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chamberqueen -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 6:00:09 AM)

My sessions with my Master always start with me giving Him some oral action, and I expect none in return.  It depends on the sub.  If that's what you're looking for then don't accept anyone as a sub that isn't willing to give it to you.  



daddysliloneds -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 6:03:08 AM)

i love, love, love oral sex, but i got to tell you, if it looks nasty or it smells nasty, it ain't going to happen, so maybe, just maybe, that's part of the problem?!



MsStarlett -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 6:09:41 AM)

There ARE male subs who don't do oral?  Where?  I've never seen one.  80% of the ones that contact me seem to want to do nothing else.  (The other 20% want to be my live in sponges - I mean slaves.  *eye roll*)  



TwoNYCDommes -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 7:15:07 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MissIsis
I am with most of the posters here.  Most of the submissive men who contact me offer me oral. 
...
I always get the feeling, they are offering me their wishlist of what they want me to let them do


This has been our experience as well.



WolfsbaneX -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 7:21:05 AM)

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ORIGINAL: candystripper

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ORIGINAL: SurrenderForMe

With all the lists of interest, why do those who say they are so submissive or even slaves, almost never seem to want to orally service their domme, or if gay dom?

Has oral sex just died?

Now you know where my head is at right now.[sm=domme.gif]



OMFG!  You frightened me with this!
 
I couldn't face a whole lifetime without lots and lots and lots of oral sex -- both giving and receiving  I could no more accept a collar from a Dom who wasn't ready willing and able to 'give me oral' than I could from an 'online Dom'.
 
And bjs?  There had better be lots and lots and lots of bjs; I've never been involved with a man who didn't love bjs, but if they exist, I certainly wouldn't accept a collar from one.
 
Possibly people fail to mention oral sex in their profiles because it's kinda assumed it'll be part of the repetorie?  I dunno.  Have You seen profiles where the member says 'no' to oral sex?  How scary!
 
Well, You sure woke me up!  LOL.
 
candystripper



The death of oral might as well be my death. The day I stop wanting to eat my mate's pussy or she stops wanting my lolly in her mouth is the day that life loses a quarter of its meaning lol. Seriously though thats sad. I'm sorry but half of my enjoyment of intimacy comes from pleasuring and the other half comes from giving pleasure. Oral makes up a quarter to half of that pleasure factor.



cjan -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 7:33:51 AM)

Just like Rock n Roll, oral sex will never die.

Psssst, pinkycandyplumy person, per your sig, Vincent Van Gogh painted "Starry Night". It was Don McClean who wrote and sang "Starry, Starry Night". There is a difference , yanno. To begin with, one is a painting and the other is a song...But, thanks anyway for  edumacating us as to  who authored...yada yada yada



LadyRainfire -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 9:15:14 AM)

[sm=dunno.gif]  No shortage of it here, and not likely to ever be a shortage..... If someone is finding a shortage in their lives, maybe they need to look at themselves first then the partners they're choosing.

*nom, nom, nom, nom, nom, nom, nom, nom, nom, nom.....*



JoePNY707 -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 9:44:00 AM)

Surrender, I'd personally have to say that oral sex--both giving and getting--is alive and well! [:D]

Perhaps it just seems that way, due to how the profile structure is set up....



malloves69 -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 9:49:27 AM)

male submissive here [:)] and i love doing oral sex with my mistress ...i swear i could be between her sexy thighs pleasing her for as long as she likes [:)] once her clit pops out it just asking to be licked and sucked on and played with [:)] yes she squirts too love when she gets all wet and sloppy as she calls it [:)] when she wraps her sexy smooth legs around me trust me im not going anywhere until she says thats enough [:)] love pleasing a woman orally and then if she wants my cock too after she climbs on top and rides [:)]im not allowed to cum until after she has but whats really awesome is when we cum together [:)] married couples eat your heart out --lol ..just wished it happened more often except once or twice a week ..oh well i gladly accept the time my mistress gives me [:)] weekends are hardest ..something about saturday and sunday i get horny as hell but shes not around because kid time which i understand [:)] the lady is amazing i must say [:)] have fun mal



CruelDesires -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 10:27:54 AM)

I am waiting for the red wing comments to start. lol

CD



SteelofUtah -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 10:34:19 AM)

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ORIGINAL: candystripper

And bjs?  There had better be lots and lots and lots of bjs; I've never been involved with a man who didn't love bjs, but if they exist, I certainly wouldn't accept a collar from one.
 

candystripper


Well candy and so ends the possibility of us being bonded together for eternity.

I don't care for head. Never have. andi was the first woman to bring me to ejaculation from Oral and although I am sure she is very talented it just isn't one of my turn on's. I see it as a Great way to get me erect but beyond that I want my cock in other orifices.

Sorry I know you are as crushed as I am about that.

I will morn the death of our possible coital escapades in silence now.

*Turns away and Bites his fist*

No Don't cry, be strong.

Be well

Steel



MrRodgers -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 10:41:09 AM)

...and they said it wasn't about the sex.



sirsholly -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 10:43:01 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SurrenderForMe

Has oral sex just died?





if it has, would one of you PLEASE tell Sir? My jaws are really starting to hurt.



CelticPrince -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 10:59:07 AM)

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With all the lists of interest, why do those who say they are so submissive or even slaves, almost never seem to want to orally service their domme, or if gay dom?

Has oral sex just died?

Now you know where my head is at right now. <http://www.collarchat.com/upfiles/smiley/domme.gif>


SFM,

Atfirst I read your post as a spoof then saw tharothers gave it credence. No oral sex is alive and well throughout the planet; even vanillar!

As a male Dominant, just the sight of a cock gets fem subs thinking it belongs in their mouth, just as any male sees a bare breast and feels a needs to get that nipple in his mouth.

Perhaps it is different for fem "D"s but not for male "D"s

CP



LadyRainfire -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 11:33:16 AM)

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ORIGINAL: CruelDesires

I am waiting for the red wing comments to start. lol

CD


No, no, no, no, no, no....... let's not go there, please, please, please???????????

[sm=bowdown.gif][sm=Groaner.gif][sm=bowdown.gif][sm=Groaner.gif][sm=bowdown.gif]



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 11:33:19 AM)

where does it state that oral service is part of a submissive's / slave's duty?



LadyRainfire -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 11:35:03 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

where does it state that oral service is part of a submissive's / slave's duty?


Page 69 of the handbook... right after we're told we're to address all Dominants as Master or Mistress and worship the ground they walk on......  *winks*



SteelofUtah -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 11:35:13 AM)

It's in the Memo I sent out last week. Didn't you get it?

Steel



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 11:37:01 AM)

i'm a sam submissive - i don't follow rules in the handbook



LadyRainfire -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 11:58:46 AM)

[:D]  I knew I liked ya!

<~~~~ is not a brat nor a sam..... (sorta)



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