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I have been collared - 6/18/2008 9:29:12 PM   
Bethnai


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I have a job. At least I can say that and I know that there are many that do not. I am thankful for it. I am also fortunate that I like it, most of the time. I am also not the type of individual that is seeking a person to “save” me from having to work.
I made a comment about a month ago to a Dom that I had been emailing with and I wrote, “I have been collared by my job.” It was funny at the time. We had been playing email tag for about two weeks. As it turned out, I was not interested in pursuing a relationship with him so its not the fault of my job. What if he was worth it?

Its not that funny now. Two days ago I came home over 4 hours after my shift should have ended and I did not want to go directly to bed because I did not want to be up all night. It was 11:30 AM. I sat on my living room floor and drank several glasses of Captain and Coke. I did not turn the tv, the radio or a video game on. I drank until at least 4:30 in the afternoon. I am repeating in my head everything that had occurred. I am seeking Oblivion and I’m not talking about the video game.
This is not a case of I need a hobby. I have many. I am an excellent cook and I study, or did, international cuisines. I can take out some aggression on some vegetables. I study, or did, directors or followers of Stanislovsky. I have joined groups where that was our focus. I can recite Shakespeare, although to date there has never been a need for it. I have a deep passion for foreign policy and human rights. I read, or did, everything. I love video games. I have a UM that dictates what I play now, or did. Every available night I would cuff myself. I have not done this in awhile. I used to have friends and they are no longer my friends because I made this job transition. My local best friend just offered to spank me and well, he isn’t my best friend anymore. In retrospect, Eddie Murphy was right.
I don’t know what I am asking for. I think, validation on sacrifices. I think, too, I am doing everything “right” as far as life choices. I read and am trying to prevent that Dom frenzy shit. Its a real bad plan. But within 2 months it will be here. I don’t want that. Maybe, I am being childish, but so what if I am. I really feel weird and alone.

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RE: I have been collared - 6/18/2008 9:36:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		*hugs* Beth...

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RE: I have been collared - 6/18/2008 9:39:48 PM   
Bethnai


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RE: I have been collared - 6/18/2008 9:56:45 PM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		I have an idea of what you are saying.. I am so totally collared by my job - my boss is not only my boss, he's my landlord and lien holder on my car.   I get paid for crap. It's not uncommon for me to have to get advances from work, just to keep gas in my car etc.

I'd quit.. but in this economy, theres nowhere for me to go in my field.  Even if I changed careers (not likely.. no college to speak of), I'm not sure the boss wouldnt get spiteful and I'd be out of a home, possibly a vehicle.
So, for me.. I think collared to my job is generous... more like 'ball and chained'...LOL

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RE: I have been collared - 6/18/2008 10:31:16 PM   
Bethnai


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Status: offline 		And just when I thought my life sucked, somone comes around that makes me want to shut up. That is a rough space your at. My landlord works at the court across from me. I'm thinkin' your shit is a little rougher than mine.

Thats cool and a wake up call that was needed.

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RE: I have been collared - 6/18/2008 11:13:00 PM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		didn't mean it like that....but if it made ya feel better, good :)

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RE: I have been collared - 6/18/2008 11:14:02 PM   
WyldHrt


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Right there with ya! I work for a small, family owned business in which I am one of two people who are NOT family. NEVER DO THIS! Moron nephew (who lives on site and pays jack-squat in rent and utilities) "can't" pay his bills because he's a 25 year old child? No problem! My hours get cut and given to him. Not that he does fuck all of the work that I would in those hours if he can help it, mind. Part of my job now is leaving him a list of things to do, even though he has worked there for years longer than I have and should know this shit like the back of his hand by now . [/rant]

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RE: I have been collared - 6/18/2008 11:26:51 PM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		oh..Wyld...I SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO get that....my current 'manager' is the 'pet' of the boss...

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RE: I have been collared - 6/18/2008 11:58:31 PM   
WyldHrt


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*tacklegropesmooch* ('cause I wanted to.)

Every other week is like this- the nephew is my boss (until he fucks up again), now his Dad is my boss (never there, blows hot air but just wants to go fishing), then my boss is my boss (rare, unless I beat that fact over his head. odd for a control freak like him), and occasionally my boss' platonic GF is the boss (but won't ever answer when I page her).
When the shit hits the fan, I'm the nephew's boss but, as he ignores what I say, I'm left holding the bag.

It really is a fucking soap opera.

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RE: I have been collared - 6/19/2008 3:10:16 AM   
KatyLied


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But you're gonna have to serve somebody, yes indeed
You're gonna have to serve somebody,



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RE: I have been collared - 6/19/2008 7:05:17 AM   
christine1


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Status: offline 		i was in a similar sort of ball and chain situation at the job i quit a few weeks ago. i was one of 2 women in a shop full of 30 men.  a pedophile worked directly with me all day and was a complete dipshit, i'd report things he'd say or do to me and it was like the "good ole boys club", i was never taken seriously.  one time my manager screwed something up and he told me to go tell the shop boss about it becuase he wouldn't be able to get mad at my "pretty face."  wtf?

i'd get home and drink every night, trying to find some escape from the stress.   i knew i had to change something so i went drastic and quit...the circumstances in my life allowed me to quit though, if i wasn't moving in a few months to my dom then i'd still be hooked to that ball and chain and still drinking every night in search of some form of escape.

hugs to you guys.

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RE: I have been collared - 6/19/2008 8:19:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		spanks beth...there there now....

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RE: I have been collared - 6/19/2008 8:31:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		christine, you may have a sexual harrassment suit, from what you have described in your post.

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RE: I have been collared - 6/19/2008 8:39:38 AM   
christine1


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Status: offline 		pure, my dom is wanting me to talk to an attorney about it....i'm just wondering if it'd be worth all the crap involved.

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He is my Master, my lover, my best friend my everything.

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RE: I have been collared - 6/19/2008 8:47:54 AM   
faerytattoodgirl


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ORIGINAL: christine1

pure, my dom is wanting me to talk to an attorney about it....i'm just wondering if it'd be worth all the crap involved.


sue the company for enough money so you dont have to work and send me first class tickets to your new home when you do this.


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RE: I have been collared - 6/19/2008 9:55:55 AM   
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Status: offline 		In actuallity Christine it is worth it. Keep a voice activated tape recorder in an open drawer of your desk and record everything. Keep one with you when you go down to the floor. They come in very small sizes easy to conceal. They will go a long way towards Proof.

Yes there may be a monetary award but more, it will stop them from doing the same thing to the next woman they hire. The one who may not have your escape potential or ability to defend herself.

Please talk to an attorney and see what you can do.

Poenkitten

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