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pandoravampire -> RE: Help (11/1/2005 1:14:31 PM)
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great story noah. And soooo true for me.
the taking of the wrist as opposed to a hand, feels awkward, my immediate response was to want to adjust the hold to a more comfy one, that i was prevented by a firmer grasp as i attempted this, was a first demo, that my will was not my own. Such a simple gesture, that i will always remember as THE first step.
Inspections: these are great, and neednt be naked. If you meet at a bar, cafe, restaurante. To be told to turn slowly around so that he may see how i have prepared for this visit, still clothed, had quite a impact, with racing thoughts that spun me out. "bloody cheek", "who does he think he is", "why am i just doing what he says", "this is so? exciting".
I seriously underestimated the power exchange, that somehow, never came across over the phone, internet etc. The sexual play thing, well, that was always gonna be great, but the small nuances, that spell D/s, like wrist holding, showing my dressed presentation in a public place, little things, that are so significant, they cannot be underestimated for either developing a power exchange, or maintaining one.
Good luck, i wish you a wonderful first meeting, full of excitement, as i know it will be.
pandora
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