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confused slave - 6/17/2008 8:26:08 AM   
pr5sa1


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Status: offline 		Hello,

Right now I do have a slave that does not know if she if she wants to be a slave or sub.  She has a collar and I have meet her master, but have not played out anything with her yet.  She also has a vanilla.  I just need a slave or subs advice on what to do with her.  Keep in mind she is "Owned"

Thank You.


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RE: confused slave - 6/17/2008 8:28:56 AM   
sirsholly


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ORIGINAL: pr5sa1

Hello,

Right now I do have a slave that does not know if she if she wants to be a slave or sub.  She has a collar and I have meet her master, but have not played out anything with her yet.  She also has a vanilla.  I just need a slave or subs advice on what to do with her.  Keep in mind she is "Owned"

Thank You.





she is owned, therefore you do NOT have a slave. Sorry


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RE: confused slave - 6/17/2008 9:20:57 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		Shouldn't you be discussing this with her Owner?

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RE: confused slave - 6/17/2008 9:25:12 AM   
BRNaughtyAngel


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Status: offline 		Well now I'm a confused slave.......    huh?

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RE: confused slave - 6/17/2008 9:49:52 AM   
eepsy


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Status: offline 		Uhhhh... She's owned... but she's yours.. but she's got a Master.. HUH????

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RE: confused slave - 6/17/2008 9:51:02 AM   
subdevra


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Status: offline 		you can only "do" with her what her Master allows. 

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RE: confused slave - 6/17/2008 9:58:57 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		And her Master can only do with her what her vanilla hubby allows. Talk to the husband first, then her 'master', you get to do whatever they don't keep for themselves. Probably play and limited if any sex.

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RE: confused slave - 6/17/2008 10:45:06 AM   
softness


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Status: offline 		a) .... ask her ... or better her owner

b) ... re-read your post yourself and try to make sense of it

c) ... i am such a confused slave .. i cant think of c)

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RE: confused slave - 6/17/2008 4:31:01 PM   
metalmiss


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RE: confused slave - 6/17/2008 4:34:55 PM   
metalmiss


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ORIGINAL: eepsy

Uhhhh... She's owned... but she's yours.. but she's got a Master.. HUH????


Lets not forget she "has a vanilla" too.. Must be a busy girl..


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RE: confused slave - 6/17/2008 4:41:08 PM   
bashfulhuck


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Status: offline 		Gotta go with the rest here. She's owned already, you don't get to make the decisions, and nor does she as to what you are allowed to do with her.
She is collared by someone else, and I suggest you respect that fully. That means sitting down with 1. her Master, and 2. her Vanilla partner, and have a frank discussion with them as to what you are allowed to do with her. And after they give you your boundaries, by all means, KEEP those boundaries!!
She is not owned by you, hence, she cannot be your slave. She can be your friend, perhaps a lover, a casual play partner, but she is not your property. Good luck to you, I hope you find the answers you need.

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RE: confused slave - 6/17/2008 5:23:17 PM   
DrkJourney


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quote:

ORIGINAL: pr5sa1

Hello,

Right now I do have a slave that does not know if she if she wants to be a slave or sub.  She has a collar and I have meet her master, but have not played out anything with her yet.  She also has a vanilla.  I just need a slave or subs advice on what to do with her.  Keep in mind she is "Owned"

Thank You.





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RE: confused slave - 6/17/2008 5:25:02 PM   
stella41b


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Status: offline 		Maybe start with some ironing and a few household chores?

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RE: confused slave - 6/17/2008 6:19:05 PM   
Littlepita


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RE: confused slave - 6/17/2008 6:51:41 PM   
goodpet


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Status: offline 		Wow,, yes confusing..

how do you have something that does not belong to you? are you leasing or renting it?  if you want one of your own.. find one who is not double committed already.. you would be third on the totem pole..

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RE: confused slave - 6/17/2008 7:58:38 PM   
MistressSybella


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quote:

ORIGINAL: pr5sa1

Right now I do have a slave that does not know if she if she wants to be a slave or sub.  She has a collar and I have meet her master, but have not played out anything with her yet.  She also has a vanilla.  I just need a slave or subs advice on what to do with her.  Keep in mind she is "Owned"


Well, I'm not a submissive but I will give you advice. Leave her alone and do nothing with her. She isn't yours to mess with.

If she is wondering where she fits on the submissive/slave scale, she has to work through that, not you.

Miss 'Bella
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RE: confused slave - 6/17/2008 8:18:42 PM   
Stusmobile


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Status: offline 		I think confused Dom would have been a more apt title 

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RE: confused slave - 6/17/2008 9:16:27 PM   
DMFParadox


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Status: offline 		All good advice.  Of course, millenia of successful attempts leads one to believe that lying, cheating, and stealing the girl may be the only thing to do.  Just don't get caught, advertise your success, or talk about it in any way, or you'll get strung up (and rightfully so) by the mob.

Bye-bye now.

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RE: confused slave - 6/18/2008 7:35:16 AM   
sub4hire


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Status: offline 		Is she not happy with her dominant?   Does her husband approve?  How do you come into the mix, just by your statement it seems as though she would be too busy to be out looking for even more play partners...but then again maybe she has a lot of time on her hands?


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RE: confused slave - 6/18/2008 7:44:13 AM   
beargonewild


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quote:

ORIGINAL: pr5sa1

Hello,

Right now I do have a slave that does not know if she if she wants to be a slave or sub.  She has a collar and I have meet her master, but have not played out anything with her yet.  She also has a vanilla.  I just need a slave or subs advice on what to do with her.  Keep in mind she is "Owned"

Thank You.



Erm.....maybe the best piece of advice is to elaborate what your problem is? Your post is too confusing to make heads or tails out of what your problem is.


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