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Wickad -> RE: Lifestyle double standard? (6/21/2008 11:57:20 PM)

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Greetings,

Just for the record ... there are not more submissive guys on this site than women seeking them.  What there are more of are guys calling themselves submissive when in fact they are HNG's or 'do-me' bottoms.

As to "why we [the OP] can't find a submissive woman" (paraphrasing) ... I'd think this has a lot to do with all of the reasons touched on thus far.  Just because a woman is submissive does not mean she is more (or less) likely to want sex 'all the time' than a vanilla woman.  A woman is not a slut simply because she is submissive.  That being said, most men are sluts regardless of them being submissive or Dominant.

Wickad




flower2007 -> RE: Lifestyle double standard? (6/22/2008 8:40:52 AM)

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ORIGINAL: KinkeeCpl
For instance, the obtaining of sex/play,  or even so little as a phone number or email addy SHOULD be easier, but it's not. 

I don't understand.  It seems that you're assuming every female sub is after sex/play with a relative stranger.  That's simply not the case.  Even though I personally have a stricter idea of what I'm looking for than most, I suspect most females here aren't going to jump at the first man to email them.  And yes, I'm much more reluctant give someone I meet on CM my phone number.  It's called having standards.




MzMia -> RE: Lifestyle double standard? (6/22/2008 8:59:32 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Wickad

(fast reply)

Greetings,

Just for the record ... there are not more submissive guys on this site than women seeking them.  What there are more of are guys calling themselves submissive when in fact they are HNG's or 'do-me' bottoms.

As to "why we [the OP] can't find a submissive woman" (paraphrasing) ... I'd think this has a lot to do with all of the reasons touched on thus far.  Just because a woman is submissive does not mean she is more (or less) likely to want sex 'all the time' than a vanilla woman.  A woman is not a slut simply because she is submissive.  That being said, most men are sluts regardless of them being submissive or Dominant.

Wickad



Thank you Wickad, for saying what I was thinking.
There are MANY Dominant women that seem to have trouble finding "quality" submissives, despite
the numbers on here...{cough,cough}.
Men really are men, regardless of whether they call themselves a "submissive" or a "Dominant", and
that is a fact that many women seem to forget.
Many women seek a serious relationship, period, regardless of whether they call themselves a "submissive" or
"Dominant", and many of us will not settle for anything less.
If there are sooooooooooo many wonderful male submissive's around, please tell me WHY there are so many single Dominant women that have been here for years, that are still very much single?




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