/2008 6:39:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm like a lot of men (even though I'm female) I want sex all the time and I rarely say something unless it needs to be said. I'm direct and to the point and when listening to someone else talk I don't read anymore into it then they've said. Must be because I'm masculine brained (well some test I took said so).

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RE: male vs female minds - 6/9/2008 6:44:10 AM   
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RE: male vs female minds - 6/9/2008 7:04:13 AM   
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Women like nail polish, men think about the next quantum physics theory.





I have to agree with the other posts.  I just tend to think about sex. 

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RE: male vs female minds - 6/9/2008 7:09:30 AM   
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Women like nail polish, men think about the next quantum physics theory.





I have to agree with the other posts.  I just tend to think about sex. 


So do I: does this make me a man  ?

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RE: male vs female minds - 6/9/2008 8:19:30 AM   
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There however must be some sort of evolutionary reason female primates long ago gained a reproductive and survival advantage with those advanced communication skills. The going theory is that females were the primary caregivers. Those that were the most social and open to caring and support were able to take better care of their offspring theirfore their genetic material had a higher chance of survival.


Mothers have great interpreting skills and are often extremely aware of what is going on with their young offspring, without the use of words.
 
Also, people who work closely together, often do not need a lot of words to know what needs to be done.
 
I would think the skill would be more useful in interaction with male counterparts, and possibly incorporation with other tribes.
 
Might have even started as a defense, not being able to physically over take an intruding male, or wanting to entice one away from another female; words would have come in handy.
 
Men probably would not have needed the skill as much, because one; if you're hunting, talking is generally not a good idea; and two, if they wanted something, they could just take it, or fight to the death for it.

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RE: male vs female minds - 6/9/2008 2:42:04 PM   
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"What did she have???"   
"Uh....a girl, I think."

"How big?"
"I dunno, I didn't ask"

"Did she have an easy time with the birth?"
"I dunno, I didn't ask."

"Did Hubby do ok?"
"I guess so."

"Well, do they have a name picked out?"
"I dunno."

"Did she end up having a c-section like she thought she might?"
"I dunno."

"What time are visiting hours so we can go see them?"
"Visiting hours?"

"When are they coming home?"
"I dunno."

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RE: male vs female minds - 6/9/2008 2:45:48 PM   
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Women like nail polish, men think about the next quantum physics theory.





I have to agree with the other posts.  I just tend to think about sex. 


So do I: does this make me a man  ?

Not sure.  Do you mind if I check just to make certain?

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RE: male vs female minds - 6/9/2008 2:52:13 PM   
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My definition of good is being able to say a single sentence and have the person you are speaking to take the correct meaning from it instead of reading into it any one of a thousand different meanings.



What do you mean by that??!!! Are you inferring there is some dimness on the part of the female? She can't even understand a simple sentence? HUH? Is that what you're saying???? Men are superior, I get it. Okay. Fine. We simple females read into things. That must be because we watch soaps and eat bon bons contracting our brains and expanding our backsides while you go out and stab a bison. I get it. I see what you're really saying...you think I'm fat, don't you? ~sob~

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RE: male vs female minds - 6/9/2008 3:11:11 PM   
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Ever have a man tell you about someone having a baby? 

"What did she have???"   
"Uh....a girl, I think."

"How big?"
"I dunno, I didn't ask"

"Did she have an easy time with the birth?"
"I dunno, I didn't ask."

"Did Hubby do ok?"
"I guess so."

"Well, do they have a name picked out?"
"I dunno."

"Did she end up having a c-section like she thought she might?"
"I dunno."

"What time are visiting hours so we can go see them?"
"Visiting hours?"

"When are they coming home?"
"I dunno."


I think it is more about what is important to them, then an inability of any kind.
 
Ask a man about his favorite sports team, race car driver, hunting story, or any subject of great interest; and presto, continuous fountain of information.

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RE: male vs female minds - 6/9/2008 3:14:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: subtee

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ORIGINAL: Smith117

My definition of good is being able to say a single sentence and have the person you are speaking to take the correct meaning from it instead of reading into it any one of a thousand different meanings.



What do you mean by that??!!! Are you inferring there is some dimness on the part of the female? She can't even understand a simple sentence? HUH? Is that what you're saying???? Men are superior, I get it. Okay. Fine. We simple females read into things. That must be because we watch soaps and eat bon bons contracting our brains and expanding our backsides while you go out and stab a bison. I get it. I see what you're really saying...you think I'm fat, don't you? ~sob~


dammit there went the tea.....

i remember once my ex looked up from his paper....said you remember bonnie that used to date my brother? i said yeah..he says.......dead.......and goes back to reading.......

me....what happened....him.......i dunno she died........me.......got up and went to wash the dishes 

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RE: male vs female minds - 6/9/2008 3:28:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh yeah, I have had those types of conversations! 
Now had we been discussing something mechanical or sports that would have been a spirited monologue.  

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RE: male vs female minds - 6/9/2008 3:31:18 PM   
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Women like nail polish, men think about the next quantum physics theory.





I have to agree with the other posts.  I just tend to think about sex. 


So do I: does this make me a man  ?

Not sure.  Do you mind if I check just to make certain?


Huh, do sprogs count as proof?

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RE: male vs female minds - 6/9/2008 3:35:01 PM   
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I think it is more about what is important to them, then an inability of any kind.
 
Ask a man about his favorite sports team, race car driver, hunting story, or any subject of great interest; and presto, continuous fountain of information.



Yeah, well, yanno ... but that's important stuff ....

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RE: male vs female minds - 6/9/2008 3:41:33 PM   
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< Message edited by kittinSol -- 6/9/2008 4:20:45 PM >

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RE: male vs female minds - 6/9/2008 3:47:18 PM   
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According to this amusing little test , I have a predominantly masculine brain. Apparently, because I can solve puzzles and imagine things in three dimensions  .


Bad link, kittin.

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