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bashfulhuck -> RE: pet peeves (6/18/2008 10:47:16 AM)

Oooh! Ooooh!! <Waves hands excitedly!!> MsStarlett! Oh MsStarlett!! I love doing all of those things, except I'm not very good at fixing cars, so I would probably make it run a bit worse hehe. But I am really good at taking cars apart and looking like I'm fixing them if you like :)
Some submissives should realize that Dominants are first and foremost human, albeit Alphas. Approach with respect, treat them nicely, be genuine and all is for the good. Be a mouth breathing goober, and there is no way in hell they will hit you, at least not in a good way hehe.

Peace and serenity,
the bashful one




snowslave -> RE: pet peeves (6/18/2008 11:28:23 AM)

Yikes!  I am actually learning quite a lot from these posts.  The recurring theme I am noting among the subs/slaves is that respect - or lack thereof - is glaringly missing. 




chiaThePet -> RE: pet peeves (6/18/2008 1:11:35 PM)

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ORIGINAL: snowslave

Yikes!  I am actually learning quite a lot from these posts.  The recurring theme I am noting among the subs/slaves is that respect - or lack thereof - is glaringly missing. 


[sm=excuseme.gif]

chia* (the pet)




TormentedTwo -> RE: pet peeves (6/19/2008 9:49:06 AM)

Telling a domme the truth, as in riding bitch down 75 miles of dusty bad road is going to have you ass hanging I suspect is not going to be accepted well. Yet it is the truth.




blackrosegoddess -> RE: pet peeves (6/19/2008 1:25:02 PM)

For me its various things. They try to ignore me and not do what I have asked of them.  They ask stupid questions that I have answered over and over again.  The men that think women doms are just play things.
I think that about sums all mine up.




pixidustpet -> RE: pet peeves (6/19/2008 3:30:37 PM)

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ORIGINAL: thetammyjo
I don't know if it how they were raised, but if you all have little ones who are male, please stop raising them to be so unable to manage their own time when it comes to chores and to just do them as is necessary. It is very, very annoying and you do the world no favor by not teaching everyone to do their share without reminders or bitching in some fashion.


miss tammyjo, its not all one parent's fault.

the imp is bad about rolling his eyes, sighing as though he's trying to put out a housefire with one breath, and generally acting as though he's being tortured if he's asked to complete any of his assigned chores.  and his father doesnt call him on it 3/4ths of the time.  because dad doesnt treat mama with any respect, its ok if the boy doesnt either.  (and no, this has nothing to do with D/s because Daddy and TheEngineer both treat me with respect even as they are dominant to me.)

wolf will occasionally jump down the kid's throat, but damn.  by the mid-teens, its too late.  he just never paid attention till now, when he's going to be the 100% full time parent.

one parent can only do so much when the other one doesnt give an airborne act of intercourse at a oscillating piece of perforated pastry.

(aka the classic flying fuck at a rolling donut hole.)

kitten, who pities the both of them




Mustardseed -> RE: pet peeves (6/19/2008 8:56:54 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MissEnchanted

#1:Whining,
#2: all this: passive aggressive, 'Do_me' subs, inability to communicate, have not done their own work to know themselves inside and out. Subs who are completely unaware of their needs, as apposed to wants.

Too much drama in their own lives to be able to contribute to my world, super-busy schedules that make them unavailable to me, idiots.

Big Brats.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Passive aggression.  Complaining.  Comparing me to other dominas.  Thinking service and sex are the same thing.  Insisting on calling me mistress/goddess/whatever when my NAME is Francine, and it's that or ma'am until I say otherwise thanks. 

Whoa, this is turning into a Don't Get Me Started zone![8D]


You've both met my "Maybe I'm going through one of my cycles, which I guess I never bothered to tell you about" boy, then?

nrghl. [sm=angry.gif]




MissEnchanted -> RE: pet peeves (6/20/2008 1:52:12 PM)

That's where online subs and real time subs are so different.

That's the reason I suggest joining a local group. A group that has people who have quietly been in the scene for years, friendly, outgoing and experienced Dommes and subs.

Good subs usually attend my munches on a regular basis.

I found my sweet house-pet there and he is well-respected within the group. O-What a good puppy he is!

His devotion so sweet makes me feel like a Dominant in heat.

[8D]








Coupleofwhats -> RE: pet peeves (6/20/2008 2:19:05 PM)

"Oh, I've always wanted to serve a BLACK mistress!"

WTF?
Does my having more melanin than you make you feel more submissive?

I'm very much over ALL of the typecasting that many subs do.
Just because I'm young and petite doesn't mean I'll be sweet.
Just because I'm black doesn't mean I'm going to swivel my neck and waggle my finger while I tell you what to do.

It's like half of them want Dominatrix Barbie: a low impact and predictable wet dream.




blackrosegoddess -> RE: pet peeves (6/20/2008 4:24:16 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Coupleofwhats

It's like half of them want Dominatrix Barbie: a low impact and predictable wet dream.


I agree with that.

Like I said before, I do online stuff most of the time because I have what one of my pets kindly calls a " harem". Also, for my own safety and such ( even with joining a local group or two) I refer to get to know people before I say one way or the other.
I online, and personal visits allow me to make my own mind up.
There are some people I just click with automatically, and they know who they are, while others I am on the fence about.





MsStarlett -> RE: pet peeves (6/20/2008 4:37:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: bashfulhuck

Oooh! Ooooh!! <Waves hands excitedly!!> MsStarlett! Oh MsStarlett!! I love doing all of those things, except I'm not very good at fixing cars, so I would probably make it run a bit worse hehe. But I am really good at taking cars apart and looking like I'm fixing them if you like :)


So get your lazy butt to TENNESSEE!





chiaThePet -> RE: pet peeves (6/20/2008 4:41:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Coupleofwhats

Just because I'm black doesn't mean I'm going to swivel my neck and waggle my finger while I tell you what to do.



Ooooo, throws out a zorro snap and a, "That's right girlfriend."

christie* (the pet)




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