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RE: Has this ever happened to you - 10/31/2005 8:03:45 PM

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On the flip side, I once ran into someone I knew from the Kink side of things in a grocery store. It was weird. There was this moment of "hey I know you", we exchanged quick "Hello!"'s and continued shopping.

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RE: Has this ever happened to you - 11/1/2005 8:26:29 AM

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I think I'd like to find out what I'd do. The problem is there are no clubs or munches in this area that I can find.

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RE: Has this ever happened to you - 11/1/2005 11:01:13 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mystictryst

On the flip side, I once ran into someone I knew from the Kink side of things in a grocery store. It was weird. There was this moment of "hey I know you", we exchanged quick "Hello!"'s and continued shopping.

I think the "quick hello" is a REAL good idea.

I ran into a couple, while walking into a restaurant with my dad. I've seen this couple at numerous BDSM events, and since having discovered how many people don't use their real names, was careful not to offer introductions. On first impression this might've appeared rude, but just went onto to say "these are friends of mine" and "this is my dad." They offered the same, regarding their son, who was dining with them.

Running into others can put people in odd situations, that's for sure.

Unless the person is alone, I don't say anything more than "hello, nice to see ya."

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RE: Has this ever happened to you - 11/1/2005 12:19:16 PM

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My mailman is one of the most prominent members of the local fetish community.

It's hot.

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RE: Has this ever happened to you - 11/1/2005 12:21:52 PM

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But the weirdest was running into a former camper of mine at a local fetish ball.

I was her camp counsleor when she was only 13!

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RE: Has this ever happened to you - 11/1/2005 1:28:03 PM

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i have never met anyone at a public place that i know, but have had two situations similar:

recently i took on a client that was seriously depressed to the point of requiring Electro convulsive therapy, he was mute, not eating or drinking, and certainly, no image of when id first met him at a leather bdsm crowd club. He was a Dom. So proud, and magnificent. He never showed me recognition, and so i never mentioned it, just did the treatment and counselling.
On the day of his discharge, he thanked me for my discretion, that in some small way, because he 'knew' i was sub, that made it easier to accept food/fluid/care that kept him alive, whilst we waited for the treatment to kick in. That a submissive was helping to 'care' for him, made it more palatable, for him to accept that care.

On another note, i have friends staying from overseas, they wish to visit a fetish club and want us to take them. To go to a club, with my friend, is gonna seem really wierd to me.
Thats next weekend. I keep thinking, sposing they start to play and im gonna see them, how will i face them for the rest of the weekend?

I realise this seems tame to ppl who play publicly, but i dont, so im gonna be wierded out somewhat. But its all good fun. Im just very green when it comes to public.

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RE: Has this ever happened to you - 11/7/2005 11:30:36 PM

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Has this ever happened to you: You go to a play party, BDSM club, Fetish Flea or some other event and you run into someone you know from work or Your pharmacist, mailman, kids teacher etc.. you catch my drift?
What would you do/how would you handle it?

i wish this would happen to me but since i don't know of any scene in my area, and am probably to shy to show up even if i found out about one, it probably won't happen. But i live in a realtively small community so if i was to find such a group chances are 50% of the people would know me or vice versa.

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RE: Has this ever happened to you - 11/8/2005 2:33:02 PM

Marquisd

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yup.

it was very funny......imagine a room full of leather smell, screams, candle wax burning, whip's snapping.....two guys looking at each other accross the room..........opening their eyes.........trying to catch a glimpse of the other person accross the room...........slowly getting closer....................."BOB ???".........."GARRY??""""..................OMG!

is their a nicer way to meet your new neighbors in the house next to yours :)

I have not laughed like that since the day it happened..........it was just funny

cheers

Marquis

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RE: Has this ever happened to you - 11/9/2005 9:09:25 AM

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