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RE: It makes him hard because it makes you wet. Right? - 6/10/2008 7:52:01 AM   
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i also think i'd feel a certain amount of power from being able to create arousal through an act that caused no particular reaction in me- that i could start and stop at will, and lose nothing by doing so.



Maybe there's some Dom in me, but I've always found it enjoyable to tease and arouse a Domme, pushing her buttons so to speak while building her arousal.  If that's having power over her so be it, but to me, it's something of a dance that we both enjoyed at the time.  It was nice to know that I could turn her on in the same way she could push my buttons and build my arousal for her.
 
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RE: It makes him hard because it makes you wet. Right? - 6/10/2008 8:34:59 AM   
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Maybe there's some Dom in me, but I've always found it enjoyable to tease and arouse a Domme, pushing her buttons so to speak while building her arousal.  If that's having power over her so be it, but to me, it's something of a dance that we both enjoyed at the time.  It was nice to know that I could turn her on in the same way she could push my buttons and build my arousal for her.
 
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*chuckle* Just be careful with that game...pushing her buttons at the wrong time/to the wrong degree can have an extremely deleterious effect, speaking from experience. He knows better now! ;P

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RE: It makes him hard because it makes you wet. Right? - 6/10/2008 9:51:22 AM   
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I can't count how many times I've heard from both submissive and dominant men on this site "you could make me do all kinds of things I don't think I want to do" ... its not been tested as all of those people I am no longer corresponding with for various reasons -- not so much that statement.

My boi does things because they make me happy -- from submitting to my fist sexually, my flogger, and taking out the garbage, doing the dishes and making and bringing me my coffee.  Some of those things make me wet; others make me happy.  She's good with the 'happy' things -- that makes her happy.

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RE: It makes him hard because it makes you wet. Right? - 6/10/2008 9:57:58 AM   
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ORIGINAL: pixelslave
Maybe there's some Dom in me, but I've always found it enjoyable to tease and arouse a Domme, pushing her buttons so to speak while building her arousal.  If that's having power over her so be it, but to me, it's something of a dance that we both enjoyed at the time.  It was nice to know that I could turn her on in the same way she could push my buttons and build my arousal for her.
 
 - pixel


*chuckle* Just be careful with that game...pushing her buttons at the wrong time/to the wrong degree can have an extremely deleterious effect, speaking from experience. He knows better now! ;P


It's safe to say that it was a dance we were both mutually in sync with.  It's not something I'd do if it hadn't been desired and appreciated.  Knowing you can make a woman wet with desire for you is indeed a big turn on for us men!
 
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RE: It makes him hard because it makes you wet. Right? - 6/10/2008 10:34:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		Whatever works.  Everyone is different.  The male mind is...well....the male mind.  Recently, I watched my sub clean the toilet on his knees, with a pair of panties on, with a raging hard on.  Go figure?  Does that make me wet?  Of course not.  I was just glad he was doing it and not me, lol.  But, the whole power trip of making him do it makes something stir inside of me.  He knows when I have that look in my eye and it makes him putty in my hands.

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RE: It makes him hard because it makes you wet. Right? - 6/11/2008 4:04:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		I agree that some things that subs might be embarassed to admit might turn them on, however, saying that anything that turns me on will turn pet on isn't exactly so. An example If I wanted to draw pets blood because (lets just say its a fetish that I wish to explore) yet its a hard limit with him, even though it might really turn me on and even make me drippy its probably going to have the opposite effect on pet due that its a hard limit.  As far as the first paragraph that was mentioned, for the most part I agree with it to an extent. If a woman gets wet they sink deeper and deeper into their submission willing to go farther and suffer more because of pleasing their Domme therefore enjoying the moment even more themselves as well. Just my two cents.~Lorelei

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RE: It makes him hard because it makes you wet. Right? - 6/11/2008 5:04:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		Nothing makes me hotter than watching a man doing physical labor and sweating like a pig in the sun.  Whether it's working on a car, mowing grass, digging ditches or swinging a hammer... when they get that lovely sheen on the muscles my panties get all wet and I just want to lick the grime off of them.

(Now - who wants to come dig some privet hedge out of my back yard?)


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RE: It makes him hard because it makes you wet. Right? - 6/11/2008 5:24:02 PM   
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Maybe there's some Dom in me, but I've always found it enjoyable to tease and arouse a Domme, pushing her buttons so to speak while building her arousal.  If that's having power over her so be it, but to me, it's something of a dance that we both enjoyed at the time.  It was nice to know that I could turn her on in the same way she could push my buttons and build my arousal for her.


Oh, i don't doubt for a minute that it would be sweet to have a Domme with a fetish... i just think that long-term, it might make the sexual dynamic a bit odd. i've always thought of fetishism as something of a vulnerability at best.

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ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

Nothing makes me hotter than watching a man doing physical labor and sweating like a pig in the sun.  Whether it's working on a car, mowing grass, digging ditches or swinging a hammer... when they get that lovely sheen on the muscles my panties get all wet and I just want to lick the grime off of them.


See, that's a good one... just need to find some way to make it contagious.

(Sweat!? That's where i'm a Viking! )

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RE: It makes him hard because it makes you wet. Right? - 6/12/2008 2:03:25 AM   
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Nah I don't.  Anyways, so long as she's getting off on it, and it's not busting my ass (literally, as in, with another mans cock or a dildo), then I'll do it.  I'd definately do hard labour for a woman though.  I'm a man, it's what I do.  You might see it as sexy, I see it as, interesting.  It's not your vagina I'm worried about, it's the house standing up, or how deep the hole is etc.  So, for me, if she gets off on WHO I AM, thats a massive bonus.  ... (Notice I said BONUS, not BONER), see, it's good when, your working and she's getting horny, and you don't know it, and then you go inside and she just ravishes you and fucks you until she's panting like an asthmatic air filter.  Thats the woman I love.  Woman who let me do guy shit and love it.

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RE: It makes him hard because it makes you wet. Right? - 6/12/2008 6:16:37 AM   
MsStarlett


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Status: offline 		"panting like an asthmatic air filter"  THAT's Funny! 

I had started saying "Sweating like Hillary on Super Tuesday" - but that's kind of over now.


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RE: It makes him hard because it makes you wet. Right? - 6/13/2008 10:31:53 AM   
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Nah, for me, this whole, domme/sub shit doesn't work unless shes getting off on it.   I do this for sexual pleasure.  Thats all.  Its not a life style.  If shes not getting off, neither am I.   The thought of her getting off is what gets me off. 








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RE: It makes him hard because it makes you wet. Right? - 6/13/2008 10:47:13 AM   
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I keep telling all these boys that I get totally hot for a man who can beat me at Scrabble, but they all just think I'm kidding.

Also, most of them can't.

Alas for my lugubrious plight and my lack of perspicuity!

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RE: It makes him hard because it makes you wet. Right? - 6/13/2008 12:47:48 PM   
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Submissive men - those who want to make a woman wet -- what if her MAIN HOT BUTTON was seeing you complete a jigsaw puzzle? She got totally wet as you placed the pieces together?  And that's it. 



I deliberately choose a difficult piece, one from the broad expanse of featureless sky at the top of the picture, and spend a moment looking at the half-completed puzzle in an effort to work out where it might fit in. She smiles coolly, languidly, and seems to relish my baffled frown. I meet her eyes and press the piece decisively into what I think is a likely spot, only to find that it's completely the wrong shape. Her smile widens and she gives a long, tremulous sigh, shifting her weight among the soft cushions on which she reclines.

"Try again, my pet," she purrs lustfully...

As a matter of fact, I do enjoy jigsaws, but I think I'd get bored with Jigsaw Play fairly quickly. As I much as I enjoy pleasing my Mistress, I'm one of those bad, selfish submissives who's in it primarily for the suffering. It's the force of her sadism, more than the satisfaction of giving her pleasure, that makes me want to surrender myself to her.

Of course, there's also the more interesting possibility that she could actually take pleasure in boring me to tears, rather than in the act of jigsaw completion itself. That would be a wonderfully subtle form of cruelty.




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RE: It makes him hard because it makes you wet. Right? - 6/13/2008 12:55:17 PM   
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I think I'd get bored with Jigsaw Play fairly quickly.


Though i know what you mean here, with Ma'ams interest in woodworking (pun so very not intended); the term "Jigsaw Play" makes some incredibly disturbing images run through my mind.


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RE: It makes him hard because it makes you wet. Right? - 6/13/2008 1:13:38 PM   
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I think I'd get bored with Jigsaw Play fairly quickly.


Though i know what you mean here, with Ma'ams interest in woodworking (pun so very not intended); the term "Jigsaw Play" makes some incredibly disturbing images run through my mind.



Actually, that occurred to me too as I typed the sentence, and it also reminded me of the Saw movies... talk about disturbing images. But I kind of like a disturbing image now and then, so I left it in.

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RE: It makes him hard because it makes you wet. Right? - 6/13/2008 9:23:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		I can't tolerate wasting my time.  If shes boring me to fucking tears and not getting off on it, I think I'd have to take matters into my own hands.

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RE: It makes him hard because it makes you wet. Right? - 6/14/2008 7:56:09 AM   
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I keep telling all these boys that I get totally hot for a man who can beat me at Scrabble, but they all just think I'm kidding.

Also, most of them can't.

Alas for my lugubrious plight and my lack of perspicuity!


If it's kinky scrabble (kinky words only), I am afraid you are about to have one added to your loss column.

:p

Cheers,

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RE: It makes him hard because it makes you wet. Right? - 6/14/2008 8:01:44 AM   
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So I've got to have that verbal payoff. Does that make me a theoretical "do me" sub?


No, that makes you normal. Subs have needs, too!
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So true Submissives we have needs also and  the good Mistress Dom  Dommes Masters top they see this and they know that we have needs now there are needs and wants and we have to understand the difrence becous a Good Owner will know the difrence in some cases for us but we have needs and then we have wants and some submisisve think there wants are needs wich can come to a mistake or misunderstanding at times

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RE: It makes him hard because it makes you wet. Right? - 6/19/2008 12:16:16 AM   
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RE: It makes him hard because it makes you wet. Right? - 6/19/2008 2:45:36 AM   
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I keep telling all these boys that I get totally hot for a man who can beat me at Scrabble, but they all just think I'm kidding.

Also, most of them can't.

Alas for my lugubrious plight and my lack of perspicuity!


Damn. It would be another dominant female with this degree of logophilia! Perchance, may I at least know whether you share my love of rhabdophilia?

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