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edgepassion -> RE: Age: A Hinderance or Bonus? (6/11/2008 6:07:44 AM)
When I first joined CM I was pretty adamant that the women for me was going to be as me, in her 50’s. Like Starlet says “I like a common background in music, movies” Not working out that way….. the 40’s are seeming to be a better connection. I dunno……maybe it really it is just a number…..and it is all just flat out about connection………………..I am definitely learning here…….. big "open mind" thing, I reckon.....

selena123 -> RE: Age: A Hinderance or Bonus? (6/11/2008 11:23:50 AM)
I can see benny to it myself younger men usually but not always equals better sex- usually. that said my preference is men who are my age simply because I am nostalgic and enjoy talking about and making references to the "good old days". I spoke to a young person and mentioned something about a record. He asked me what that meant, explained it as an old fashioned CD. I would hate to have that conversation withg my lover. Additionally I have children in their twenties. Though I am a perv I would really, really feel like one, dating someone younger than my child.

edgepassion -> RE: Age: A Hinderance or Bonus? (6/11/2008 11:49:37 AM)
I know....like where were you the furst time you heard "Americn Pie:"

Aynne -> RE: Age: A Hinderance or Bonus? (6/11/2008 11:52:37 AM)
Just a little hint, but do you know your profile states you are 89? You might want to correct that[:)] quote: ORIGINAL: edgepassion When I first joined CM I was pretty adamant that the women for me was going to be as me, in her 50’s. Like Starlet says “I like a common background in music, movies” Not working out that way….. the 40’s are seeming to be a better connection. I dunno……maybe it really it is just a number…..and it is all just flat out about connection………………..I am definitely learning here…….. big "open mind" thing, I reckon.....

edgepassion -> RE: Age: A Hinderance or Bonus? (6/11/2008 11:52:46 AM)
That would be first,,,,dammit I hate when I do that

edgepassion -> RE: Age: A Hinderance or Bonus? (6/11/2008 11:56:56 AM)
Nope....me and Jack Benny......39 forever......

edgepassion -> RE: Age: A Hinderance or Bonus? (6/11/2008 12:39:44 PM)
Arguably the greatest rock 'n roll song ever...(Stairway to Heaven?) I was living in Atlanta...on my way to Camdem, SC/ Uncle I hadn;t seen in years One of those thing I'll never forget

Celeres -> RE: Age: A Hinderance or Bonus? (6/11/2008 8:59:11 PM)
Hey now... although I just turned 22 a couple weeks ago (nearly a month), I still have LPs back home. =)

Vendaval -> RE: Age: A Hinderance or Bonus? (6/11/2008 9:30:19 PM)
Attitude is far more important than chronological age.

pixelslave -> RE: Age: A Hinderance or Bonus? (6/12/2008 7:23:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LotusSong I feel a person should have lived long enough to handle basic relationship situations. I feel that one should know and have worked with the basics of sex, relationships and common sense. I see BDSM as an embellishment to those basics. The basics are what you can fall back on, everything else is just window dressing because it has no substance. Youngers are in a learning phase. Olders are just enjoying what they have learned. There is no trophy for trying to grow up too fast. Indeed LotusSong! I have to agree with you here. I'm open to a wide age range for potential partners, but they'd need to demonstrate the ability to communicate and understand how D/s relationships work. If they started things out with the "On your knees and bow before your Goddess pig" when we initially met, that just wouldn't work for me and would show a great deal of immaturity along with a lack of understanding that it just isn't how real relationships work in this lifestyle. A Domme and a sub need to get to know each other before any kind of dynamic can take place and it needs to be mutually agreed upon before that occurs. What I just described wouldn't at all be consensual and I'd have no desire to take things further. I recently had a "young one" tell me I wasn't showing her enough respect because I wasn't calling her "Mistress" or "Ma'am". First, she never told me that's how she wanted to be addressed. Second, she wasn't my Mistress, and I hadn't agreed to be her sub, which I politely told her. I then told her I'd be happy to call her Ma'am now that I knew that's what she wanted. She then told me she was into Gorean which to my mind is fantasy and roleplay, especially when she identifies as a Dominant Female, or "Freewoman" I believe would be the proper term to Goreans, and then said she had no desire to be part of the lifestyle. After that she rudely ended the conversation by pulling the plug. That told me all I needed to know. [;)] - pixel

PsyVamp -> RE: Age: A Hinderance or Bonus? (6/12/2008 5:33:21 PM)
For me, it isn't a matter of age, it is a matter of compatibility. There has to be some sort of attraction, be it physical or mental.. there has to be that "spark" that tells me we should explore some type of relationship. In my lifetime, I have had relationships with people my own age, older and younger so I will not discriminate based on a number. Lady Jag

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