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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/11/2008 7:31:39 AM

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As a submissive male, i have been made to lick up my mess many times. This is a true punishment for me. i hate doing it and i don't think i will ever get used to it. i do it because i am told to do it..

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/11/2008 9:00:24 AM

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Pretty lady, you really dont know this topic.

i dont??? so being born intersexed i would have no idea of this topic.... hmm..

i find topics like this usually end up in the stupidity forum section. that was why i responded the way i did.

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/11/2008 9:01:36 AM

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Ok DC I have to ask. What do you consider a bad blow job? Ms Starlett I like it when your forceful. It almost turns me subi-ish. Op have you asked your Domme this question. Mmmm is your Domme a cyber one?

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/11/2008 9:16:27 AM

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ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

Well... my personal opinion about the OP:

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I make my subs eat their filthy mess because porn sites are so FULL of shots of women with spooge all over their faces, sucking it up, licking it, snowballing... I think its GOOD for a man to know exactly what it tastes like. Then, they don't get so excited about wanting a woman to 'enjoy his blessings'.

Honestly, every single sub that I have looked horrified at the thought the first time, then eagerly lapped that mess off my fingers. Some happily lick it off the floor! They all knew damned well from the get go that if they didn't do it for me, they would be out the door.

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And -BTW- It's not a Domme thing for me to make men do it. It's a Female Supremest 'thing'. I strongly disagree with the idea that there are "Male" actions and "Female" actions. Anything that a man expects a Woman to do - he Damned Well better be willing to do it himself!

You are awesome!

You said exactly what I was thinking when I read this post, including the fact that the OP is a jackass.

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/11/2008 9:59:26 AM

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Because I control him and he is to obey me. Women have been swallowing mens cum for quite a few years now, I see nothing wrong with a male swallowing his own cum. Yes most are icked out at first but they get used to it.

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/11/2008 10:02:50 AM

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ORIGINAL: ObediantMan1

See it is intersting...Women think a man swallowing his own cum is yank material. But men know that a split second after they START to cum, the desire to do anything a woman wants dissapates.

Women will taste their cum all night, but men lose that urge to obey quickly...so ladies, it is not what you think.

My domme likes the idea because she knows it is a MIGHTY sign of submission...

One point for the males....the girls just think it is wank....sorrrrrry, you ladies are wrong on this one.

You speak for yourself. My malesub is just as submissive after I allow him to cum as he is before. Why is that? Because he has a submissive nature and isn't a player just pretending to be submissive to get laid.

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/11/2008 10:35:40 AM

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ORIGINAL: Lashra

Because I control him and he is to obey me. Women have been swallowing mens cum for quite a few years now, I see nothing wrong with a male swallowing his own cum. Yes most are icked out at first but they get used to it.

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the first time for me was more erotic then anything else as it was in a kiss when she had a mouth-full (little did i know until the kiss) right after going down on me.

now the second time was more difficult, as she was on top, and moved up to straddle my head immediately "after". but since there was insistance around it (and i do love that in a Woman) that made it erotic enough to take the plunge, so to speak.

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/11/2008 11:00:07 AM

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Ok DC I have to ask. What do you consider a bad blow job?

Ok, let me preface that these are 100 percent from vanilla experiences. i've only had overt sexual contact with two women (only one counts, as the other was not consentual) that had dominated me or topped me.

There are a number of things that make for a bad blowjob to me.

-there's the obligatory lick and slurp, lasting no more than 10 seconds and you just know that she only did it because i can't feel my face after 45 minutes of cunnilingus.

-there's the "ok, it's hard now; let's go" where i've only just gotten into it and she decides to climb on immediately; and she wonders why i'm no longer fully hard and need to stroke it myself to get the wonderboy back; her lack of patience and quick shifting of gears has killed the mood... women want more foreplay, why does it make us guys assholes to desire it as well?

-biting (not nibbling, but serious biting) and yanking my foreskin... yes, i know that the extra bit is different than what you're used to; i also know that there's many fun and interesting things to do with that; but, IT'S NOT BEEF JERKY and has it's own nerve endings

-pounding my nuts back where they came from while giving a handjob (which, on us longer guys is much appreciated, as the whole shaft is involved) along with the oral action... what the hell makes you think that i'm going to stay aroused when you beat the shit out of my nuts with a closed fist? yes, that is some guys kink; but ask first

-there's always the "what the hell?" blowjob, where she'll lick the shaft and head; kiss and nibble me in various spots; it's starting to look good, but when she finally wraps her lips around it, there's absolutely no muscle work going on in her mouth... she's simply sliding her mouth up and down and never sucks; maybe it's just me, but i don't think your neck should have to work harder than your mouth on this kind of thing

-the unenthusiastic blowjob is by far the worst... she's putting in the work and lasting more than a few seconds; all in all, it could be considered a very good blowjob; if i couldn't tell that she's bored and and apparently only putting in her time... trust me ladies, i will never force you to suck my dick; if you don't want it in your mouth, neither do i; i won't be mad or disappointed if we skip this part of the party... my eating you out does not mean you have to return the favor; believe me, it was as much or more for me as for you

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yes, i know i'm picky; but it's not my fault, my pecker knows what he likes; i'm happy to communicate all of this to my partner, though i've found alot of women are horribly offended if you even slightly infer that they might give bad head... it's like there's an attitude of "it should be enough that i'm doing this for you at all"; really, i appreciate the thought; but it's not enough

no, i never tell a woman that she gives bad head (well, unless she's causing damage; i draw the line at non-negotiated CBT by inexpert hands); i phrase things along the lines of "you're doing great, but here's what works for me", and i give little audible cues when she's doing well

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to keep this from being an entire hijack... i'll say that (while it's been years), going down on a woman after i've climaxed in her is no problem for me; neither is a full kiss directly after a blowjob... it's the idea of tasting my own semen in it's own undiluted state that bothers me

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/11/2008 11:07:11 AM

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*reads the list* Phew, I'm safe! ;P

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/11/2008 6:56:30 PM

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Kudos DC, it's exactly the same for me. You took the thought out of my mind when you expressed yours.
Hmmm, what was I saying?

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/11/2008 7:04:03 PM

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I may have recieved a BJ or two but I sure didn't EXPECT her to give it to me. I won't try to concieve of a woman doing that as something to be expected. I do however expect to be "asked" to do it for Her, mine or Her lover's. No, I'm not gay or even bi, it's Her desire that should be satisfied.

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/21/2008 9:05:45 PM

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I know this a dumb question , what is snow balling ??

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/21/2008 10:25:33 PM

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When one person passes a mouthful of semen to the mouth of another person. In most porn, it's normally two females.

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/21/2008 10:42:44 PM

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She is not there to make you happy. Quite the opposite. You are there to please her, and if that is what pleases her, who are you to question? And if she does allow you to do something that you enjoy you can bet that is not the end of the sene. Cause you can bet your bottom dollar that she is not going to end with you being happy she is going to end with her being happy.

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/22/2008 6:27:55 AM

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the true surrender is not just to go down on your knees and say "yes mistress", and it you ask some of us what they prefer ice-cream or the mistress's feet they will choose feet and without hesitations .
the true submission and obedience is to do what |you don't like to just because that is what your owner wants.
for her and not for yourself, and when you do it you will understand how match its fulfilling yourself..

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/22/2008 8:13:57 AM

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Having had a rather interesting eperience recently I decide to talk to MsK about it...She got all hot and bothered. Right after we met, in a dream She met the alternate me...the guy. The male version...and it's true. If I had the ability to switch parts , like have a body suit in the closet, the world would be doomed. Anyways, I had a dream that I got to use those parts...I SO understand now why guys are all into their dicks. I really really do.

So the dream became what I cann conscious b\dreaming...I knew I was dreaming and decided to bend it to have some fun...sex ensued. I was happy...so talking about this to MsK came this VERY topic. And Her reasoning is this:

I wouldn't get to leave some of me in Her. I get the privilage of being inside Her body only temporarily and when She wants. And doing the whole swallow your own cum thing, that's Her make sure that's exactly the case....temporary. It's an exercise of Her control and power and my desire to please.

And now that my head is all fucked up again around this I need to go figure out why I'm not 6 foot 2 inches tall again.

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/22/2008 10:06:48 AM

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ORIGINAL: darchChylde

no, i never tell a woman that she gives bad head

A practice that I would say probably keeps a person alive. Good call on that one.

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to keep this from being an entire hijack... i'll say that (while it's been years), going down on a woman after i've climaxed in her is no problem for me; neither is a full kiss directly after a blowjob... it's the idea of tasting my own semen in it's own undiluted state that bothers me

Interesting.

I really have nothing to say to the OP. If it's a 'wager' with his 'domme', I can't say I get it. Does it mean that to have the control in the situation, there has to be some kind of bet going on?

Really, I just showed up to be a smartass.

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/22/2008 1:27:14 PM

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i make my pet clean up after himself. not because i want him to know what it tastes like and not because i think he needs to make up for years of women eating cum. i do it because i like to watch the moment of struggle on his face as he takes hold of my hand, brings it to his face, and licks me clean. it's taboo, and i find taboo arousing.

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/22/2008 3:31:22 PM

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I don't know. Why do guys troll the forums for wank material?

i was thinking the same thing

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/22/2008 5:42:28 PM

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I find it a good way to keep the sub in his place. Since I normally work with the TG community, I think this is a must for the sub. Many like the forced scenario and this take it to a new level of submission and respect for the desires of his Mistress/Master. Its also fun to see their face the first time and for the next several times.

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