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Aswad -> RE: Gangbang related - Emotionaly destructive sex. (6/26/2008 9:16:40 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz
Not to be rude Aswad, but personally I have no interest at all in being 'reeducated' into being perfectly happy in letting multiple people fuck me at once.
You weren't rude, and I would be fine with it if you had been.
But did I say that you needed to be reeducated? No.
Surgeon's general: if doing X hurts, don't do X.
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I've gone through so many damn medical courses, I've seen more than my fill of skanky std pictures, and that's something I'd like to avoid.
I can sympathize. A just-turned-MD buddy of mine spent his summer in the skin ward, which is where the STD folks go, and he apparently felt the need to share (vent?) what he saw, and I've seen some that were... not nice. Certainly, it's not something I'd want for me or mine. Which is why I insist on condoms. A man's failure to comply with that requirement constitutes the immediate forfeiture of his penis (I have sharp knives).
I've no illusions about wrestling 7-8 guys off her. But once the first wang goes flying off, or the first jugular starts spurting, I can pretty much guarantee that the rest are going to go limp in a hurry. And I wouldn't leave anyone with any illusions of their own about my commitment to their compliance with my safety requirements for her. Nor would I be absent if there were a group going at it.
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Granted, we may just be coming from completely different point of views
Probably not. Even in a culture that doesn't stigmatize a sex act, not all people will do it.
Just because I have yet to find more than three sex acts that disgust me, doesn't mean there are only three sex acts that don't appeal to me, or that there are only three sex acts that I won't do. I'm not disgusted by the prospect of pulling a Mr. Hands, but I'd not do it, because I don't find it hot, and because it takes tons of effort to do it right. That would be analogous to how you feel about gangbangs, I imagine.
Similarly, I don't eat anything pickled (apart from Jalapeños). Not because I find those foods to be disgusting (I don't), but because the taste, smell and texture are outside my preference. If I order a sandwich and find them in there, I'll ponder whether it's worth the hassle to pick them out, and if it isn't, I'll just eat it.
Preferences are good.
But not all distaste or refusal is preference.
I usually don't find African women very attractive. A matter of facial shape. They're not my preference. I do find Asian women very attractive. Again, a matter of facial shape. They're in my preference. No social issues, no prejudices, just a preference when it comes to appearance.
When some Klansman or Neo-Nazi doesn't find either one attractive, that's not preference.
That's simply rearing, indoctritation, prejudice, or whatever you want to call it.
And mainstream society has as many of these as any radical group.
Is it now clearer where I was going with my post?
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I'll be as closeminded as I like, if it doesn't appeal to me, it's probably never going to, and the silly little arguments are just going to irritate me.
Irritating you was never my intention.
Nor did I mean to imply that it had to appeal to you.
Nor do I object to you being closeminded (but it's not my preference [;)]).
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Trying to push and beg for a woman to submit to a gangbang... it's going to blow up in your face- unless she just wants to in the first place.
I don't push and beg for anything. Either a woman is in my bed as a peer, and is to be respected as such, or she is at my feet as anything but, and will be treated accordingly, or I'm topping or bottoming in a session with her, and we'll stick to whatever we have discussed up front in terms of limits and so forth.
None of which has anything to do with Gorean philosophies and culture.
I'm myself, before anything else, a human individual.
Health,
al-Aswad.
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