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snowslave -> pet peeves (6/18/2008 3:55:58 AM)
I, as I'm sure all of us subs/slaves, would like to learn from the mistakes of others. That being said, I was wondering if the Dominant Women in this forum would share with the rest of us what it is that theirs or other subs/slaves do that bothers or angers them. Thank you.

Dnomyar -> RE: pet peeves (6/18/2008 4:46:10 AM)
It bothers me that you only want women to answer your post.

MadameMarque -> RE: pet peeves (6/18/2008 4:54:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar It bothers me that you only want women to answer your post. It is in "Ask a Mistress." ? (...or am I missing some extremely dry humor?)

housesub4you -> RE: pet peeves (6/18/2008 5:03:13 AM)
Oh boy here we go again. Seems I recall having this same thing pointed out to me (by you I believe) not to long ago.

thetammyjo -> RE: pet peeves (6/18/2008 5:03:31 AM)
subtle, non-verbal complaining. He doesn't do it often but sometimes when I tell Fox to do something I'll see him slightly roll his eyes or do a very soft sigh. Just do it and it's done. He doesn't have to have a smile on his face or say "I'm so delighted you want me to vacuum the downstairs this weekend, Mistress," but he can just do it. I mean, I never roll my eyes or sigh when it's time for me to do my chores -- I just do them and in fact I don't require an owner or a wife to remain me. I don't know if it how they were raised, but if you all have little ones who are male, please stop raising them to be so unable to manage their own time when it comes to chores and to just do them as is necessary. It is very, very annoying and you do the world no favor by not teaching everyone to do their share without reminders or bitching in some fashion.

Madame4a -> RE: pet peeves (6/18/2008 5:48:11 AM)
I rarely get angry. Anger means I'm out of control and not thinking correctly. I am often bothered by a lack of communication skills. I don't care for the times when I know she has something going on that she should share with me and I can't get it out of her. When I finally do, its like pulling teeth, for both of us. ugh

MsStarlett -> RE: pet peeves (6/18/2008 6:05:39 AM)
Hmmm.... People, including my son, who do a chore incorrectly. As in runing the dishwasher with the dishes tossed in any which-a-way... Doing laundry without sorting the lights from darks... that sort of thing.

DominantJenny -> RE: pet peeves (6/18/2008 6:17:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: snowslave I, as I'm sure all of us subs/slaves, would like to learn from the mistakes of others. That being said, I was wondering if the Dominant Women in this forum would share with the rest of us what it is that theirs or other subs/slaves do that bothers or angers them. Thank you. Lack of communication is frustrating as hell. I've known more than a few submissives who choose to avoid stress/confrontation/unpleasantness by burying things until they explode in disastrous fashion, or leak out in passive-aggressive behavior. Blech. Pretty obvious, but what I've got offhand.

ShiftedJewel -> RE: pet peeves (6/18/2008 6:24:22 AM)
*Don't patronize me. Don't say things just because you think I want to hear it... tell me the truth.* *Jewel*

MsLadySue -> RE: pet peeves (6/18/2008 6:43:10 AM)
Just because I list my interests on my profile doesn't mean I want the list typed back to me when I ask a submissive to tell me about his interests. I don't like a submissive to call me Goddess, Queen, Mistress. He doesn't know me and I am certainly not "his" Mistress. Emails that say something along the lines of "you're hot, I would service your pussy for hours." Ya, right. Who says you will get near it?

MsStarlett -> RE: pet peeves (6/18/2008 6:48:10 AM)
I mentioned this on another thread... but I DETEST the subs who write "I want to serve YOU in any way YOU desire." Ok... I admit that I would really enjoy stringing them up by their heals and flogging them. Answer: "No. I'm not really into pain." Ok... I'd love to watch you do my yard work or fix my car as I think a man sweating over manual labor is HOT. Answer: "No, I'm not very good at that." Then draw my bath, hold my towel, brush my hair and message my back. Answer: "That's not really what I was looking for." Then what the hell DO you plan on doing to 'Serve me in anyway I desire?' Answer: "I'm very good at licking pussy." or "You can dress me up as your sissy slut and whore me out to your other subs." eye roll If your idea of 'service' only includes sex acts - NEXT!

ToriDaniels -> RE: pet peeves (6/18/2008 6:50:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsLadySue Just because I list my interests on my profile doesn't mean I want the list typed back to me when I ask a submissive to tell me about his interests. I don't like a submissive to call me Goddess, Queen, Mistress. He doesn't know me and I am certainly not "his" Mistress. Emails that say something along the lines of "you're hot, I would service your pussy for hours." Ya, right. Who says you will get near it? I totally agree with most of what you have said here. Most of here does NOT KNOW ME!!! How on earth would they have the priveledge of the above mentioned.....Much less service my pussy for hours. Or/nor that I even want them too.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: pet peeves (6/18/2008 7:18:02 AM)
Passive aggression. Complaining. Comparing me to other dominas. Thinking service and sex are the same thing. Insisting on calling me mistress/goddess/whatever when my NAME is Francine, and it's that or ma'am until I say otherwise thanks. Whoa, this is turning into a Don't Get Me Started zone![8D]

MissEnchanted -> RE: pet peeves (6/18/2008 7:39:10 AM)
#1:Whining, #2: all this: passive aggressive, 'Do_me' subs, inability to communicate, have not done their own work to know themselves inside and out. Subs who are completely unaware of their needs, as apposed to wants. Too much drama in their own lives to be able to contribute to my world, super-busy schedules that make them unavailable to me, idiots. Big Brats.

chiaThePet -> RE: pet peeves (6/18/2008 7:40:15 AM)
How they always eat the last piece of pie. How they always eat the last piece of cake. How they always eat the last cream puff. How they always eat the last muffin. How they always eat the last donut. How they always eat the last piece of chocolate. How they always eat the last cruller. Oh wait, that's what pisses me off about Dominants. Nevermind. chia* (the pet)

MissSCD -> RE: pet peeves (6/18/2008 7:44:11 AM)
For me there are a couple of issues. Never curse me. That will get you in trouble so fast your head will spin. Disprespect is another. Lying is another. It is easy at this point of my lifestyle adventures to determine the nature of all three. *Finally, the one that really gripes my nerves is someoe who wants everything there way, but won't do a thing to fix their problems and blame others for them.* *We have to take responsibility for our actions regardless of who we are.* *Regards, MissSCD*

GoddessTeaze -> RE: pet peeves (6/18/2008 7:58:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: snowslave I, as I'm sure all of us subs/slaves, would like to learn from the mistakes of others. That being said, I was wondering if the Dominant Women in this forum would share with the rest of us what it is that theirs or other subs/slaves do that bothers or angers them. Thank you. So what did ya learn snowslave? GoddezzT`

VeryMercurial -> RE: pet peeves (6/18/2008 8:05:12 AM)
Submissive's that contact you and all they do is bitch and complain about how hard it is to find a Mistress.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: pet peeves (6/18/2008 8:10:58 AM)
Chia, I will ALWAYS let you have a bite of the cruller!

chiaThePet -> RE: pet peeves (6/18/2008 8:21:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Chia, I will ALWAYS let you have a bite of the cruller! Good enough LadyH. Now, about the pie. chia* (the pet)

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