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RE: ridiculous - 10/30/2005 7:35:01 AM   
domtimothy46176


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ORIGINAL: siamsa24

As usual someone says what I was trying to say, only much more beautifully


Thank you for the lovely sentiment. I'm certain you would have beaten me to the punch were you not laboring under insufficient sleep.
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RE: ridiculous - 10/30/2005 7:35:09 AM   
pardonme


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I know what I want in life, and what I want or need is not the same as everyone else. What works for me, may or may not work for you, and visa versa.

I apologize if I offended anyone, I just came here to vent my frusterations.

I will bow out now.

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RE: ridiculous - 10/30/2005 7:46:23 AM   
domtimothy46176


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ORIGINAL: pardonme

Let's just agree to disagree, ok?

I know what I want in life, and what I want or need is not the same as everyone else. What works for me, may or may not work for you, and visa versa.

I apologize if I offended anyone, I just came here to vent my frusterations.

I will bow out now.


What you probably don't know, obviously having posted before you did much reading of the forums, is that most of the forum regulars are also looking for long-term commited relationships. With your original post, you put yourself in the position of griping to those most inclined to be in agreement with you. Those who are only looking for an occasional sexual partner don't normally spend a great deal of time on the forums discussing aspects of dynamics they don't engage in.
Generalizing, as you did, is likely to ruffle feathers. You're best served, IMO, by seeking that which meets your needs without spending too much time worrying about those who are obviously incompatible. Otherwise you'll allow yourself to become frustrated by that which is completely beyond your control.
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RE: ridiculous - 10/30/2005 9:59:42 AM   
Evanesce


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First of all, they ARE lying and cheating to get what they want, especially if they are married, or in another relationship. They are lying and cheating on there SPOUSES!!

I do NOT want to be a part of that, I do NOT want to be just someone's plaything when they feel it is convenient.


Then don't. It really IS just that simple.

How do you know these people are lying and cheating? How do you know they aren't advertising for cyber partners or part-time slaves with their spouse's full knowledge and consent? I, myself, am in a committed relationship and looking for another partner. Are you going to tell ME that I'm cheating? My Master, with whom I have lived the last five years, would tell you differently.

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I even read a few posts by one Dom who treats slaves differently than his "romantic partners". What is up with that??? Some Doms just want a sex slave to play with..?


Why not? There are a LOT of slaves out there who seek this very thing. I was one of them. My relationships are not about love and romance. They're about control and authority. At least, that's how my relationship with Master STARTED, anyway. Love entered the picture later and messed with his ability to objectify me, but we're getting it back.

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What ever happened to a slave being loved and cherished for her submission? To be the most important thing in the world to her Master?


Tell the truth... you've been reading castlerealm, haven't you?

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RE: ridiculous - 10/30/2005 10:44:04 AM   
MstrHellsFury


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Status: offline 		I won't speak to the tone or intent of your thread...as you say...you were venting somewhat....all I'll add to this...just as you've expressed yourself and the thoughts you have of others....as we all know...if you look long and hard enough...you'll find someone who fits what you seek in them...welcome to the new day candy store...

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RE: ridiculous - 10/30/2005 2:32:30 PM   
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I stumbled across this site, and have been reading a few posts. I must admit I am completely appalled. I am sitting here shaking my head in disgust.

I read some profiles of "Masters, or Doms" who are married and looking for fun. I have read posts of "Masters or Doms" who ONLY want an online cyber sex relationship. I even read a few posts by one Dom who treats slaves differently than his "romantic partners". What is up with that??? Some Doms just want a sex slave to play with..?

What ever happened to a slave being loved and cherished for her submission? To be the most important thing in the world to her Master?

I don't get it. This place is a farce, full of wannabe's.....

pardonme


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RE: ridiculous - 10/30/2005 2:34:57 PM   
pinkpleasures


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My goodness, have you got a lot to learn!

First of all, they ARE lying and cheating to get what they want, especially if they are married, or in another relationship. They are lying and cheating on there SPOUSES!!

I do NOT want to be a part of that, I do NOT want to be just someone's plaything when they feel it is convenient. If you do, then prance on my dear.

And by the way... I will call people whatever I want too, especially if it is true... and from what I have seen so far, it is.

pardonme


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RE: ridiculous - 10/30/2005 2:37:46 PM   
pinkpleasures


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ooooo.. did I hit a nerve there?

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RE: ridiculous - 10/30/2005 3:07:25 PM   
KittenWithaTwist


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ORIGINAL: pardonme

I stumbled across this site, and have been reading a few posts. I must admit I am completely appalled. I am sitting here shaking my head in disgust.

I read some profiles of "Masters, or Doms" who are married and looking for fun. I have read posts of "Masters or Doms" who ONLY want an online cyber sex relationship. I even read a few posts by one Dom who treats slaves differently than his "romantic partners". What is up with that??? Some Doms just want a sex slave to play with..?

What ever happened to a slave being loved and cherished for her submission? To be the most important thing in the world to her Master?

I don't get it. This place is a farce, full of wannabe's.....


Why do you get to decide what a relationship consists of? Why are your values more important than anyone else's?

There ARE people who play and are married or in other relationships. While I don't personally approve of playing while keeping your partner in the dark, if that's what they're doing, my opinion is probably of no consequence to them.

Relationships in D/s and BDSM are as varied as vanilla relationships. There are no specific rules for life, no more so here than anywhere else. Are there people who have sex slaves? You bet! Are there people who have poly relationships? Yup. Are there online only relationships? Yup!

You don't like it? Sorry, too bad. Maybe, instead of bitching about what you don't agree with, you should concentrate your efforts on something or someone you might find compatible? (Wow, fascinating concept)

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RE: ridiculous - 10/30/2005 3:09:48 PM   
KittenWithaTwist


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: pardonme
I read some profiles of "Masters, or Doms" who are married and looking for fun.

Are they lying about it? Cuz everyone knows that right there along with "love honor and cherish" in the voes is "Never attempt to have fun again"

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I have read posts of "Masters or Doms" who ONLY want an online cyber sex relationship.

Ewww like OMG really? How on earth did THAT happen?

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I even read a few posts by one Dom who treats slaves differently than his "romantic partners". What is up with that???

Yeah seriously? You'd think they didn't know "slave" was just a fluffy role play term that meant "use me like a fuck toy when I feel like"

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Some Doms just want a sex slave to play with..?

How freaky is THAT? Sex slaves are like so overrated.
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What ever happened to a slave being loved and cherished for her submission? To be the most important thing in the world to her Master?

I don't get it. This place is a farce, full of wannabe's.....

You read a lot of Castlerealm don't you?



*snicker*

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RE: ridiculous - 10/30/2005 3:42:47 PM   
fyreredsub


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Status: offline 		there is quite a bit to laff at in this entire thread.............

i had to change my email options,so much BS in there from this one,lol

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RE: ridiculous - 10/30/2005 3:48:52 PM   
Kasia


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ORIGINAL: fyreredsub
i had to change my email options,so much BS in there from this one

I see now the advantages of "not having profile", obviously people do not read sig lines

I see that Pink Lady deleted her posts...... sort of pitty.

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RE: ridiculous - 10/30/2005 3:51:48 PM   
fyreredsub


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Status: offline 		lol,but you do have a profile, if one knows where it is...........



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