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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 11/10/2005 4:15:42 PM   
girl4you2


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Hate to rain on the parade here.........

but what you ask and the way you ask is more an inter-racial question to me if there is such a thing anymore.

If you spank.........
consider that you are drawing blood to the area, mechanically.
consider that you are two branches away from the brain in nerve paths.
consider that this mechanical effect has chemical implications in the body.

Do you ask the TV what resistors are activating when you turn to channel 13?

no, you know you do this in this fashion, you get channel 13.
Every TV is different to some degree, but the same.

If you own cats, start pounding them on the ass..........

That's what happens.........we are animals at the core. Perfume and farts beside.

'If a man is to be hanged in a fortnight, it concentrates his mind wonderfully.......'
Johnson, I think.

Those that get it, get it, those that don't don't......
Ron


: ) it is plain as pain to me. and a very great visual; thanks, Ron

<edited to put in post i'm answering>

< Message edited by girl4you2 -- 11/10/2005 4:19:49 PM >

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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 11/10/2005 5:53:00 PM   
JohnWarren


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ORIGINAL: SassyJackiePBG

I need a Hardcore spanking more then I need Guidance or a Daddy...I like a spanking as hard as a Dom can give it...I think maybe you should ask upfront if we are Masochists...which means we probably appreciate and Nice Hard Spanking :) Just my input for what it's worth ...now I REALLY am in the mood for a Spanking !!!!

Jackie

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SassyJackiePBG


You aren't alone. At a demo in Fort Lauderdale, a dom offered spankings for anyone who wanted them. There were so many volunteers that she had to call Libby and I in to assist.

[sigh] the things we do for the scene!

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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 11/10/2005 9:00:41 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		It isn't about two cats my friend.

I am saying if you grab a female cat, and start pounding it's ass....good solid flat hand thumps....see what it does. In my experience it grabs up something for dear life and raises its ass in the air. Why does this occur?
I am not introspective enough to analyze it. It just is for me.

It is also what I meant by inter-racial. We consider that homo sapiens are a separate thing. We are animals at our core.......some accept that and some fight that every inch of the way. Those that embrace it right off usually come out ahead of the game.

Ron

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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 11/10/2005 9:19:29 PM   
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ORIGINAL: fyreredsub

i can only handle soft playful spanks..anything more to me is punishment...but i'm sure there are those sam's to do enjoy.



I think that there are plenty of us submissives who are not sammies out there who love to be spanked. Whether it is with my dom's hard hand against my bottom, or with a spoon or a paddle, I love being spanked.

If I come home from work frazzled, a spanking brings me into focus
A spanking (front and back ) often brings a greater intensity into our sex that follows
If my Dom is irritated at anything from work to family to the neighbors, I love to be used to ease his need to be free of the aggrevation with them all.

And frankly, I love the endorphin rush a spanking brings with it. Spankings don't need to be so hard they are intolerable. There is an interface between pain and pleasure.

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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 11/10/2005 10:40:52 PM   
michaelMI


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Hate to rain on the parade here.........

but what you ask and the way you ask is more an inter-racial question to me if there is such a thing anymore.

If you spank.........
consider that you are drawing blood to the area, mechanically.
consider that you are two branches away from the brain in nerve paths.
consider that this mechanical effect has chemical implications in the body.


Do you ask the TV what resistors are activating when you turn to channel 13?

no, you know you do this in this fashion, you get channel 13.
Every TV is different to some degree, but the same.

If you own cats, start pounding them on the ass..........

That's what happens.........we are animals at the core. Perfume and farts beside.

'If a man is to be hanged in a fortnight, it concentrates his mind wonderfully.......'
Johnson, I think.


Those that get it, get it, those that don't don't......
Ron






could someone please explain this to me?

maybe i'm missing something here, not sure...but what does abusing cats got to do with anything? i'm an avid cat-lover and (maybe i'm reading this wrong) i take offense to the abuse of cats...if i'm wrong about this...i apologize and please ignore this post.

< Message edited by michaelMI -- 11/10/2005 10:42:00 PM >

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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 11/10/2005 11:01:53 PM   
mnottertail


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Ron

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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 11/10/2005 11:04:14 PM   
michaelMI


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Status: offline 		ok, maybe someone else can translate what Rom was trying to say?

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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 11/11/2005 4:17:22 AM   
JohnWarren


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ORIGINAL: michaelMI

ok, maybe someone else can translate what Rom was trying to say?


I'm not sure myself.

On the cat question, Libby had one, Blue. One day after a session, which Blue watched intently from a dresser, I jokingly tapped her on the ass with a paddle. Mind you, the impact was such that if I had hit a football with the same force, it would have rocked slightly.

Blue looked at me and then lifted her ass. I tapped her a few more times and was rewarded by her loud purr. From then on, after a scene, she got her taps. Mind you I didn't increase the intensity; one does not want a creature with lightning fast reflexes, needle-like claws and sharp teeth to "remove consent."

Blue passed a few years ago at the age of 23.

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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 11/11/2005 4:29:23 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		That about sums it up, Sir! Why is that? I don't know. I don't care. It is what it is. Many women (men too? Don't know, don't deal it that flesh) and they act just like cats in my opinion. One of my funnest things in letting someone get into that is to put 'em on a table on all fours (humans now!!!) and not restrained really. Inevitably as the events unfold the front goes down and the ass goes up... go around take the implement under the chin, and say you want them up and looking pretty (I say it some different as you might imagine) go round and go back to work, two seconds later, back around and up, up........ over and over, it is a good workout, you put in alotta miles.

LOL,
Ron

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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 11/11/2005 8:28:25 AM   
plantlady64


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Status: offline 		Hello There,
There are as many types of sub/slaves as there are stars in the sky. Kepp focused on finding one that fits in your Universe and eventually she'll come.
I know I personally LOVE good girl spankings that leave bruises at least once a week.
Sincerely,
sub suzanne

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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 11/11/2005 8:35:34 AM   
plantlady64


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quote:

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Hate to rain on the parade here.........

but what you ask and the way you ask is more an inter-racial question to me if there is such a thing anymore.

If you spank.........
consider that you are drawing blood to the area, mechanically.
consider that you are two branches away from the brain in nerve paths.
consider that this mechanical effect has chemical implications in the body.


Do you ask the TV what resistors are activating when you turn to channel 13?

no, you know you do this in this fashion, you get channel 13.
Every TV is different to some degree, but the same.

If you own cats, start pounding them on the ass..........

That's what happens.........we are animals at the core. Perfume and farts beside.

'If a man is to be hanged in a fortnight, it concentrates his mind wonderfully.......'
Johnson, I think.


Those that get it, get it, those that don't don't......
Ron






could someone please explain this to me?

maybe i'm missing something here, not sure...but what does abusing cats got to do with anything? i'm an avid cat-lover and (maybe i'm reading this wrong) i take offense to the abuse of cats...if i'm wrong about this...i apologize and please ignore this post.

Hello There,
I may be wrong, but if you read his second statement I don't think he means hitting a cat hard enough to hurt it. I think what he means is if you pat a cat (especially a female one) on their bcak closeto their tail they just love it and they stick their butt up in the air for more. I think overall he's saying we mammilialn creatures are not very far from feline creatures as far as liking our rear ends patted for pleasure.
Sincerely,
sub suzanne

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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 11/11/2005 5:08:21 PM   
krikket


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ORIGINAL: tonypad

I am still trying to find that perfect sub for me - one that really really enjoys getting spanking and/or paddled very hard. I think that a female sub might be more likely to say something like "I need a daddy" or "I need strict guidance" rather than bluntly say "I need a spanking".

Can someone elaborate on this? It may help me find my sub!


One thought here is that the word "hard" is relative..what's hard to you might not be hard to someone else, or perhaps they don't know they like hard yet. The reason i say this is that i know i strike (no pun intended..lol) most as a whimp, yet i've often been told that i accepted much more pain (in the form of a spanking) than they thought i would be able to (and noooooo..that's not a dare..lol).

As for "need" i can go a long time between spankings, have gone years between, in fact. Sometimes i don't even realize how much i need one until i'm i the middle of one..lol.

cheers
jimini

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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 11/11/2005 5:10:28 PM   
krikket


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Status: offline 		awwwwwww....what sacrifices y'all make make for the rest of us.. i'm sure the spankees were most grateful..lol


quote:

ORIGINAL: JohnWarren

You aren't alone. At a demo in Fort Lauderdale, a dom offered spankings for anyone who wanted them. There were so many volunteers that she had to call Libby and I in to assist.

[sigh] the things we do for the scene!



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by A. Nin



When your heart speaks take good notes.





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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 11/11/2005 10:04:08 PM   
JohnWarren


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ORIGINAL: krikket

awwwwwww....what sacrifices y'all make make for the rest of us.. i'm sure the spankees were most grateful..lol


We try; we try. Some say we are very trying.

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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 11/12/2005 12:58:57 AM   
michaelMI


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Status: offline 		i have mixed feelings about spankings (among other things) as i haven't had a spanking since i was a child. on the one hand, i am looking forward to experiencing this and other things in real life. on the other hand, i'm a little apprehensive about the pain aspect of the lifestyle.

is this normal, or is my mind creating a form of paranoia over this issue?

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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 11/12/2005 1:16:18 AM   
girl4you2


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ORIGINAL: michaelMI

i have mixed feelings about spankings (among other things) as i haven't had a spanking since i was a child. on the one hand, i am looking forward to experiencing this and other things in real life. on the other hand, i'm a little apprehensive about the pain aspect of the lifestyle.

is this normal, or is my mind creating a form of paranoia over this issue?
from the right hand, they are delicious. just let the spanker know that you haven't experienced this, and they will start easy on you. later, the fun gets more fun. i wish you well with it.

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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 11/12/2005 1:19:12 AM   
michaelMI


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Status: offline 		my Mistress already knows this, but still, i've got mixed feelings over it. thanks for your support girl4you2

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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 11/12/2005 2:11:13 AM   
girl4you2


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ORIGINAL: michaelMI

my Mistress already knows this, but still, i've got mixed feelings over it. thanks for your support girl4you2
you're welcome. if your Mistress knows this, she will know what to say and do to calm your fears, so just try to relax. they really do "grow" on many many people. it's a deliciously warm and glowy feeling.

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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 11/12/2005 4:51:07 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Sunshine119


quote:

ORIGINAL: fyreredsub

i can only handle soft playful spanks..anything more to me is punishment...but i'm sure there are those sam's to do enjoy.



I think that there are plenty of us submissives who are not sammies out there who love to be spanked. Whether it is with my dom's hard hand against my bottom, or with a spoon or a paddle, I love being spanked.

If I come home from work frazzled, a spanking brings me into focus
A spanking (front and back ) often brings a greater intensity into our sex that follows
If my Dom is irritated at anything from work to family to the neighbors, I love to be used to ease his need to be free of the aggrevation with them all.

And frankly, I love the endorphin rush a spanking brings with it. Spankings don't need to be so hard they are intolerable. There is an interface between pain and pleasure.


so ignore the sammie's part.........
to each their own.........
your kink isnt my kink..........

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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 11/12/2005 4:54:12 AM   
fyreredsub


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ORIGINAL: krikket


quote:

ORIGINAL: tonypad

I am still trying to find that perfect sub for me - one that really really enjoys getting spanking and/or paddled very hard. I think that a female sub might be more likely to say something like "I need a daddy" or "I need strict guidance" rather than bluntly say "I need a spanking".

Can someone elaborate on this? It may help me find my sub!


One thought here is that the word "hard" is relative..what's hard to you might not be hard to someone else, or perhaps they don't know they like hard yet. The reason i say this is that i know i strike (no pun intended..lol) most as a whimp, yet i've often been told that i accepted much more pain (in the form of a spanking) than they thought i would be able to (and noooooo..that's not a dare..lol).

As for "need" i can go a long time between spankings, have gone years between, in fact. Sometimes i don't even realize how much i need one until i'm i the middle of one..lol.

cheers
jimini


hmmmmmmmm now i'm wondering do i not like them b/c i used to give them.lol

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