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RE: The Anti-Stereotype - 6/17/2008 12:30:04 PM   
Deliena


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Joined: 6/16/2007
From: Darlington, United Kingdom
Status: offline 		Erm.....

I'm an argumentative biatch also - and always have to be right
I have to have certain things *exactly* my own way or I spaz
I have to know what nights a week my Master can see me in advance so I can plan my week and if his ideas don't fit with my life then I force the issue (quite often <blush>)
I have a cat I call "mummy's little panther" and talk to in baby talk even if people are around
I have been known to say "why?" when asked to do things by dominants (particularly if to me they make no sense at all)
I cry at the TV and flms all the time (including but not exclusively: When Chandler proposes in Friends, any Disney film, most rom coms)
I play a FemDom elf in live roleplaying events like The Gathering (even when I used to go to them with my then Dom)

Erm.... I'll get my coat.....

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RE: The Anti-Stereotype - 6/17/2008 12:58:00 PM   
StormsSlave


Posts: 629
Joined: 2/6/2008
Status: offline 		I manage the money, with his input.  My Lord has impulse control issues where finances are concerned, where I am more of a tight ass.  It works for us.
I bring in the primary income.  The truth is, I have the potential to make more, and I enjoy working. 
He does the majority cooking.  He's way better at it then me, and enjoys catering to my pleasure whims.
We don't have kinky sex every time!  I know, shocking, but true.  Sometimes, we just have regular ole missionary style comeonIwannalayou kind of sex.
He looks after me.  Dotes on me, even.  It's not very domly of him, but it sure does make us smile, so I guess we are not a very twue d/s couple.
I am actually a very sarcastic bitch.  It comes out quite often in the presence of My Lord, and is even occasionally directed at him.  He just flings it back, so it works for us.

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RE: The Anti-Stereotype - 6/17/2008 1:02:19 PM   
gypsygrl


Posts: 1471
Joined: 10/8/2005
From: new york state
Status: offline 		I wanna be a stereotype.  I'm not being the least bit ironic, here.

I think I have a conformity fetish of sorts.

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RE: The Anti-Stereotype - 6/17/2008 4:30:03 PM   
Stusmobile


Posts: 145
Joined: 5/26/2008
From: No fixed abode
Status: offline 		Babies, toddlers and pets seem to have an affinity for me .... and I don't mind and can quite happily change a diaper, burp a little one after a feed or clean up after a messy pet.

I use a face mask occasionally to get all the work crap out of my skin, heck I'll even use a moisturiser because of work.

I like sensual touches, pleasant touches, teasing touches, stolen kisses, the feel of her in my arms.

There are nights where curling up and talking is far better than any sex/making love/playing.


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RE: The Anti-Stereotype - 6/17/2008 4:55:54 PM   
GreedyTop


Posts: 52100
Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline 		I'm just me.  

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RE: The Anti-Stereotype - 6/17/2008 5:10:06 PM   
subtee


Posts: 5133
Joined: 7/26/2007
Status: offline 		I'm so much not a morning person that I'm pretty sure I have fangs and am known to snarl...

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RE: The Anti-Stereotype - 6/17/2008 6:01:02 PM   
agoodgirl4Daddy


Posts: 336
Joined: 10/25/2007
Status: offline 		I crave and delight in bursting pompous asshole Twue Dominant's balloons with the dagger i keep in my left boot.

I will never do something someone tells me to do ... whether they are my D-type or not....  if it does not match my values.

I am a cruel bitch.



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RE: The Anti-Stereotype - 6/17/2008 7:03:12 PM   
MrSpectacular


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Joined: 8/27/2007
Status: offline 		I love having my hair rubbed whilst lying on the couch - I feel like a little boy again - but keep it quiet please!

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RE: The Anti-Stereotype - 6/17/2008 7:08:10 PM   
subtee


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MrSpectacular

I love having my hair rubbed whilst lying on the couch - I feel like a little boy again - but keep it quiet please!


Aw. That's spectacular!


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RE: The Anti-Stereotype - 6/17/2008 7:10:30 PM   
fluffyswitch


Posts: 1108
Joined: 9/29/2007
From: Buffalo
Status: offline 		i argue too much, swear too much, and come across as too cold to just about everyone including my own dominants until they bother to listen to what i'm actually saying and not how i'm saying it.
i tend to refuse to bow down to my master, which is why i deliberately seek out certain types of dominants.
i tend to start to top from the bottom during certain types of tasks, which is another reason why i deliberately seek out certain types of dominants (ones with a masochistic side to my sadistic).
i LIKE when twue dominants or twue submissives tell me that i 'obviously' don't know my master or he doesn't know me and i sort of hope that they mail me on the other side just so i can tell them what i really think (though i think that may be the eastern european temper that my father so graciously gave me).
i have been known to laugh in my dom's face on multiple occasions.

okay i don't know how much of that is against stereotypes but i know that it's stuff that i've gotten comments about here on the boards or in emails on the other side about how i'm not playing 'sub' right though like someone else said i'm in sort of a grey area as a switch/ exceptionally strong willed sub. 

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RE: The Anti-Stereotype - 6/17/2008 7:14:10 PM   
chiaThePet


Posts: 2694
Joined: 2/4/2007
Status: offline 		I am chia* (the pet)

Any questions?

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You can stick me in the corner, but I'll probably just end up coloring on the walls.

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RE: The Anti-Stereotype - 6/17/2008 7:41:11 PM   
Vigilantejustice


Posts: 106
Joined: 11/15/2004
Status: offline 		I give my dominant an allowance. Mainly because I like to eat more than I like to watch DVDs.

I dote on, and have difficulty saying no to, my submissive.

Blame on the fact that I'm a switch, I suppose.

-Corinne
House Vigilante

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RE: The Anti-Stereotype - 6/17/2008 8:01:52 PM   
MsBlackheart


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Joined: 7/27/2005
From: Memphis TN
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quote:

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I have Grumpy bear panties.
I REFUSE under any circumstances short of losing bets to Angel to wear Pink of my own accord.

DV



Hi DV, I used to be like that about the peenk, too, right up until this past Spring, when I tried adding a tiny bit to my solid black wardrobe and started liking it in spite of my initial misgivings ("no way, I'd look like a freak!"). Now it's my signature color, hot pink, combined with the black.  While I still wish I had a penis on top of my girly bits, I do definitely enjoy being a girrrrrl. No matter how old I get.

And to the OP, too: Hello Kitty rocks my world.  I look forward to the day when I can roll into a serious event with a Hello Kitty suitcase on wheels as a toy bag. 
The other things I'd have to add to my list would be that I hate confrontation and am very polite and unassuming with people I don't know well. And I hate my nervous laugh thingie.


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RE: The Anti-Stereotype - 6/17/2008 8:33:46 PM   
lighthearted


Posts: 1165
Joined: 11/26/2006
Status: offline 		I have a huge issue with "authority" figures.  makes it a weensy bit difficult to be submissive at times. 

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RE: The Anti-Stereotype - 6/17/2008 9:10:40 PM   
MsLadySue


Posts: 2254
Joined: 12/18/2004
Status: offline 		I don't own any fetish clothing and have no intention of acquiring any. I don't have high heels or boots. I love comfy clothes and barefeet for play. I couldn't belittle or humiliate a sub under any circumstances, just not my nature. I cry at sappy movies and collect teddy bears.

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I love it when someone insults me. That means I don't have to be nice anymore.

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RE: The Anti-Stereotype - 6/17/2008 9:19:59 PM   
Aileen1968


Posts: 6062
Joined: 12/12/2007
From: I miss Shore, New Jersey
Status: offline 		I farted...once.  Way back in 1988.

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RE: The Anti-Stereotype - 6/17/2008 9:36:23 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


Posts: 19224
Joined: 10/25/2005
Status: offline 		My primary relationship is vanilla and I love it more than any other relationship I ever had as owned property.

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RE: The Anti-Stereotype - 6/17/2008 11:04:12 PM   
shivermetimbers


Posts: 2060
Joined: 6/7/2008
Status: offline 		I'm a total know it all, so the person that I will submit to needs to know that.  Not that I spout out crap like the mailman on "Cheers", but I come across as a much more knowledgable Cliff Clavin.   I do respect new information to an issue.  So in some arenas, I will challenge anyone to prove me wrong. But this might come across as very "unsub" like to some dommes.

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RE: The Anti-Stereotype - 6/18/2008 1:07:15 AM   
ownedgirlie


Posts: 9184
Joined: 2/5/2006
Status: offline 		My Master doesn't "do" aftercare.  So recently he hung out with me after exhausting me and told me all sorts of wonderfulness, and after about 45 minutes of it he said, "There. How was that for...whatever you call it?"

"Whatever I call what?"

"You know, that thing you used to always whine about."

"Ha!  Aftercare?"

"Yeah!  Aftercare.  How was that for aftercare?"

"You did very well, Master.  I am pleased.  You get 5 gold stars tonight." 



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RE: The Anti-Stereotype - 6/18/2008 1:25:08 AM   
MasterFireMaam


Posts: 5587
Joined: 3/1/2006
From: Charleston, WV
Status: offline 		I hate to pick the restaurant.

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