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RE: Anal training? - 6/16/2008 2:18:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		I enjoy it very  much so.  however it is more of an adaptation type deal as I have not yet had the surgery.  Also nothing bigger than a standard penis size thank you.
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RE: Anal training? - 6/16/2008 8:10:15 AM   
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I just, don't get it.  Gay men enjoying it I can understand.. But, straight men..  I don't know how a straight man can cop it like that and still call himself straight.   I believe men are supposed to put things in and woman are supposed to take things in.  I might be old fashioned but... yeah


I wondered how long a thread like this might go on before something asinine like this comment was made.  
 
Being "old-fashioned" has little to do with it. 
 
Ignorance does.
 
So I am going to step out here against SOME of the prevailing attitudes concerning sexuality and orientation and speak from the POV of a straight brotha that understands the pleasure of anal stimulation.
 
Before I dive too deep, let's get on the same page. I believe there is NOTHING wrong between a man and a woman open to pleasing each other sexually in whatever manner THEY choose. My desire is for a woman, and a woman ONLY.
 
There are PLENTY of people that love anal sex (more that actually do than will admit it, too). And the fact that I will allow MY women (not just any women) to toss my salad or finger my ass (even use a small dildo) while she is sucking my dick doesn't make me want, need ro desire the same thing with a man. I LOVE it when we are going at it. There is nothing to hold back and no sexual barriers preventing us from exploring each other totally. There is NOTHING wrong between a man and a woman open to pleasing each other sexually in whatever manner THEY choose. For me, THAT is being open to your lady.
 
Separate the "act" (anal stimulation) from the actors/actresses. Being gay has nothing to do with any sexual act, it has to do with the DESIRE to be with and do it with another MAN (or woman with woman). Men always complain about wanting a freaky woman, but they are too hung up on someone else's definition to really become the freak of their woman's dream.
 
And for those men that are scared, until you experience having your prostate stimulated properly with your lady, you do NOT know the meaning of cumming hard.
 
Is it for every one? Nope. Not every woman wants to do that to a man and not every man will enjoy it. But because it is for me and not someone else, it doesn't take anything away from my (or another man’s) heterosexuality.


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RE: Anal training? - 6/16/2008 8:15:34 AM   
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I just, don't get it.  Gay men enjoying it I can understand.. But, straight men..  I don't know how a straight man can cop it like that and still call himself straight.  


It's really quite simple:  what determines a person's sexual orientation is which gender(s) they are attracted to, not which particular sensations they enjoy.

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RE: Anal training? - 6/16/2008 8:36:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		been enjoying anal sex and being fisted by my mistress now for over 2 plus years  does that make me gay ? heck no i love women  ecspecially if they are wearing a 10 in strapon to have a turn with me being on the recieving end  yes i have had anal sex with women before and i love that also  love cumming in a womans ass  but on the other hand if the lady bends me over and says its my turn my response is how do you want me  gladly bendover for a lady and her strapon  call me crazy but it does feel good  and men have this thing called a prostate  once your lady finds it and starts playing with it you will love it too and be at her mercy when she gives you a prostate massage my mistress my lady knows my ass and prostate well and its wonderfull we share another experience sexually together  got past the missionary position along time ago ..even today there are few guys who will say they love strapon sex as much as i do ..guess im just ahead of my time a little but that wont stop me from talking about it  ladys take your men asses anytime you wish im all for it  oh for me please make it a big one ..size does matter ..once its allin love that feeling  have fun ..mal ..boy im fired up --lol ..my lady is coming to see me on tuesday ..enema time tuesday am before she arrives

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RE: Anal training? - 6/16/2008 9:02:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think it is wonderful to see a dominant heterosexual male post on this subject.  Thanks for sharing your enjoyment of what many of us women have known for years is a pleasurable activity. 

The whole 'gay' stigma associated with anal penetration is overwhelming and in need of rethinking by many who are too narrowminded to see that an activity is simply that - an activity.  An orientation is determined by attraction. Any activity can be shared between those who are attracted to one another whether they be hetero, homo, bi, or any other orientation I may have missed, without it changing their orientation.

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RE: Anal training? - 6/16/2008 11:36:05 AM   
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I think it is wonderful to see a dominant heterosexual male post on this subject.  Thanks for sharing your enjoyment of what many of us women have known for years is a pleasurable activity. 

The whole 'gay' stigma associated with anal penetration is overwhelming and in need of rethinking by many who are too narrowminded to see that an activity is simply that - an activity.  An orientation is determined by attraction. Any activity can be shared between those who are attracted to one another whether they be hetero, homo, bi, or any other orientation I may have missed, without it changing their orientation.


i totally agree with You on this one for sure m'Lady!

with some of the comments on the sexual preferences that are posted even here, it's no wonder it takes a good deal of looking (still doing so) to find One with overlapping interests in this area in rt.


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RE: Anal training? - 6/16/2008 1:46:00 PM   
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I don't know how a straight man can cop it like that and still call himself straight.


Like this: he drops his pants, bends over, and draws in a quick breath as his mistress sinks her nails into his hips, gently invading him with a strap-on dildo. Then he grins shamelessly and bucks his hips in eager response to her gradually accelerating thrusts. Then he has a mind-shattering, time-stopping orgasm as the device rubs his prostate and the silken voice in his ear calls him a whore. Then he goes back into the world and keeps on being attracted to women and not being attracted to men. Just like he always has. Just like he always will. Because he is, as you said, a straight man.

Steel yourself for a shock: straight men have the same sensitive nerve endings on their assholes and the same prostate that gay men do. It feels just as good (or bad, depending on your taste) to have your butt penetrated whether or not you happen to like the gender that comes conveniently outfitted with a penetrative device. What makes a gay man gay is his attraction to other men, not his affinity for anal or any other type of sex.

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RE: Anal training? - 6/16/2008 2:15:55 PM   
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I enjoy it very  much so.  however it is more of an adaptation type deal as I have not yet had the surgery.  Also nothing bigger than a standard penis size thank you.
Audrey



what, uh, would be standard penis size in this case then? seems like a fair question.

and i have enjoyed taking just a little bit more, then a little bit more, to please a Dominant Woman.

gives me a sense of accomplishment, perhaps being a better bitch for He or something. difficult to say why


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RE: Anal training? - 6/16/2008 4:29:19 PM   
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I just, don't get it.  Gay men enjoying it I can understand.. But, straight men..  I don't know how a straight man can cop it like that and still call himself straight.   I believe men are supposed to put things in and woman are supposed to take things in.  I might be old fashioned but... yeah



A gay male wants to be with a man, not a woman wearing a strapon...


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RE: Anal training? - 6/16/2008 4:34:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thank you and I'm glad to share (even though this is the Mistress board-I can't seem to shake being around y'all *smile*). Those who know me well know I have no issue speaking my mind about sex and sexuality.

I always find the irony in convos like this and it makes me pause when I see just how many "straight" men define their sexuality based on what they do NOT do or don't want done relative to another MAN as opposed to basing it on what they do WITH a woman.

That logic is actually more homoerotic than not when you look at it, yet THEY want to question other men who understand the joys and depths of physical pleasure with a woman. My suggestion to these types is to stop worrying about what others do in the privacy of their bedrooms and start trying to explore without boundaries for some REAL sexual thrills with the ones they love.

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RE: Anal training? - 6/16/2008 4:56:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Domin8tingUrDrmz

I think it is wonderful to see a dominant heterosexual male post on this subject.  Thanks for sharing your enjoyment of what many of us women have known for years is a pleasurable activity. 

The whole 'gay' stigma associated with anal penetration is overwhelming and in need of rethinking by many who are too narrowminded to see that an activity is simply that - an activity.  An orientation is determined by attraction. Any activity can be shared between those who are attracted to one another whether they be hetero, homo, bi, or any other orientation I may have missed, without it changing their orientation.


You would not believe how many cmails I get from straight dominant men that want to be trained with strapons. Most of them just want to see what it feels like to be taken by a woman with a strapon.

Diane

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RE: Anal training? - 6/16/2008 5:58:58 PM   
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Also when do I go for the bigger one and so on?



Jump right to the big fat long dildo. Once you finally learn to get it in, start to thrust in and out of your man pussy. Do everyday.

Or every other day if that is too much. Do not come for 2 weeks while you do it.

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RE: Anal training? - 6/16/2008 9:06:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have a set of dildos that I use on my Boy. It starts with a plug no longer or wider than a finger and ends with a 10" long 4 1/2 width super-cock. It takes about 20 minutes to get his warmed up enough to take that and sometimes he can't....just depends.

Also-I find that the "floppy" dildos (the ones made of the gel goo) don't work for milking the prostate at all. To do that I have to use something longer and ridged like the handle of a riding crop.

As for training yourself--I'm really divided on that. One the one hand I'm happy that Netizen did a little bit of exploring before we met so that he was more eager and accepting of the things I wanted to do to him. However, I also feel a little like I missed out on the experience of "popping his cherry". :)



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RE: Anal training? - 6/17/2008 1:47:46 AM   
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I'm no homophobe.  I dont hate gay people.  I listen to the gay radio station BY CHOICE.  I have gay friends and family members and have known them my whole life.  But, as much as there is nerve endings in your ass and so forth, fact is, a dildo is representive OF A PENIS!.  There for any man copping it in the ass and liking it, is effectively liking the idea of a PENIS BEING INSERTED INTO HIS ASS.  Now in my books, thats homosexuality. 

If your liking that, if you like the idea of a WOMAN pumping your ass with a toy cock, then if I were these men woman, I'd seriously be asking questions about their views on DRAG QUEENS.  Because after all, a drag queen would be the real deal to what your getting. 

Don't label me as stupid or ignorant just because I don't enjoy your homoerotic adventures.  Your not SMART because you've found a way to be gay and straight at the same time with out being Bi.  In my eyes, your just in denial.  


And really..... Some of you need to stop jacking off to your own posts... Thats even gayer than having some chick who wishes she had  a dick fuck you from behind with a toy.

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RE: Anal training? - 6/17/2008 6:29:33 AM   
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I'm no homophobe.  I dont hate gay people.  I listen to the gay radio station BY CHOICE.  I have gay friends and family members and have known them my whole life.  But, as much as there is nerve endings in your ass and so forth, fact is, a dildo is representive OF A PENIS!



I tried a dildo shaped like a breast. It was pretty painful to insert. I'm still looking for one shaped like a vagina.

Gay radio?

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ORIGINAL: HardToTame

There for any man copping it in the ass and liking it, is effectively liking the idea of a PENIS BEING INSERTED INTO HIS ASS.  Now in my books, thats homosexuality.



Your books apparently have a few words in large font, and a lot of pictures. Am I a terrorist if I like asparagus? After all, the Earth Firsters are all vegans, and asparagus is a vegetable. Therefore, in my books, anyone who eats vegetables is a terrorist.

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If your liking that, if you like the idea of a WOMAN pumping your ass with a toy cock, then if I were these men woman, I'd seriously be asking questions about their views on DRAG QUEENS.  Because after all, a drag queen would be the real deal to what your getting.



A woman who enjoys having sex with a woman with a strap-on? You mean, a lesbian? They have those, you know. They prefer women to men, yet some of them like to stimulate their bodies with a dildo. Look it up, it's true.

No, wait, you're right. any lesbian that uses a dildo is a closet straight woman. (That was sarcasm. Look that up too.)

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Don't label me as stupid or ignorant just because I don't enjoy your homoerotic adventures.  Your not SMART because you've found a way to be gay and straight at the same time with out being Bi.  In my eyes, your just in denial. 



You're being labeled ignorant because your views demonstrated a lack of knowledge. That is the definition of ignorant. You're being labeled as stupid because after you have been given the information required to form a reasonable conclusion, you prefer to keep your fatally flawed preconceived notion. That is a symptom of stupidity.


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ORIGINAL: HardToTameAnd really..... Some of you need to stop jacking off to your own posts... Thats even gayer than having some chick who wishes she had  a dick fuck you from behind with a toy.


You seem to worry a lot about what is or isn't gay... for a "straight" guy.

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RE: Anal training? - 6/17/2008 7:48:20 AM   
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You would not believe how many cmails I get from straight dominant men that want to be trained with strapons. Most of them just want to see what it feels like to be taken by a woman with a strapon.

Diane


it is an amazing, easy to become hooked on, postion to experience. omg..yes!


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RE: Anal training? - 6/17/2008 4:50:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DianeB

You would not believe how many cmails I get from straight dominant men that want to be trained with strapons. Most of them just want to see what it feels like to be taken by a woman with a strapon.

Diane




it is an amazing, easy to become hooked on, postion to experience. omg..yes!



90% of the guys I've trained to take strapons, are always begging for more...


Diane

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RE: Anal training? - 6/17/2008 6:25:50 PM   
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You said it all.
Hardtotame:
You have a lot to learn and I find your views on this subject offensive, I am a 53 yearsold father of six and by no means gay. I have enjoyed being taken anally, many times.

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RE: Anal training? - 6/18/2008 4:34:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		back to the original thread... I'm also interested...part of my fantasy life for a while but would prefer to explore with the right person than on my own.
 
I guess everyone's different, just a question of taking it slowly til the pleasure/pain balance hits the spot...
 
Looking forward to it.

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RE: Anal training? - 6/18/2008 11:33:12 PM   
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a dildo is representive OF A PENIS!.
 
 
Sure, that's what a dildo represents to you. I have no problem believing that if you took a dildo up your ass and discovered you liked it (and you very well might--it is a singular experience), you might wonder if you were gay. If you're so worried about it, then maybe you should already be wondering.
 
By the way, did you know that men who get raped in prison sometimes have orgasms against their will? If that happened to you, would you consider yourself gay?


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