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Nipple Rings - 6/11/2008 12:46:33 AM   
IncarnateBeast


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Status: offline 		Master has a keen interest in getting his slave's nipples pierced.  While I'm attracted to the idea, I have an extreme fear of needles. I want to do this to please Master, but I thought it'd be nice to see what other people experienced.

So, my questions to you are:  When you were pierced.. 1) did it hurt?  2) What was involved in the process?  3) Has it somehow helped you feel more submissive/ owned,etc ? 


I'd love to know about your feelings, anything that can help me get a better understanding, so that I might be prepared when it's my turn.

Thank you

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/11/2008 12:58:59 AM   
bashfulhuck


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Status: offline 		My first piercing was about 10 years ago, I got my tongue pierced. That piercing got me very addicted to it, and I ended up with more than 20 piercings at one point. Some of my piercings hurt, some didn't really hurt at all. Some were seriously intense as all hell, but in a yummy way.
The nipple piercing will hurt a bit, but not nearly as bad as you think it will so long as the piercest knows what they are doing. Yes it can very much so put you in a very submissive space. The yummiest piercing I ever got was an industrial piercing in my left ear. Most people get the 2 peircings done, and have rings or studs put in the holes while they heal, then after 4-6 weeks, have the bar put in.
My piercest (A very hot Sadist named Beauty), told me I could handle the bar right away. She climbed in my lap to do the piercing, and it actually got her off. After she got the bar with the captive ring put in my ear, she gave me a very long, deep kiss. Then we looked around, and realized the entire shop had stopped to watch this. That had to be one of the hottest things I've ever been through.
The big big thing I do need to counsel you on, if you are going to get a piercing like this, please follow the aftercare instructions strictly. That is for your own health and well being.
Good luck with it, and don't worry too much. Yes it hurts, but not terribly so. And you might find you actually love the feeling, I know I did.

the bashful one

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/11/2008 4:08:54 AM   
mistoferin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: IncarnateBeast
So, my questions to you are:  When you were pierced.. 1) did it hurt?  2) What was involved in the process?  3) Has it somehow helped you feel more submissive/ owned,etc ? 


1~ Yes, it was white hot searing pain. The good news is it only lasted about as long as I could suck wind and then it was over.

2~ They clean the area really well, apply forceps, push the needle through and slide the jewelry through. You have to take REALLY good care of it and follow your piercer's instructions for care. It can be a little time consuming but nothing overwhelming. They take a LONG time to heal....mine were healed in about a month but I have friend's whose nipples took a year or more before they were fully healed. During the healing process you are advised not to have anyone play with them or allow them to come in contact with any bodily fluids that are not your own.

3~ No, they have never made me feel more submissive. I've never really been the type that has had my submission drastically affected by such things though. They do increase sensations and are a lot of fun.

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/11/2008 5:38:48 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		You should try getting a brain piercing while your at it. Mmmm guess you can tell where I stand on piercings. Pierced nipples

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/11/2008 7:23:01 AM   
pixidustpet


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Status: offline 		TheEngineer took me and got my nipples pierced in march, with Daddy's approval.  it was a re-do for me, i'd had them done years ago but removed them.

it was intense for me.  because i *had* been pierced before, there was scar tissue to deal with, and the first ring just didnt want to go.  EXQUSITELY painful.  at the same time, it was intensely arousing to me, and to TheEngineer just watching my reactions.  the jewelry on the left nipple ended up migrating (rejecting) so i now only have the right one pierced, but i'm still very pleased with it.

one thing i WOULD recommend is that you consider getting the initial piercing with barbells instead of rings.  you have a smaller risk of the jewelry migrating that way, and you can replace the barbell with rings when you are totally healed.  i've had it done both ways, and i would have rather done the barbell route this time too, but Daddy insisted that the rings be used from the beginning.

its not changed anything for me as regards to sensitivity, i've always been crazy sensitive to the point of being able to climax from nipple stimulation alone. 

good luck!

kitten

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/11/2008 8:43:34 AM   
mhawk


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Status: offline 		i found it only hurts when it's being done.otherwise you'll be allright.a good peircer will walk you through the process and not clamp or peirce until you give the go ahead.a good one will also let you Master come in with you and even hold your hand if need be.as i tell anyone be sure you both want it,research it and your local peircers.and when you do go have in mind what size,what style and what you want stainless or otherwise.and take good care of them too.

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/11/2008 8:53:50 AM   
SageFemmexx


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Status: offline 		~I did alot of research and pierced myself. It was a statement of my body is my own. I started with rings, went to barbels, went back to rings. Avoid captive beads--they are a pain, instead get the open rings with the beads that thread on. My current set is green with purple beads, I enjoy changing colors, adding lightning bolts--you'll get into having fun jewelry.

Problems? My milk came in--too much stimulation. I had to dry it up with sage and watch for a breast infection that I treated with propolis. That's just me, you will probably not have a problem.

Sage

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/11/2008 11:56:07 AM   
metalmiss


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Status: offline 		Well i personally have bars not rings at the moment, more through choice than anything else because my nipples long ago healed.. i chose bars for my piercing because the piercer advised that it would be easier to wear either in them later if i did it that way.

i had both nipples pierced in the same sitting.. and the first one didn't hurt a bit.. (The wonderful lady put numbing spray on them) Unfortunately as i was then "expecting" the second one to be the same, it hurt like a bitch. But the pain was momentary in my case, and not a bad pain.. i was buzzing from the aching and pain from the new piercings for several weeks. *grins* and my nipples were super-sensitive for about 18 months afterwards while they were still healing.. (Nipple piercings can take anywhere between 6 months and 2 years to heal completely and stop "gunking")

From talking to other people, what is involved exactly & aftercare varies from place to place.. But its not a complicated process.. Takes about 5 or 10 minutes really, and the piercing itself only takes a couple of seconds. i would recommend going into wherever you are considering having them done and ask about the process directly.

As for them making me feel more submissive and Owned.. No they didn't at all.
The only buzz in that direction was directly from having had it done to please my then dom. i still like my piercings, the only downside is having to now be very careful with nipple clamps. To be honest the only piercing i have ever felt that about was my clit hood.. But that was for slightly more practical reasons

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/11/2008 1:24:24 PM   
abcbsex


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Status: offline 		While mine are now retired because they were inhibiting nipple torture/breast play, I'll give you my two cents.

1) did it hurt?
I just felt extreme pressure and the pain of it pushing through the skin was about as bad as taking off a clothespin that's been on for a little while.. only the piercing pain doesn't last as long.

2) What was involved in the process?
my piercer looked at the area then very gingerly dotted where the entrance and exit holes would be. He didn't clamp anything but just held the tip of my nipple and a small part of the aerola to get the needle through. as soon as he saw me breathing again after the first piercing, he gently followed the needle with a barbell, and closed it. The next nipple was a little bit harder because my body was all jazzed from the first piercing (he said that was normal) but the process was the same. The only difference was that there was more pressure and since my nipple had swollen up from the blood rush, it started bleeding. I wore a little strip of gauze under my bra for an hour, then it had stopped. From then on I rinsed the crusties off in the shower, I had no need for any sea salt soaks but if your piercer recommends it I would follow his advice. Whatever you do don't use antibacterial soap as it'll irritate your piercings and the irritation will invite more bacteria into them. I'd strongly recommend barbells for healing, as rings are more mobile the crusties can get into your piercings easier.


3) Has it somehow helped you feel more submissive/ owned,etc ?
Actually, for me my nipple piercings were a source of empowerment and reclaiming my body. I got them done when I was single and enjoyed them until just recently, when Alpha expressed a desire to have them removed so he could play with my breasts more often. We had gotten used to being very ginger with them, as they were prone to bleed from small blows. Taking them out was an emotional decision but that action was what made me feel submissive. I suppose for someone getting them for their master's pleasure would have a different experience.

Best of luck!

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/11/2008 3:29:15 PM   
daddysblondie


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Status: offline 		Had my nipples pierced... took them out after about 9 months because they weren't healing and just getting in the way of any kind of nipple play, and I'd rather have the play than the piercings.

Did it hurt? Yes! I think it was made worse by the fact that I have pencil erasers for nipples and so i felt the needle going ALL THE WAY through... though at that point it was more discomfort and pressure than pain. I did have increased sensitivity, but then they've always been sensitive, and it actually made them TOO sensitive IMO.

Process? Pretty much the same everywhere. Though since it seemed no one mentioned this, my piercer took the time to mark and line everything up and make sure I was happy with the placement before he got down to business. I had barbells. I've heard that it's the best way to go, and trusted my piercer at that point not to steer me wrong.

Did it make me feel more submissive? Nope. I got them for myself. I was single at the time that I did it, but I can't imagine that if Daddy and I had been together at the time that it would have had any effect on how submissive I feel. Course, I also know it's unlikely that Daddy will be taking me to get pierced any time in the future since he doesn't care for them. He compared them to speed bumps.

Good luck whatever you decide, and be sure to go to a reputable piercer.

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/11/2008 9:17:04 PM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: IncarnateBeast

When you were pierced.. 1) did it hurt? 

My answer won't help you much since one of mine is completely numb. The other hurt like a bitch but it was being push through scar tissue so I don't know if it hurt worse, less, or the normal amount.
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2) What was involved in the process?

I grabbed a best friend, the girl I was seeing at the time, got Val's permission and went to see my favorite piercer (I love, love, LOVE this woman - find a piercer you can chat with and feel comfortable with. It really helps!). She made the dots, helped me lay down on the table, got a friend's hand with each of mine and I cursed a lot for the one that hurt. As for the process itself, she sterilized the area and pushed the needle through (she may have used a tiny metal clamp - it doesn't hurt - to hold up the nipple but I can't remember).
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3) Has it somehow helped you feel more submissive/ owned,etc ? 


No. That wasn't the goal with the piercing. The goal was to help me feel more comfortable with my post-surgery breasts, which it did. It also helped that he found the nipple rings surprisingly cute.

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/12/2008 1:33:56 AM   
leakylee


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Status: offline 		as others have said, starting with bars is the best way to go. my first set were done with captive beads and they migrated. 8 years later i took them out and got them redone with the bars. both times hurt like dickens. luckily peircings were how i started getting my pain fix. i will admit that my nipples were some of my most painful, but it doesnt last long, and the rush and the following endorphins make it well worthwhile.

finding a peircer that you are comfy with and trust is very important. especially if you ever plan on adding to the intial horizontal peircing. the good thing about putting more holes in your body is that it can help you get over your fear of needles. as to feeling more submissive, no. i have done all my peircings as i wanted to. even the labias that i am getting ready to start are a proactive choice on my part. i want a chasisty peircing eventually and am laying the foundation as the bday gift to myself this year.

enjoy them. they are a unique way of expressing yourself.

smooches
lee

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/12/2008 5:43:50 AM   
zelia


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Status: offline 		I got as far as sitting in the chair, taking off my top and bra... Once the needles were brought out - I started crying. My Dom at the time was very understanding and took me home.

I love pain in my nipples, but the thought of being pieced and being in pain for months and months while they heal makes me feel physically ill.

I love them on other girls though, they always look so pretty!

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/12/2008 12:10:03 PM   
LadyLynx


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Status: offline 		for a while I had thought about getting my nipples pierced, but after reading this thread, i don't think i will.  I love breast play to much.  And since I love breast play with other ladies, well I don't think I will want to do breast play with ones that have their nipples pierced.  lol.  play piercing tho.....hmm.

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/12/2008 12:11:40 PM   
Leatherist


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Status: offline 		I freaking hate piercings anywhere but the ears. They just get in the way.

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/12/2008 4:52:24 PM   
TheEvilBstardsMo


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Status: offline 		I totally loved the look of my nipple rings (note the past tense).   It all happened so fast that I do not remember if it hurt, but I should mention that my endorphins were flying that night.  The rings did make me feel more owned and more submissive.

I cleaned them, did everything right, and they never healed.  In fact, they both migrated.  After reading the other posts, I forgot to mention, too, that Master did not have use of my nipples for about a year while the piercings were in and healing.  Now that the piercings are out, my nipples are now more sensitive than they were before.

Master will not let me try to get them again; I really miss the look of them.  I do not miss the morning and nightly cleaning, turning, and hoping that they would heal.

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/12/2008 5:18:20 PM   
jayded34


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Status: offline 		Wow....guess im lucky....mine was painful when it happened but releative to what........lol......i just didnt wear a bra for 2 days.....never did all that cleaning stuff....just my daily showers......never turned them or anything....they were not even sore after 3 days and i have had mine since Dec 07 Mine was done with a barbell . To be honest my tongue piercing hurt worse. 

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/12/2008 5:32:20 PM   
ProtagonistLily


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quote:

Master has a keen interest in getting his slave's nipples pierced.


That's all I would have needed to know. I'm confused as to why there would be further discussion?

I'm confident he knows of your needle fear - yet, he's expressed that he wants you to do this. Perhaps he's trying to use it as an opportunity for you to grow? Maybe he is testing you. Are you going to pass or fail that test?

At any rate, Sir says "I want you to do X" I pretty much do it because not only have I placed myself in his service, I've placed myself in his care. To question his will would be to somehow distrust his judgement, and that's not even in my scope of thinking.

 I'm also curious why you are asking us, and not talking to him about this.

PL

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/12/2008 5:55:24 PM   
IncarnateBeast


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Status: offline 		Master has not told me to do this yet. He has simply informed me that he might want to in the future. So, I was asking these questions to better mentally prepare myself for when the time comes that he does tell me to do it.

And thank you, everybody, for answering me. Responses have been wonderful

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/12/2008 5:58:15 PM   
Aileen1968


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Status: offline 		I've always wanted my nipples pierced, but hesitate just because my belly button never healed well when I had that pierced.

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