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darchChylde -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 12:21:50 PM)
i love oral, but i cannot in any seriousness call it service it's just my own quirk and i understand that if i'm doing it for my Owner, how She wants it and when She wants it; then it is by definition, service but for me; in my own perspective, anything that i love as much as sex or oral sex is impossible for me to see as service... in my mind, service is something that i only enjoy because it's for my Dominant, not the act itself calling going down on Ma'am serving Her would seem like asking Her if i could possibly serve Her by recieving a mind-blowing orgasm from Her... it just doesn't click for me even if it's not my idea and i'm not in the mood or i'm tired and crabby (ok, cranky might be a better choice of words there); i will still get into it and be enjoying it by time it's done as far as the person who mentioned "redwings", i'm thinking that the younger generation generally doesn't know what the term means; i personally earned that particular patch on my leathers many years ago when i was running with the Iron Cross Edited to Add: OOOH GOODIE!!! i love it when i happen to get the top of the page

Leatherist -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 2:19:15 PM)
It's a matter of taste.

Lumus -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 3:06:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly if it has, would one of you PLEASE tell Sir? My jaws are really starting to hurt. Riiiight, from....performing oral [sex?] SAMs don't suck up as a rule. [8D] But godDAMMIT can they yak! epiphany Ohhhhhhhhhhhh! That's why your jaw is...nevermind. I'd have to say that oral sex never existed on the threads at all...because you can't digitally perform oral. shrugs So, um, well...the OP's right, yanno...

sirsholly -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 4:54:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lumus quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly if it has, would one of you PLEASE tell Sir? My jaws are really starting to hurt. Riiiight, from....performing oral [sex?] SAMs don't suck up as a rule. [8D] But godDAMMIT can they yak! I am the exception to that silly-ass rule. Now...if you will excuse me, i must go and hide the phone bill....

blmtrsne -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 5:39:57 PM)
My husband slave likes to go down on me, and I enjoy it, but don't like going down on him. But that's no problem because everyone is happy and what's more: I'm the Domme anyway.

DMFParadox -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 5:57:26 PM)
<--Male Dom that enjoys chewing a rug... but there are qualifications. 1. Some women just taste like candy. I don't know what it is, but if they've got that taste then you can't stop me from going down on them. 2. Some don't. If you're one of them, change your diet and stop smoking. You'll probably have much less difficulty getting head from your other. 3. Wipe CLEAN. Or shower. I can't even bang a girl sometimes if I'm smelling feces. 4. And some girls are just lucky with how their nethers are put together. fvcking and licking is far more of a joy with those girls, whether it's angle or location. 5. Some aren't. And it's more challenging and/or requires using more of my upper body strength to get them in a position where they're maxing my pleasure from the oral.

MissMagnolia -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 6:07:35 PM)
My slave views oral sex, as in him going down on me, as a reward, definitely not as service. I don't go down on anyone, because I'm a domme and I can do, or not do, anyfink I like. Cuz I'm the boss, yanno?[:D]

NumberSix -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 6:11:41 PM)
Doesn' seem to be anyfing loike a dearf of it, does dear den? The Scarecrow of Romney Marsh

cjan -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 6:15:20 PM)
Orbs of Joy, indeed.

lusciouslips19 -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 6:23:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DMFParadox <--Male Dom that enjoys chewing a rug... but there are qualifications. 1. Some women just taste like candy. I don't know what it is, but if they've got that taste then you can't stop me from going down on them. 2. Some don't. If you're one of them, change your diet and stop smoking. You'll probably have much less difficulty getting head from your other. 3. Wipe CLEAN. Or shower. I can't even bang a girl sometimes if I'm smelling feces. 4. And some girls are just lucky with how their nethers are put together. fvcking and licking is far more of a joy with those girls, whether it's angle or location. 5. Some aren't. And it's more challenging and/or requires using more of my upper body strength to get them in a position where they're maxing my pleasure from the oral. Ive been told... I'm sweet like candy...[sm=couple.gif]

KatyLied -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 7:21:51 PM)
I've been told... You taste good, I knew you would...

candystripper -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 7:37:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cjan Just like Rock n Roll, oral sex will never die. Psssst, pinkycandyplumy person, per your sig, Vincent Van Gogh painted "Starry Night". It was Don McClean who wrote and sang "Starry, Starry Night". There is a difference , yanno. To begin with, one is a painting and the other is a song...But, thanks anyway for edumacating us as to who authored...yada yada yada Gawd Almighty! Thanks for the heads up, cjan. candystripper

Racquelle -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 7:51:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DMFParadox...change your diet and stop smoking. . Much has been made of how to alter the taste of semen, and I have found there is no food that appreciably changes the taste, but SMOKING!!!!! You are so right. That smell and taste comes out in sweat, semen, vaginal moisture - everything. Gag. I really dislike the flavor of heavy smokers. Thank you for pointing that out. I enjoy the warm ripeness of the human body - that intimate body smell - not the yuggo stank smell of someone who doesn't know how to wash

SkinnyDip -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 8:06:59 PM)
Feces? Really? I mean...I always knew some people weren't clean but considering my soap addiction I never fathomed...unless that's what they were into.

ResidentSadist -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/27/2008 10:41:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist It's a matter of taste. [sm=rofl.gif]

SurrenderForMe -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/28/2008 12:12:18 AM)
So far the first page of responses has me howling (laughing). I was referring to the profiles and the likes list. Then, I actually looked at the "interests and skills" pages and realized it doesn't seem to be listed. LOL. I wasn't thinking about contact emails and their contents. I'm sure I've gotten the same mix as everyone else, even though it has been stating almost since I joined that I am not able to get together with anyone. On a vaguely serious note, I met more oral people in the mainstream than in the scene. To put that in context, since I am mostly into monogamous relationships, I don't have a full statistical pool. That didn't bother me because I am kinky and anyone that had a relationship with me was in a kinky relationship so I got "ahem" my cake and had it eaten, lol. Interesting commentary.

TrippleRed -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/28/2008 1:15:09 AM)
Personally I love oral sex - both giving and receiving. Its a big sense of submision to the woman if Im on the knee's and she's standing - like wise if Im the dom. Even just as a somewhat quick 'relaxant' so to speak after a days work from the partner, oral sex has been a boon. But I spose, to each their own :)

wwwkevinww -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/28/2008 1:34:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SurrenderForMe With all the lists of interest, why do those who say they are so submissive or even slaves, almost never seem to want to orally service their domme, or if gay dom? Has oral sex just died? Now you know where my head is at right now.[sm=domme.gif] After Bill Clinton declared Oral sex wasn't sex, alot of the liberals took that as gospel, and it was removed from the fun things for people to engage in for sexual enjoyment. Sorry, I'm just passively sitting here with my pants at my ankles, she is the one having all the sex.... ;0

softness -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/28/2008 10:36:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkVictory quote: ORIGINAL: candystripper I couldn't face a whole lifetime without lots and lots and lots of oral sex -- both giving and receiving I could no more accept a collar from a Dom who wasn't ready willing and able to 'give me oral' than I could from an 'online Dom'. And bjs? There had better be lots and lots and lots of bjs; I've never been involved with a man who didn't love bjs, but if they exist, I certainly wouldn't accept a collar from one. Oh, hey! Hi, how ya doing? Come here often? Nice shoes. just rolls eyes ....

LadyPact -> RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex (6/28/2008 11:13:30 AM)
There are male subs out there who aren't willing to engage in oral sex? I can't say I've ever found any. Color Me lucky that none of My boys has ever been in that catagory. I think I'd have a heart attack. As for the reverse, yes, I'm the Domme and that means I make the decisions. That means if I want a sub to be in the position to receive a little, it means I'm going to do it. Something I enjoy that much doing isn't going to stop just because someone happens to be a sub. I could never give up oral sex, in either direction. quote: ORIGINAL: darchChylde i love oral, but i cannot in any seriousness call it service it's just my own quirk and i understand that if i'm doing it for my Owner, how She wants it and when She wants it; then it is by definition, service but for me; in my own perspective, anything that i love as much as sex or oral sex is impossible for me to see as service... in my mind, service is something that i only enjoy because it's for my Dominant, not the act itself calling going down on Ma'am serving Her would seem like asking Her if i could possibly serve Her by recieving a mind-blowing orgasm from Her... it just doesn't click for me I don't think you and I are ever going to agree on this subject. It's service because it's what I want and it is what I tell him to do. I don't see service as whether or not the sub enjoys the activity. That's just a fringe benefit.

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