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RE: Dacryphiliacs - 6/24/2008 1:54:06 PM

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Define 'cruel'? she knows I love reactions, I will take whatever form of reaction I want.... if I want tears I will get tears. Like LaT there, ain't no 'hoping' about it... what I go after getting I get!

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RE: Dacryphiliacs - 6/24/2008 3:41:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

Skully.. you sick twisted man LOL

yeah there were akward moments when I was consoling a friend and had to give them the warm comforting hug with my upper body while twisting my lower body away so I didn't poke them unintentionally... at least I didn't take advantage of them...despite the strong urge.

I guess that made up for never getting a boner while having to write something on the chalkboard in class.

and luckily I have never been called on it... certain things you just can't help...but I got a huge laugh the first time I heard:

"The lapdance is always better when the stripper is crying" by the Bloodhound Gang. Its hilarious...

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RE: Dacryphiliacs - 6/24/2008 4:50:41 PM

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Just one question:
Huh?

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Define "mental" vs "physical". I've done physical things to submissives that I knew would have a serious mental effect on them, just to break them and bring them to tears.

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RE: Dacryphiliacs - 6/24/2008 5:55:32 PM

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Sorry, that was to the OP, in reference to his comment of "To clarify, something emotionally cruel, not physically cruel."

I did a quick comment, which is why it automatically said that it was replying to you.

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RE: Dacryphiliacs - 6/25/2008 5:24:12 PM

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It seems like what you really want answered, is if this 'someone' did this to you with malice or not. No one can answer that, but them.

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RE: Dacryphiliacs - 6/25/2008 7:38:31 PM

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As a sub, i thought i'd mention this from a different prospective. By your definition, yes, i've had my Dom do something "cruel" to help me work through something i was having trouble working through, but i didn't then, nor now, think of it as cruel as something that helped me grow. While difficult to go through (and yes, caused copious tears), when all was said and done i could see the benefits and was "thankful" that i had trusted enough for them to take me there.

Cruel, to me, is when someone uses something against me, not for growth, or self-discovery, but simply to cause hurt. That person and i are no longer together.

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