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RE: Is It Time to Seek a Restraining Order? - 6/23/2008 5:16:50 AM   
came4U


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Thats all she ever does is air her laundry, you must not have seen her posts before.


Sure, have seen em, not going to base my week's energy upon em.

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Edited to add: And it WAS in Ask a Master It was moved.  


now it is 'one' message, not messages that were posted in Ask a Master?

Accuse all you want, it is merely a technicality of wording of message vs messages.  If you want to make someone look worse than they do..if that is how you get your kicks, do it accurately.

Even when I get my kicks doing whatever turns me on..I do it properly or don't do it at all.

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RE: Is It Time to Seek a Restraining Order? - 6/23/2008 5:23:04 AM   
Aileen1968


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Status: offline 		The OP has a history of doing this for as long as I've been a member here...almost three years now.  It's not a new thing.  She's been asking the same kind of "help me" questions and never seems to ever really want honest answers, but would rather just  have the attention and "poor you" responses.  It gets old.

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RE: Is It Time to Seek a Restraining Order? - 6/23/2008 5:35:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		and then i see this from her also....



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RE: Is It Time to Seek a Restraining Order? - 6/23/2008 5:42:57 AM   
came4U


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Status: offline 		Oh I've seen them, as disturbing as it is.

But, to dwell on it and pick on a person for it..knowing they may (as some decided) have mental problems? Uhh wow.

Is the unemployment rate so high there that there is nothing better to do? Slackers often find the most fun in picking on those who seem weak.  Maybe cable tv rates went up too?

When I become that broke and desperate, I'd JUMP!

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RE: Is It Time to Seek a Restraining Order? - 6/23/2008 5:53:05 AM   
Usako


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ORIGINAL: came4U

Oh I've seen them, as disturbing as it is.

But, to dwell on it and pick on a person for it..knowing they may (as some decided) have mental problems? Uhh wow.

Is the unemployment rate so high there that there is nothing better to do? Slackers often find the most fun in picking on those who seem weak.  Maybe cable tv rates went up too?

When I become that broke and desperate, I'd JUMP!


This coming from someone who hijacked a thread and derailed it for perhaps three pages arguing and nit picking over minor details?
http://www.collarchat.com/m_1952406/tm.htm

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RE: Is It Time to Seek a Restraining Order? - 6/23/2008 6:05:10 AM   
came4U


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Status: offline 		I don't call my initial comment or confronting someone based on their own story of woe 'hijacking'. Do you see me attacking one single person (with my friends helping) for kicks? 

I think not! 

I don't need assistance for one and I certainly don't need to pick on someone incapable of seeing their own far-fetched issues are mere self-imposed drama.

If you choose to pick on someone, go ahead, but don't think that if I have the time to do so that I won't remind you of how ridiculous and mentally scrambled it seems.  When I am too busy (minutes from now), carry on and get the scooby gang and have a field day. 

I see, I notice, I see Dick and Janes that have both fallen on their heads a few too many times around here. 

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RE: Is It Time to Seek a Restraining Order? - 6/23/2008 6:06:06 AM   
ModeratorSixteen


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Status: offline 		Time to calm down and for people concerned with making other people look bad to cease doing it.Stick to topic and stop discussing peoples alledged mental states or posting capabilities.

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RE: Is It Time to Seek a Restraining Order? - 6/23/2008 6:40:14 AM   
CalifChick


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ORIGINAL: pinkieplum

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick
Can you really not see what is wrong with this picture?


Do you get s'thing out of making posts like this one Cali?  Does it meet some emotional need you have?  Does the irrationality of it occur to you?


I was asking a serious question, I wasn't picking on you.  Trying to direct you toward the forest instead of the trees.

Cali


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RE: Is It Time to Seek a Restraining Order? - 6/23/2008 7:44:19 AM   
GreedyTop


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ORIGINAL: came4U

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you're posting "help" messages in "Ask a Master" because "Masters have a protective streak"...


this is the 'off topic' section, no?

groupies abound.  I don't care where anyone posts or what, I get what I pay for here. 

Is she stealing dominants away from you? no? then worry not.

Edit: I just checked, none of her 'help me' topics were in Ask a Master.


havent gotten past this comment yet, so forgive me if this has already been said:

Thats because the Mods MOVE threads to the appropriate forums when people post something in a forum that is incorrect for the subject matter.
Notice that the OPs threads all tend to end up here, in THIS forum.

For instance: if I were to start a post about, oh lets say Masters and Erectile Dysfunction, and put it in the ask a mistress forum.  The Mods would move it either to Ask a Master, Health and Safety, or (depending on the nature of the post) possibly HERE.


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RE: Is It Time to Seek a Restraining Order? - 6/23/2008 7:49:51 AM   
GreedyTop


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RE: Is It Time to Seek a Restraining Order? - 6/23/2008 8:53:41 AM   
marieToo


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Status: offline 		First of all restraining orders aren't so easy to get.  As an attorney, you should either know that or know where to find information on it. We can't go around calling the cops and asking them to put a restraining order on someone with whom we've have nasty arguments.

What is "hate mail"?   Vicious words?  More arguing? Telling you to stay away from your bro?  You didn't mention that she ever threatened you, your life, your property, nor did you mention that she showed up at your doorstep and assaulted or attempted to assualt you.   Cops don't go around issuing restraining order for family members who fight like cats and dogs over differing social beliefs.  Unless you've got something solid that she did to actually harm your person or property, and can prove it, the cops aren't going to slap a restraining order on her based on some alleged facts that you report to them. 

Secondly, the part of your post that jumped out at me like a red flag was the part about your supposed black/gay friend.   You say she found out before the event about his race and sexual orientation.  It feels like you fabricated the story of this "friend" (who you knew she would disapprove of, not on one count, but two), and told her you were going to bring him to her party, just to piss her off and start a shit storm so you could pursue whatever your agenda is with your brother.

As far as the checks go, change your bank account.  And if you feel she is harming your brother, who may be mentally disabled, call social services.  The rest is all unecessary drama and stress that you are bringing on yourself. 

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RE: Is It Time to Seek a Restraining Order? - 6/23/2008 8:58:29 AM   
sweetnurseBBW


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ORIGINAL: Alumbrado

Proof of what?

One more time, restraining orders are not issued merely because you don't get along with someone,


Aww Damn! That means the mother in law restraining order is out for me.

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