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RE: Someone judged me/my relationship/my kinks - 6/21/2008 6:40:20 AM

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Saying, "You are a sick fuck who should dwell in the seventh level of hell"...not so much.

for some reason the thought of someone saying that to me sounds very very hot!

*laugh* In the right context, I can totally see it.

InkedMaster and i call each other "sick fucks" all the time. He's so romantic and knows just the best things to say to melt my heart!

Regarding judgments and insults on the message boards... well it's a message board on a free public site. i can't imagine getting upset over what someone types, especially someone who i will never meet and who will never be a part of my life, relationship, or circle of friends. *shrug* It's a message board, not a life-altering event.

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RE: Someone judged me/my relationship/my kinks - 6/21/2008 7:27:11 AM

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~fr~ We all judge, all the time. The ones that irritate me are the ones that are always right there ready to judge the judgmental and somehow think the other person's 'judging' is worse than their own. Gotta love hypocrisy.

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RE: Someone judged me/my relationship/my kinks - 6/21/2008 7:42:12 AM

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There are lots of people in here that get pleasure from mind fucking, as an example. i feel that when people post something, their posts always tell more about them than about any one else. That does not just go for people who post something personal, but to those too that feel the need to respond to those messages.

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RE: Someone judged me/my relationship/my kinks - 6/21/2008 7:47:50 AM

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There are lots of people in here that get pleasure from mind fucking, as an example. i feel that when people post something, their posts always tell more about them than about any one else. That does not just go for people who post something personal, but to those too that feel the need to respond to those messages.

heidi

This is a good point.

On a related note, there are occasionally posts that remind me if somebody goes out looking for trouble, the chances of finding it are pretty damn good.

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RE: Someone judged me/my relationship/my kinks - 6/21/2008 8:45:11 AM

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~fr~ We all judge, all the time. The ones that irritate me are the ones that are always right there ready to judge the judgmental and somehow think the other person's 'judging' is worse than their own. Gotta love hypocrisy.

Unless I missed it, I think the points being made are nasty judgmentalism versus tactful judgmentalism. I don't think the issue is whether or not people judge, because everyone judges. It's how we judge that is the issue.

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RE: Someone judged me/my relationship/my kinks - 6/21/2008 8:56:38 AM

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I think there is a difference between making a judgement of an activitiy or kink and making a judgement of a person for partcipating in that activity or kink based off our preconceptions, stereotyping, and limited personal experiences.

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