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LordEuman -> Deleted Unread (6/12/2008 4:09:16 PM)
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You know what really gets under My crawl? What really burns My ass like a butane tortch on a clit?
It is all those that have profiles online claiming they seek and crave this and that, and this applies to All Positions, Doms/Dommes/Switches/subs/slaves, and when you spend time to read and study the profile information and decide that you may wish to start a conversation wih them and you do so. you check back a couple days later to see it they had been read and what do you find?
Deleted Unread!!!
WTF, how do they expect to find what they "CRAVE" if they do not read the emails they get?
Now I could understand the ones that may go and look at the profile of the sender and that is fine, I am not twisted about that, but come on those that do not read the email and do not look at the profile, how do they get anywhere?
they don't, in My Humble Opinion this is a clear sign of a player and are hat makes it so damned hard to connect with anybody.
It's hard enough to connect with anyone let alon online and add to it all the ones that are here just to play silly games. I know I am rambling but I needed to vent and thought I would do so here and see it it irritates anyone else as bad as it does Me.
and trust Me I do understand that the subs/slaves get inundated with mail, but read it, if it looks like spam then delete it but if you see they have put time into the message and refer to specific things that they have read in your profile then they have genuine interest. and it is ok if youdo not feel the same. but common courtesy calls for a simple note in return that reads something like this:
" Thank Y/you for Y/your time in reading M/my profile and the message but at tis time I/i must say no thank Y/you, bu good luck in your search."
isn't this lifestyle all about giving and gettin respect? I mean in both directions until at least the collar is locked abou the neck anywhay (all depends on the parties involved and what they seek). but if you are appoached with respect hen give a lil back, subs/slaves talk to one another as do the Dominants, get real, if you are seriously looking, show respect and it will come back to you. once you do this and it does you will increase your chances of finding your O/one (or more)
But at least here on CM we can see what is happening with the messages we send. that way we know who we do and do not want to associate with.
Thanks for the place to vent My frustraions CM and to everyone thsat reads it and replies if you are so inclined
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