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RE: Masters seeking long distance Subs ..Why?? - 6/30/2008 2:46:27 PM

Maya2001

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The first thing that springs to mind is a wife they want to keep hidden, easier to do when the girl is hundreds of miles away with limited access to those who know the person in real life.

Well tthere are plently that want to hide wifes even locally .. I am pretty straight forwand about asking about a wife or significant other right from the start...and if deciding to take a relationship further I have no problems with asking for home and cell phone number and providing the same in return , my address I will keep private for safety at least till I am sure of them and I do not request theirs either early on, ...if there is squirming or sidestepping it is easy to assume they have something to hide

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RE: Masters seeking long distance Subs ..Why?? - 7/13/2008 10:52:08 PM

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When I was younger, I had a couple very long term friends that I eventually fell in love with, and it hurt because I could not be with them. Now i am at a stage in my life where if i had a friend for a while, i actually could see them! Maybe I have money for bus tickets, maybe I would feel like trying out a new city. I guess what goes through my head when I contact a submissive that lives a long ways a way is "why not? What's the downside to getting to know someone far away when it actually might not be a stretch of the imagination that i would meet them someday?" Now it might just be because I live in a little state with not much a a community, and even if I wanted to be more involved with the community I have seen, I have problems with social anxiety, but I have no problem seeing if I am compatible with someone who lives a ways away. If they have "willing to relocate" marked off. Maybe having a distance one's willing to relocate feature would get rid of some of the confusion people have? Though I would guess that some people like to fantasize and will ask you to move in a few emails later regardless of whatever high tech capabilities the wonderful programmers at CM give us.

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