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Creative Ideas, Please - 6/13/2008 1:24:06 PM   
TheBossLady


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Status: offline 		I placed this on another site and thought gee, it might be fun for yawl too.  I need ideas for scenes that my cross dressed male subbie maid can do on his own. I need these scenes to be 8 minutes or less and be as humiliating/mortfying as we can get a way with on a networking site.  These videos are destined to be posted to a private account and used as incentive (rather than the ugly term  blackmail) to behave himself.  If he decides not to be nice the status of his videos can easily change from private to public.  Oh, will he do them?  Oh yes, or it will be very expensive for him and he really doesn't believe his passions will become public, silly girl.

I am thinking Twelve scenes would do.  If one of yours is posted I will make sure you get access to see it.

Thank Yawl,
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RE: Creative Ideas, Please - 6/13/2008 1:32:04 PM   
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RE: Creative Ideas, Please - 6/13/2008 1:37:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		When putting vids on YouTube or a similar site, making them "private" doesn't guarantee privacy.  There are ways to bypass the setting.  And what happens if you do set them for public view?  How long do they stay public?  How are you going to prevent UMs from viewing them?  I would have a serious objection my sub to making incriminating videos that might come to the attention of an employer or family member and cause "expensive," non-consensual damage.  I also strenuously object to the possibility of exposing UMs to such content.  That's actually against the law, you know.
 
Good luck, but expect a lot of people to chastise you for involving the non-consensual public to your little escapades.

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RE: Creative Ideas, Please - 6/13/2008 1:37:38 PM   
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Post a sign that says "I got an online mistress this summer and all I got were these dorky net videos"


Haha couldnt say it better myself

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RE: Creative Ideas, Please - 6/13/2008 2:02:22 PM   
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Geez, why would you jepordize someone you are supposed to care for, even if you don't care for them emotionally as the submissive they are supposedly in your care and this is damn sure not a way to protect them.

I just don't get some peoples idea of fun.  Good thing everyone isn't me

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RE: Creative Ideas, Please - 6/13/2008 2:24:33 PM   
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yawl1  –noun

1.
a ship's small boat, rowed by a crew of four or six.

2.
a two-masted, fore-and-aft-rigged sailing vessel having a large mainmast and a smaller jiggermast or mizzenmast stepped abaft the sternpost.

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RE: Creative Ideas, Please - 6/13/2008 2:25:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		The idea is ..... Mistress make me do something I say I don't want to do but really I do.

It is a Fantasy. It is a Thrill. No different from having sex at a Rest Stop where anyone who walks by your car can see you and Highway Patrol can arrest you for Lewd Behavior.

The worst part about this is that so far all the posters have done nothing but show that they think some peoples Kinks are Silly and not okay. Rather than taking the Holier-Than-Thou Approach, why not either answre the question or ask to further your own education.

I don't understand Cross Dressing I mean I get what it is I just don't see what the rush is for guys especailly considering how hard they work to keep it a secret.

Knowing what I do know however I would say the Best Possible Video would be a "Confession" In Plain english explain the kind of clothes he likes to wear, why he likes to wear them, and then have him take a video of everything he owns for cross dressing. All of his Skirts and Dresses and Wigs and Shoes and such. This one Video more than anything Sexual will being the Seriousness to the request. If you want to do the sexual Kinky things you can always have him play with himself in the various Gear, Vacuum the Living room in High Heals and a Blouse.

My only request would be for you to get a written letter of Consent Signed and NOTORISED by him before you post anything online. In this day and age COVER YOU ASS JACK is more important than any verbal agreement you might have. People are being SUED for what they are putting online. Even if you have him post them you need to get the written consent, it won't be a Legal Document but at very least you can say Hey at one time this was something he WANTED to do.

See this isn't My Kink at all but I can still try to help the person posting without attacking the OP's preference in Kink.

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RE: Creative Ideas, Please - 6/13/2008 3:09:11 PM   
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The worst part about this is that so far all the posters have done nothing but show that they think some peoples Kinks are Silly and not okay. Rather than taking the Holier-Than-Thou Approach, why not either answre the question or ask to further your own education.

Mostly because it's laziness.  I can be pretty lazy, but to expect other people to come up with suggestions for your kink when it's already a pretty bad idea is bordering on presumptuous.  The worst part about these questions is that it's always so PERSON/CONTEXT dependent that any general discussion is meaningless.

As well- what's wrong with my suggestion? You don't consider it humiliating and mortifying?  I think I both answered the question well AND pointed out the silliness.

It's not the kink that's bad, it's the way she's going about it.

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RE: Creative Ideas, Please - 6/13/2008 3:51:22 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

quote:

ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah
The worst part about this is that so far all the posters have done nothing but show that they think some peoples Kinks are Silly and not okay. Rather than taking the Holier-Than-Thou Approach, why not either answre the question or ask to further your own education.


Mostly because it's laziness.  I can be pretty lazy, but to expect other people to come up with suggestions for your kink when it's already a pretty bad idea is bordering on presumptuous.  The worst part about these questions is that it's always so PERSON/CONTEXT dependent that any general discussion is meaningless.

As well- what's wrong with my suggestion? You don't consider it humiliating and mortifying?  I think I both answered the question well AND pointed out the silliness.

It's not the kink that's bad, it's the way she's going about it.


Agreed Discussion is Meaningless however the Op never asked for discussion, the Op asked for Ideas and nothing more and in that I must agree with you what you did was give an Idea and I guess I hit the send key too quickly. The Point, however, still remains. Before we get too deep in this I have to say that I agree with the heart of what you said I see the practice as being counter productive and serves only to eventually stale. At some point the Threat must become real and then his secret is out and the game is no longer fun so the purpose of this excercise is meaningless to say the least.

If of course this is a strictly ONLINE relationship then all I can say is the OP is at least trying to maintain a PHYSICAL contol over an Implied connection. Basically the sub actually has something to lose and can't just dissapear. For that I respect the attempt and asking us all for creative ideas is just looking for an angle that she may not have seen.

Now I at times ask for Ideas or How other people feel about certain things. This is not because I am lazy but because I seek an angle I may not be able to see, that idea that is elluding me that once said makes perfect sence that I am a little embarassed that I had not thought of it before.

I applaud anyone who comes across and says "I do not know everything there is to know and am willing to listen to your input" because this is how people learn. When you are quick to answer and slow to question one can only ask where one is, are you Moving forward or standing still.

I honestly don't care for Cross Dressing however it is only through threads like this that I can learn others views and possible see the drive in others towards it however there are times when people jump the "Ass Chewing Bandwagon" and Threads like these fail to educate anyone who was hopeing to understand it better.

LA I am not directy talking to you or any particulat Poster and I am sorry if you felt I was calling someone particulat out. I was just stating my distaste for a particular action that I was starting to see in this thread.

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RE: Creative Ideas, Please - 6/13/2008 4:02:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: TheBossLady
These videos are destined to be posted to a private account and used as incentive (rather than the ugly term blackmail) to behave himself. If he decides not to be nice the status of his videos can easily change from private to public.



Blackmail by any other term is just as ugly.
Actually your intention is ugly in my purely personal opinion.
Edited to state: Please do not include me in the Yawl.


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RE: Creative Ideas, Please - 6/13/2008 4:05:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		See, here's the thing... This is someone who joined TODAY, asked the question today, and didn't bother to complete a profile...

This way of getting involved on the boards or the website is very gimme gimme and is frankly LAZY.  I don't like that.  There's a search button, there are lots of websites... and I don't know this person's sub from borscht.  And when someone comes in with this nonsense that can be harmful to someone (and let's face it MOST relationships end at some point and this kind of thing can REALLY be foolish and harmful).... I just don't take them seriously.  Why would I?

This person sounds like a used car salesman on top of it all... a bad one at that.

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RE: Creative Ideas, Please - 6/13/2008 5:41:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		I can suggest any number of scenes and situations .... but at a price. Especially if it's going to go onto video. Plus I want credits too.

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RE: Creative Ideas, Please - 6/13/2008 7:35:04 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

See, here's the thing... This is someone who joined TODAY, asked the question today, and didn't bother to complete a profile...

This way of getting involved on the boards or the website is very gimme gimme and is frankly LAZY.  I don't like that.  There's a search button, there are lots of websites... and I don't know this person's sub from borscht.  And when someone comes in with this nonsense that can be harmful to someone (and let's face it MOST relationships end at some point and this kind of thing can REALLY be foolish and harmful).... I just don't take them seriously.  Why would I?

This person sounds like a used car salesman on top of it all... a bad one at that.

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RE: Creative Ideas, Please - 6/13/2008 9:16:16 PM   
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Oh yes, or it will be very expensive for him and he really doesn't believe his passions will become public, silly girl.




So...what's our percentage? Some poor sop is paying you to blackmail him, and if we're going to help you out, I want to get cut in! I thought it was the dominatrixes job to be imaginative with her tortures (or at least hot enough that it doesn't matter). Honestly, looking at nearly any cross-dresser bdsm porn will give you dozens of ideas: tea services, maid stuff, even just getting into his female costume might be what he's looking for.

If your sub is reading this: I evidently have better ideas than your BossLady, and imagine my fees are considerably less. You need ideas for self-humiliation? $10 a piece (with no nasty blackmail risk!)
 

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RE: Creative Ideas, Please - 6/13/2008 9:27:27 PM   
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RE: Creative Ideas, Please - 6/13/2008 9:27:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		You know what I've been thinking?  (And I can't believe I've actually used my very valuable brain cells on this...)... I'm thinking THIS is the humiliation... She threatens him on the website and thinks we will get all ooo isn't he going to get it... and it back fired.

I'm devious like that... maybe I'm giving her too much credit?

Dang I could have made a lot of money as a prodom....

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RE: Creative Ideas, Please - 6/13/2008 9:28:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		Steele this is a bridge too far, buddy:

The worst part about this is that so far all the posters have done nothing but show that they think some peoples Kinks are Silly and not okay..

There are kinks you cant talk about on this site that are EXTREMELY common.

silly does; in no sense or possible connotation-- equal not ok.

Honey.......I want you to piss on me after you smear me with fresh clover honey that is not  yet run thru the extractors, so it is full of clover fines and beeswings.

But honey, the pope is coming over in two hours, that's just silly...

But it would make my toes twinkle, Master.........

OK.

not an a=b=c, oh we are so oppressed type of thing at all.

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RE: Creative Ideas, Please - 6/13/2008 9:31:57 PM   
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At least I try to be creative when I top guys. >.>



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RE: Creative Ideas, Please - 6/13/2008 9:50:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		Does he have a musical affinity?

Perhaps you can have him act out Der Ring Des Niebulungen  in a bra and panties from the movie "Some like it Hot"  (so there is a real private joke in there) 

I am not sure it is a paying proposition, but should american tourism catch aholt in this country again, you could have the most humiliating scenes made into postcards.

I think you should research the USPS and see what it might take to become a qualified vendor (little FYI for you, there)

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RE: Creative Ideas, Please - 6/14/2008 12:15:17 AM   
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Steele this is a bridge too far, buddy:

The worst part about this is that so far all the posters have done nothing but show that they think some peoples Kinks are Silly and not okay..



Excuse me. I said blakmail was ugly. Not kink. now it might be that for some blackmail is ok. I  have been the victim of blackmail. To me it is simply ugly. I will add my opinionto my profile. Thank you for reminding me.
Now if some D type feels that it is ok that is their responsibility. It is NOT my kink and therefore my post said; blackmail is ugly. .....in my purely personal opinion. I was not suggesting that this was not ok as a kink because I had a consensus of opinion.
I re-iterate what I said and as this happens it what was in summary stated by some others posters: the OP joined and posted a post on the first day of joining on a public forum implying that she could think no more creatively about how to punish someone other than to suggest blackmail (by implying that it would not be used but threatned).
Et voila! thread is highjacked! By way of conslusion: everyone is entitled to their personal opinion.
By way of conclusion: everyone is entitled to their opinion.


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