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How is it possible for a Mistress to dislike Assplay? - 6/26/2008 2:35:38 PM   
GracefulDevotion


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Status: offline 		I mean, I understand different strokes for different folks but we're talking assplay here. It's like a man disliking sex.
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RE: How is it possible for a Mistress to dislike Assplay? - 6/26/2008 2:43:04 PM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		Well different people like different things and since the Domme is the one in charge she can decide if she wants assplay to be a part of her relationship or not. Personally I like ass play (strapon etc) but some Dommes don't and thats their decision. I don't like scat or watersports but some Dommes do, thats their relationship choice so more power to them.

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RE: How is it possible for a Mistress to dislike Assplay? - 6/26/2008 2:48:40 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		A dominant can like or dislike whatever they want.  I dislike watersports, and I will never again give an enema for non medical reasons.  There's quite a list of things that I don't especially enjoy doing, actually.  Oh well!

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RE: How is it possible for a Mistress to dislike Assplay? - 6/26/2008 3:00:06 PM   
Leatherist


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Status: offline 		Because they don't like stinky buttholes?
 
Cmon dude, it doesn't take an Einstien to figure that out.
 

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RE: How is it possible for a Mistress to dislike Assplay? - 6/26/2008 3:01:42 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Just sayin.

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RE: How is it possible for a Mistress to dislike Assplay? - 6/26/2008 3:02:58 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GracefulDevotion

I mean, I understand different strokes for different folks but we're talking assplay here. It's like a man disliking sex.

Or a woman disliking dildos... or a man liking cock, or a woman disliking cock.
Small minds need not apply... not everyone likes ass play. Ass play isnt the end all be all of dominance, hard to believe as it might be. Neither is sex. I have a slave, Angel, who is completely nonsexual. I have no interest in ass play with him. Nor in sex with him. Hard to grasp aint it?

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RE: How is it possible for a Mistress to dislike Assplay? - 6/26/2008 3:09:18 PM   
Morsigil


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GracefulDevotion

I mean, I understand different strokes for different folks but we're talking assplay here. It's like a man disliking sex.


Some submissives don't like assplay, either. Did you really need to ask this question to know the answer?

Not that I'm one of those subs/switches who dislikes it, for inquiring minds.

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RE: How is it possible for a Mistress to dislike Assplay? - 6/26/2008 3:31:06 PM   
darchChylde


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Status: offline 		Absolutely, if your theory is that to be a dominant woman one needs to enjoy assplay; then the logical correlation would be that to be a submissive male one needs to enjoy, or at least, be willing to recieve such.

Anal is my biggest and most concrete hard limit, thus i do not exist.

Edited to add:

Here are the first two sentences of the OP's profile.

My personal philosophy on BDSM is different than most. Foremost, I don't believe in preconceived and set roles per se.

Am i the only one who finds the question posited to be even more humorous in light of the above statement?


< Message edited by darchChylde -- 6/26/2008 3:40:55 PM >

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RE: How is it possible for a Mistress to dislike Assplay? - 6/26/2008 3:59:42 PM   
MamaDomme1


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Status: offline 		darch, I just love you and your wisdom!  Your owner is very lucky indeed!

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RE: How is it possible for a Mistress to dislike Assplay? - 6/26/2008 4:27:58 PM   
DreamyLadySnow


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Even girls, who try to use the excuse that they don't have balls.

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RE: How is it possible for a Mistress to dislike Assplay? - 6/26/2008 4:57:13 PM   
MsStarlett


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Status: offline 		How dare my subs tell me they don't enjoy caning?  Don't they know how exciting it is to me?  I mean, come ON!  I can't reach very far when a sub's face is clutched between my thighs.  I NEED to use the cane to keep their 'worshiping' properly enthusiastic.

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RE: How is it possible for a Mistress to dislike Assplay? - 6/26/2008 5:06:44 PM   
MissMagnolia


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Status: offline 		I find assplay vile. I find anything to do with an anus vile.

OP, do you like scat play? That comes from an ass, so by your reckoning, many of us don't exist and you love scat.

As for  Foremost, I don't believe in preconceived and set roles per se. Hilarious.

I might go off and judge someone else now.

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RE: How is it possible for a Mistress to dislike Assplay? - 6/26/2008 5:12:03 PM   
darchChylde


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RE: How is it possible for a Mistress to dislike Assplay? - 6/26/2008 5:13:15 PM   
LaMistressa


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Status: offline 		Give him credit, darch -- at least he spelled "per se" correctly!

To the OP: there's lots of different likes and dislikes and means and methods for lots of different dominant women. One size mindset and interests does not fit all.

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RE: How is it possible for a Mistress to dislike Assplay? - 6/26/2008 5:20:01 PM   
darchChylde


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaMistressa

Give him credit, darch -- at least he spelled "per se" correctly!

To the OP: there's lots of different likes and dislikes and means and methods for lots of different dominant women. One size mindset and interests does not fit all.



Oh LaMistressa, for me this hasn't been about the OP since my first post; i'm just having a good time now.

Edited to add a space, since i don't know what 'methis' means.


< Message edited by darchChylde -- 6/26/2008 5:21:08 PM >

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RE: How is it possible for a Mistress to dislike Assplay? - 6/26/2008 5:29:03 PM   
MsStarlett


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Status: offline 		Note to self:  DarchChylde uses that Sarcastic Hat to protect his ass because he Hard Limits on ass play.

(Damn.  And all this time, I thought he was perfect.  If he won't wear a tail, he can't be my pup.  Good thing he's taken...)


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RE: How is it possible for a Mistress to dislike Assplay? - 6/26/2008 6:52:13 PM   
GracefulDevotion


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Status: offline 		Folks,

Lighten up. It's a joke. The only thing that should have been communicated is that I like assplay a lot.

Ok, let's try it this way:

(Jerry Seinfeld voice)
How is it possible for a domme not to like assplay?
I mean, I understand different strokes for different folks but we're talking ASSPLAY here.
It's like a man disliking sex.

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RE: How is it possible for a Mistress to dislike Assplay? - 6/26/2008 6:54:57 PM   
MistressDolly


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RE: How is it possible for a Mistress to dislike Assplay? - 6/26/2008 6:56:14 PM   
GracefulDevotion


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Status: offline 		Ahhhh... Mistress Dolly gets me!
*high five*

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RE: How is it possible for a Mistress to dislike Assplay? - 6/26/2008 7:03:09 PM   
MistressDolly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GracefulDevotion

Ahhhh... Mistress Dolly gets me!
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