Focus50
Posts: 3962
Joined: 12/28/2004 From: Newcastle, Australia Status: offline
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One of my 4 personal rules (for myself) is that I don't waste my time talking to those who aren't listening.... Within my personal relationships, including my past vanilla life, if I felt my partner wasn't paying proper attention when I was speaking to her, I'd stop mid-sentence and snap my fingers or something and tell her to "Focus!" or "Focus girl!" etc - which was her cue to look me in the eyes.... Obviously it works much better within a D/s context and it's what came to mind when I joined my first site where a nic was required.... Wasn't too happy about having to add a number after it when I joined CM and, after choosing my age, was even less thrilled to discover you can't edit your nic here to accomodate birthdays...! Since I've yet to come across the person who does have the straight "Focus" nic on site, I now sign off my posts without my age on the end.... Focus.
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